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Archived questions from: 16 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Am I her drunken mistake or does she want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - I hooked up with this girl (who I’ve flirted with at prior parties) at a party but didn’t have sex with her because we were both too drunk. I got her number, been texting each other lots about whatever, and have made out with her once since our ...

He says the age difference bugs him, but why doesn't he even try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Okay I grew up and I am a lot more mature and smarter when it comes to relationships and guys. And yet, I have a question and it has been bugging me for so long. I REALLY like this guy, he is smart and sweet and funny, all I want. I can talk to him ...

I don't feel that I am in love with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Please help me! I am very confused about my relationship. I am a 23 and my girlfriend is 24 and we have been dating for about a year and 2 months. The problem I have is that I don't feel like I am in love with her. I definitely have love for her and ...

He's great and I want everyone to know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5373 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Alright...so my boyfriend and i have been together for about two years and i lovee him. He’s always a gentlemen and is such a sweet guy to me.however his style, haircut, and lack of shaving has been driving me crazy lately. There is no doubt I love ...

I like her a lot, but I'm scared she only sees me as a friend. NEED HELP !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5313 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - I know a lot of people probably have the same problem, or something similar, but either way i wanted to write my own question because it kinda helps me feel more personal about the advice. Ok, so there's this girl that I've known for a long time ...

We can't afford to be together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I have been with the most amazing man for two years. I love him more than I have loved anyone and I can't imagine my life without him. The problem is I am having a hard time seeing a future with him. We are both single parents and have separate ...

Boyfriend is copying all my hobbies!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi aunts, maybe this is a strange question but here goes. I've dated my boyfriend for about 11 months. He is older than me. I think he was quite the introvert before I met him. I didn't mind that. I am not a needy or clingy person and I need to be ...

Is he like only using me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Well again, There is this dude I fancy. He is in a local band in my area, and i found out he likes me! But alot of people say hes a player, and I totally agree with them, he does get around haha. But its little things he does that makes me think t...

Why bother taking me out on a date if he was just going to disappear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5314 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Dear all another man in my life, another weird situation. I met this guy back in May, we started seeing each other, almost every day and things were going well. He had just come out of a long relationship, so he was holding back and not saying t...

We've told each other how we feel and now are feeling worried that we'll lose our friendship or be awkward!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Me And my friend are close mates and recently went away to devon for a holiday. Since then we have got really close and have feelings for each other. We have both told each other how we feel but are worried that if the realtionship doesn't work we ...

Almost 21 and never had a boyfriend... will I ever find my true love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I have never had a boyfriend and I am turning 21 this year! To be honest, I am very worried now as I am already in the third year of my university life...... And I often gets depressed when I get questions about why i never have boyfriends before. ...

Why is my gay ex still trying to date women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I just found out last monday that my boyfriend has been going on craigslist having sex with men/transexuals and answering heterosexual personal adds from women. When I confronted him, at first he responded by saying he didn't know why he did it, ...

He's become a 4plus beers a night kind of guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has always enjoyed a few bottles of beer after work and in evenings. But a few beer is turning into up to 4 a night. Me and his family are very worried that he is now alcohol dependant. What should we do - he wont admit that there is ...

My b/f proposed for the 3rd time and I accepted but this other guy is on my mind

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - How do i get this guy off my mind? I have been working at it for the past year now without success. I have a bf and he is the sweetest and most loving person i have ever known. I was very much inlove with him until i met this new guy, Jason.Ja...

Turning "off" into "on" in the relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi all, I hope there is someone here that can give me some pointers into turning an on off relationship into an on one. I have been seeing this guy for over 2 years, we get close then he backs off, and it can be weeks before he contacts me again, ...

2 years and no proposal..no love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - My bf of 2yreas hasnt yet pr0posed and its seri0usly geting t0 me. im 18 and he 23. he never even bringz up the subject. cud it be that he doesnt l0ve me?...

Older women Vs younger... What do you think are the advantages and disadvantages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Datin older women, its a fad that's taking over under the radar more than you think. I love older women, between 28 and 39 is awesome, they just know more about what they want and either already have it or are very close to getting it. I have been ...

I want her back. How can I approach this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hii, i was in a lesbian relationship with my best friend 3 years ago. the relationship lasted for only 6 months and during tht we didnt have sex or anything.. we just kissed.. i am still friends with her but i want her back as my lover. Please su...

I can't seem to bring myself out of my shell. Please help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Hi all, I've never dated before. I have asked out girls in the past (and got rejected obviously), and I've tried to work out what is wrong with me - the things that are making me undesirable - and I've pretty much got the jist of it. And what a l...

Could this lead to something more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Hey theres this girl i really like and she sent me a msg saying that outta the 3 other guys shes talkin to im the only one who hasnt asked for sex or photos and she thanked me for it and said she told the other 3 other guys to leave her alone. but i ...

Is he playing with my feelings, or does he really love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hai, well,i have a boyfriend,and i really love him.Its just tht..whenever i needed him,whenever i have a problem,whenever i want to talk to him,he's not always there.He said he loves me and all,but Like last month,i really didnt expect him to forge...

She's 16, I'm 25, and I fear that the changes she'll go through in the next few years will cause us to break up. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Im 25 and my girl friend is 16.I love her more then anything in life and she admits i am her first love and I believe it for the fact that i known some of her exs that sh dated for awhile and never had sex with them.we dated one month before she ...

Out of no where he ended things because he said he's too busy for a relationship, could there be more to this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi, about a month ago I started dating this guy, we've been friends for about 5 years. He is at uni and i am studying part time while working.... He broke up with me yesterday. He said that he has so much work to do and is under a lot of pressure ...

Was it too soon to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - I am worried that I have made a big mistake. I met a guy a few weeks ago, and we are both in our 40s. We really hit it off and have had a great time just being together. He acted very interested in me--lots of heavy kissing, etc. Well, Friday ...

Can relationship work if we can't see each other for 2 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - my girlfriends mom wont let me see her. i am 18 she is 14. i love her and want to be with her and she feels the same. i dont know if it will work though. will we be able to make our relationship work without seeing eachother for 2 years?...

B/f says I need to be more sexy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend says I am the most beautiful girl he has ever seen, except I need to be more sexy...what does this mean?...

Do my feelings mean I'm not ready to date yet? How do I let this guy down gently without feeling bad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - this guy who is about 3 or 2 years older than me asked me out on a date. he always calls me babe and he said he would be honored to take out someone as pretty as me. but the thing is iv never gone out on a date, i want to though but for some rea...

Why are all of these guys married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5374 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Thanks in advance to all who take the time to answer. I have been single about three years. I have dated a bit but not a lot. It seems to me that every man I meet and talk to mentions his wife within about thirty seconds of my meeting him. I am ...

Is there still hope?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5375 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Two months ago now, i dated three times with a girl who is four years older than me. I met her at school, about a year ago. We kissed and, to cut a long story short, i fell in love with her. But after that date, wich was quite perfect, she sta...