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Archived questions from: 20 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He is always saying other girls are cute and hot!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - he says he loves me but he will say that other girls are hot and cute when he posts a picture of someone famous he will say shes cute or hot and he does skype with another girl and and he says that im all he wants but idk it makes me feel bad bout ...

I'm worried that our relationship could be considered cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - hi ya'll. there's this new guy at work, really cute and really nice + we clicked almost immediately. well we've gotten quite close over the past few weeks and i've really enjoyed getting to know him better. his marriage seems to have hit the rocks ...

Why this sudden change in his behavior? Personally AND professionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi all, Please I need your advice and opinion about what I have been through in the last 2 weeks. It is about me and a guy at work. I am so confused it's making me ill. So I have to get this off my chest so prepare your self for lots of details....

Should I claim my child or just let them alone to raise it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Im in a relationship with a woman who is 28 an im 49,we just found out she is pregnant,the catch shes married an i have been seeing her for over a year,my question,i want the baby more then anything if its mine,but i dont see much chance of us being...

The ex or the new lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - i have recently split from a relationship that i have a disabled child with of 4years. i met someone else and rushed into things quite quickly.i love my new lover to pieces and am happy with him, my son loves him too. my new lover recently proposed ...

I was bullied and doubt myself...Does she like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - okay I'm 25 years old 6'3 brown hair not fat and workout and I have low self esteem due to being made fun of in school for being russian or whatever but when I was like 16 and walked around the streets girls always honked or yelled hey baby or ...

I'm trying to do the best for her and she's distancing herself from me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Should I admit to seeing my partners writings and how can I deal with this? Recently my partner made a list of things she wanted. 1. To visit her family. (500 miles away) 2. To go on holiday abroad to the sea. 3. To move in to ...

Why am I so vain in the beginning of relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - In the beginning of relationships, after the initial attraction, I always try really hard to look really good in front of the guy. Like if we go on a date or if we are just hanging out, I always want to look good.. and I hate it! It's like a reflex ...

Bi curious and want to experiement with women but don't know how or where to look

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I've always dated men but have often fantasised about having sex with a woman...I know this will sound dumb but how would you go about instigating something like this?...

He's 18 I'm 14, can he go to jail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I am currently talking to a 18year old and i am 14 and i would like to know if He could go to Jail??...

My life is going downhill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (?) - hello, my problem is that im doubting my reason to live, latley my sex life has just gone downhill. my husband is ignoreing my signs that i want to say that im attractive. i have no idea what to do and on top of that my children are out of control ...

What do guys want girls to do sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I lost my virginity in Feb this year, to my boyfriend of 3 years. So i'm really clueless about sex : / Could any guys give me pointers about how to make my bf happy in bed? Btw don't tell me rim job because he won't go for that... I would but he ...

My ex got married and I'm in bits

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - please dont think me a bad person but i need to write this. my ex fiance got married recently-i have to admit i was completely gutted. i made a huge mistake losing him-although we were both to blame for the split and now i dont know what to do....

She's having a baby with a man who looks almost identical to her brother - Is this weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend's sister is pregnant at 17, and it's with one of his friends - drunken one night stand with a consequence. The thing I am finding weird is that the father of the baby is almsot identical to my boyfriend - her brother! Even his family...

Why won't my fiance sleep with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - hi i dont know what to do with my fiancee and our sex life i ask for sex in a nice way and not just oh i want sex and i still get turned away, it getts me realy frustrated and most time so angry because i dont want to argue with her but more so that ...

Does anyone have any experience dating an Italian man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4326 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I am a 26 year old and dating a 29 year old Italian man. Does anyone have experience with Italians? Are the stereotypes of the men actually a reality in most cases? The relationship is not yet to a point of where I can't emotionally get ...

I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have ...

Why does he stare me in the eyes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - when im with my boyfriend alone, he would lay down with his head in my lap and stare at me in the eyes. how does he feel when he does this and why does he do it?...

Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old? Is it wrong for a 24 year old to masturbate to pictures of a 16 year old? There this neighbor that I know that is 16 years old and I am 24 years old. I can’t help but...

We've been going out for 6 months, is it to early to be in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Ok well basically I am in love with this girl who is also my age, I have been in love with her for around 3 months going out for 6 months. I was just wondering is it to early to be in love? I personally think i have matured enough to unders...

Is it normal for girls to check out other guys and talk about it with the guy theyre having a relationship with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - i was on the phone with this girl that i have a relationship with. the reason why i didnt say that she my girl friend though is that she has a problem with officially being girlfriend and boyfriends. she always says she doesnt think that the title ...

I asked her out and told her to think about it. It's been a day since, shall I phone her or wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - i left another post saying about a girl well she told me friend that she really likes me and she dont love this other boy. So last night i asked her out and she said i dont know and i said ok can u think about it and she said ok. I havent spoke to ...

He seemed very interested but since the 2nd date when we had sex, he's been ignoring me. Did I get played?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I am 31 years old and the mother of a 14 year old daughter, and 8 year old son. I am single. Anyhow, I decided to go back to school to advance my degree. I am always being hit on by younger guys, on campus, but never really thought much of it. ...

I can't stand being with him when I don't love him...so how do I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi So I've been going out with this boy for about a month now. He asked me out a few times and he really likes me eventualy I said yes as I thought I liked him but I have found out that I only like him as a friend. To add to this I was alre...

Dating insecurities & not feeling good enough for him. Anyone have any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hello. I just started hanging out with a guy. He is really really cute and really nice. And though he does not send out this vibe, I feel like I am not good enough for him. My last relationship lasted for six years off and on. It was a terrible ...

Big age gap & it seems he doesn't love me like I love him..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 39 yr old female and I've been seeing a 22 yr old guy! I have fallen in love with him, but have been trying to hide it!! I'm crying as I write this, because last night, we talked, and we've decided to stop the intimate part of our ...

My girldfriend wasn't upfront with me about her past. How do I get over it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

20 August 2009 (?) - how do i get over the fact that my girlfriend kissed another guy and he felt all over her before we started dating and she told me way after we've been dating for 4 to 5 months? i checked and didnt find the question at all please post thanks....

Feel down, was angry, and I called the other girl. Was I wrong???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend had seen two other girls while we were together, i lost trust in him, and i noticed he started calling me less, and i always made all the plans, so we were on and off. just recently a new girl that i knew showed up and i found out they ...

Girlfriend wants to get serious, but are her words and actions too inconsistent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Hello. I met my girlfriend online on a game program a few months ago. About 2 months after meeting online and talking everyday, all day (we still do it) we met in person (I was supposed to see her, something came up and she came to see me!) none...

Questions about sex and dating from a lovesick virgin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - i have 3 questions. first say there is a girl who wants to have sex with me and i want to also, how do we consent i'm 15 male but i want to be ready when the situiaion comes up. second there is this girl i've know since i was 9 and i like her a...

Should I be this anxious going away from my g/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

20 August 2009 (M) - Hi looking for a bit of advice as to how to deal with a situation. I am going away shortly for 5 days to a festival with my friends. I made the decision to go which wasn’t easy cause I have trust issues with my Gf. Its not her fault cause a...

I'm scared that when we meet he'll be put off by my weight... what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - I became friends with someone online last year. The first 5 months, there was nothing at all overtly romantic or even flirty in our email communications. We just got along with each other very well. He surprised me by asking me out two months a...

Is it too soon after getting back together to lose our virginity to each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - im a virgin(17yr) and so is my bf and The thing here is ive been with my boyfriend for a month.i met him a yr ago on aug.2008 and he asked me to be his gf so i said yes then after 1 mon and a half i broke up with him because of some personal ...

Why do guys like to grab girls' behind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - ok so i just started dating this guy and we have talked for about a month...the other day we were talking about how far we have been (i told him i had never kissed anyone before him) and he said that he wants to wait till marrage for sex...he went ...

My boyfriend always looks deeply into my eyes... does this mean he could be in love with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and I can talk for hours...but sometimes it will get silent when he starts to glare into my eyes; for along time I might add, and without saying anything. What does that mean when a man does that? I think he is in love with me. Is that ...

How can I prepare myself for giving my boyfriend a blowjob?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months. We've gotten more physical lately, and he's fingered me before. I'm thinking a blowjob or handjob is in the future, and I've read a million things online, but I'm just not comfortable ...

His interest seems to have really dwindled, what does that mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - So I have been dating this guy for 3 weeks. At first he called,text, etc all the time. We went on a date almost every night and he has even told his family about me (he wanted to invite me to a family function...but we had only been on one date at ...

What does he mean "what happens in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - So my boyrfiend is on vacation whom is traveling all over Cali with some of his cousions, and from his social network status he wrote "what happens in vegas stays in vegas and his lips will be sealed". Now, this has made me insecure cause I know ...

I've dated him for 3 days and I think I'm in love!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5349 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - i think i am in love... i've dated him for 3 days, and known him for 3 days. so i dont think i am. but i CANNOT stop thinking about him!! when i am with him its like nobody else is there. and i just feel really happy. i want to talk about him ...