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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I don't want to cheat so I go back and forth between guys

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13 August 2009 (F) - ok well...i've been going bac in forth between this guy Jon and this other guy Tyler but right now im in a pretty steady relationship with Jon and b4 i started dating Jon again he called me a slut bcuz i always go bac and forth but i only do that ...

Was he just playing with my feelings?

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13 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I met this one guy he had a hf wen i met hi. He told his relationship was going down the drain, becasue his gf was treating him bad and he was tired of it. We were suppose to meet tomorrow. He started calling me his lover.He broke up with his ...

How should I go about letting this guy know I'm interested, if it was his friend who invited me over?

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13 August 2009 (F) - So last night my friend and I met 3 guys at a bar. After the bar closed, we agreed to meet them at one of their houses. Everything was cool, my friend has a bf and I had no intentions of hooking up with anyone or doing anything of that nature, ...

Does this mean he doesn't want to talk to me?

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13 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so a couple of nights ago i added this kid i liked for a while on myspace, we started talking and then he said to text him. So we were chatting and he asked me if i was new at our school, and i said no i'm a sophomore. Then he said "o.. im a ...

I don't want to just live with him, I want some sort of commitment.

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13 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend wants me and my kids to move out of my house and move in with him. I have 3 children and he has two. One is an adult and the other never stays with him during the week. I don't want to just live with him, I want some sort of ...

Am I being paranoid/clingy? Or is something going on?!

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13 August 2009 (F) - okay so there's this guy that i met from a friend and i really like him and he's 2 yrs younger than me. ive been hiding this feelings from him for almost a year and the only people who knows about it is my brother and our common friend. then one ...

Sex has lost its "umphhh" over time!

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13 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and i have been dating for a year and 3 months now and the sex was great at the start of the relationship because i was a virgin. She brought a few kinky night dresses about 4 months in. It all fell apart about 8 months in. I found i ...

Why is he still watching porn? I don't get it!

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13 August 2009 (F) - Well I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 half years. Everything is going pretty well. We don't fight much, we still laugh and have fun, and we have sex regularily (and yes we are both very happy with it!). What I don't understand is th...

He's going to ask me out! The problem? Two of my friends like him too!

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13 August 2009 (F) - I have really liked this guy for a while now, and I've recently found out that he likes me too. All of his friends have told me that he's going to ask me out. The problem is though, I've discovered that two of my friends really like him too. ...

I don't want to lose this guy but my parents are against us being together. What can I do?

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13 August 2009 (F) - im 15, hes 19. we've been talkn for a year and no we havent had sex and im not plannnin on having sex with him. my parents are against it. they decided to ground me until im out of high school. so i dont have a phone and i cant talk to him or see ...

Should I tell him how I feel before he goes back to college?

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13 August 2009 (F) - hey guys so i have this situation with my housemate i was renting my house for summer with other students and one of them is a guy who is 19 and im 21. I thought he was cute but i was like no way because of the age difference. Anyhow we got to be ...

Seeing a younger guy who I want to be exclusive with but I think he's confused!

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13 August 2009 (F) - Hia, Im 23 I got been seeing this guy on the quiet for over a month now. He is 20. He apprached me on facebook to meet up. I knew him from a club i am a member of and we just hit it off rly. But what i wasnt aware of is he has a girlfriend 300 m...

Will she resent me for my stance on smoking?

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13 August 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now. After several weeks of dating she left for winter break. At some point over the break she told me she had a confession - she was a smoker but was trying to quit. I am staunchly opposed to ...

I havent been able to talk to my girlfriend for 3 months, I don't know what to do!

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13 August 2009 (M) - i have a girlfriend of a relationship of 1 and 1/2years .i love her but for 3 months now she has been out of network and we don't communicate ,at first she started ignoring my calls later she switch off her phone.i don't know what to do coz i ...

I really like her but she is still hung up on her ex, what should I do?

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13 August 2009 (M) - hey guys im new so dont know if this is the right place to put this but yeah this is a huge story but i can shorten it... basically went on a few dates with this girl like coffee etc, then she met up wth her ex on his birthday, shes crazy abou...

Does kissing someone equal a relationship?

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13 August 2009 (F) - I was just reading someone else's question where the girl had kissed him and he thought that meant they should be in a relationship afterwards...is that how many other people think also? Because I've been seeing a guy over the last few months, we've ...

My boyfriend is lovely and I have everything I want, so why cant I stop thinking about this other guy?

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13 August 2009 (F) - A while back, I was getting close to this guy. He finally told me that he was falling for me, and I was really happy. I missed him when he wasn't around etc. Then someone else came along and asked me out, and I said yes. I've been with my boyfrien...

In love with a tenth class girl...how can I impress her?

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13 August 2009 (M) - i am loving tenth class girl . how she can love me. how to impress her...

Shy girl seeks shy guy......but too scared to make the first move!

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13 August 2009 (F) - I'm pretty shy and I'm usually attracted to shy guys too...this poses the obvious problem of neither of us making a move! It's always the very confident, very good looking guys who chase after me, and who I end up dating with mutually mediocre ...

Am I doing the right thing? I thought she wanted a relationship and then got with her friend, so I cut her out of my life!

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13 August 2009 (M) - Hey it's me again guys after alot of months haha. Anyway I need help with something I need to know if I made the right decision. Anyway there was this girl who liked me and we flirted and even kissed! but then soon after she tells me she wasn't ...

Why is this guy embarrassed of me?

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13 August 2009 (F) - I met this guy about my age a couple of weeks ago. He seemed and acted so interested in me. He took me out a couple of times and told me he cared deeply for me, and just was so goo goo gaa gaa over me. Now he has become hidden, and ignores my calls. ...

Living with a boyfriend in a dorm room: good idea?

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13 August 2009 (F) - Hello everyone! My situation is that I have been dating my boyfriend for ten months now. We have pretty much decided that we will get married one day and that we are soulmates. He just finished college and I have one year left. The school t...

Why does unbelievable sex not drive a man to pursue it again and again?

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13 August 2009 (F) - I've known this guy for a few months and he called me out of the blue. I go over to his house, we hang out all night and day, and have sex 11 times, I repeat, 11 times!!! He goes on to tell me he thinks that this is the best sex he has ever had. ...

I really like him, but he's sending mixed signals and I don't know how to deal with it!

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13 August 2009 (F) - I really like this guy but I am not really sure how he feels about me? he would say all the right stuff and get me all excited about having a relationship with him then he would withdraw it all by saying something to take it all back i.e he would ...

If a guy says he only wants to 'CHILL' with you and nothing else..what does this mean??

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13 August 2009 (F) - If a guy says he only wants to 'CHILL' with you and nothing else..what does this mean?? I REALLY like this guy and was hoping for a relationship but he says he only wants to "chill for now"....

Am I meant to shave or what if we have sex?

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13 August 2009 (F) - This is a weird question I know I'm 15 yr old female currently in a relationship I've done things to him but I won't let him do anything to me because I'm worried.. Am I meant to shave or what if we have sex? It's worrying me if I do it wrong? ...

I just don’t get why I would still want someone who could be so mean!

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13 August 2009 (F) - Can any guys out there help me? How can guys be so nice, loving and affectionate to someone they don’t even care about!!?? I was friends with a guy for a few years. We would hang out but never really did anything even though he always wanted to! ...

He wants every girl but me, yet he spends all his spare time with me!

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13 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy just over a year ago i was 25 and he was 22 and it was great at first, there was lots of physical stuff and affection everything seemed like it was going well. Gradually over the course of about 2 months the sex almost completely stopped ...

I like him, but I think I hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to fix it!

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13 August 2009 (F) - Hello! I have quite a long question but, well its been going on for a while so here I go... I met someone on holiday last year and I knew he liked me and I liked him but we never really spoke properly and when I left I was really sad...I prac...