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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He said he wanted a girlfriend but when he came bacl home, he changed his mind. why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - i started talking to a boy 7 weeks ago on the internet. he is in the army based abroad but doesnt live that far from me back home. we were chatting every night and started to like each other alot. he has just come back home for 3 weeks and i met him ...

I have feelings for him and for her...Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I am really confused and need help. I am dating a guy, he makes me happy, he wants to move in and he does act like I am married to him. I am happy with him and see a futre. My problem is he does not like me talking to a female friend of mine he says ...

Her severe mood swings are bringing ME down. Ideas on how to deal with this better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I need some help on how to deal with somebody who has mood swings. There's this girl who I have feelings for. She has also told me she has feelings for me. She also keeps telling me how nice I am to her and how great I am for dealing with her ...

Is it me? Is it her family? Why wont she talk to me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Hi there. I'm 18 years old, and there's a girl I like who is 16 years old. We'll call her Claire. We met in February and became friends. At first, I didn't have any feelings for her. We were just "friends". She would do things that made me think she ...

He still hasn't phoned. Is there something wrong with us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hey My boyfriend texted me last night saying "Do you think were working x" i was in tears , Later that night he phoned me up and said im sorry i took it out on you my friend from collage has died . I was abit happy to hear this news but i also fel...

He says at his age a relationship "needs" to have sex. I'm not ready. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hey I am 16, and the guy that thinks im totally amazing; we really like eachother and sorta go out. He is 19. In 5 months he will be 20. He says that at his age a relationship needs to have sex. Im totally not ready for sex. I have told him my view ...

I'm confused...would this be an incestuous relationship or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Please help, im am seriously confused. My half brother has a half sister who i really like and who really likes me. my half brother and her have the same mother and i have the same father as him but not her. me and the girl do not have the same ...

I don't think he'll like me because I'm of mixed race... how do I get him to love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt, My biggest problem right now is that I'm crazy in love with a very handsome guy, but the thing is, I'm mixed race, half-black half-mexican, and I don't think he'll be into me cause of that. Please help me find a way to get him t...

I lost my virginity recently... why does it still hurt when having sex? And why did I bleed the last time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and i have recently began having sex, i lost my virginity to him. It hurt the first time which i expected and i bled a bit that time as well as the second time however it continues to hurt each time we have sex. I am prepared before we ...

Girls: WHAT are the signs that a girl wants a guy to approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - girls: WHAT are the signs that a girl wants a guy to approach her? help me out here! is there a general sign or does it depend on the person? and do girls want guys that they've just seen to approach them?...

I cheated on my boyfriend with this other guy I like, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I recently cheated on my boyfriend, we didn't go all the way. I really like the guy and he likes me, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I do?...

How do I go about making a threesome in the best way for both of us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for a long time and had our ups and dwns and I want to make things interesting by having a 3 sum before we tie the knot to make up for the too low of a budget for bachlor and bachlorette parties. I'm fine with ...

I feel like I've got nothing to show for my teen years! How can I change this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - In a few months i'm going to be 17, and i just can't shake the feeling that i have wasted the prime of my teen years. I've only ever had a gf for like 2 months, only kissed one girl, have barely been to any parties or stuff like that. I go out like ...

I'm in love with her, but she's with my friend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Alright. So I've known this girl since I was in 6th grade (now a Junior) and I've always loved her. At one point, I told her how I felt, and we went out. For a day. She said it didn't feel right since she had just gotten out of a relationship, and I ...

Utterly confused about my feelings towards him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I'm new to the dating scene, so I'm quite clueless to all the dos and don'ts. My situation might be a bit complex but bare with me. There is this guy at work that I'm not sure if he is interested in me or just want to be friends. He gave me a cut...

I feel so stuck...why can't I just stop loving this guy? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5230 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hi, sorry this is going to be a looong one. I have been with a guy off and on since I was sixteen. At first everything was great and my family life was horrible at home so the day I turned 18 I moved in with him. Then, I ended up pregnant. We were ...

Help! We have a LD relationship, but her lack of contact is so hurtful! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Dear Readers, Thank you so much for reading this.. My girlfriend and I have been on a long distance relationship for over 2 years now. I met her when I was studying aboard in Japan, and after my term has ended at that school, I came back to t...

Guys distract me way too much from my life goals...how can I stop doing this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Every semester, I always let some sweet talking guy derail me from my goals. The main reasons is that I can not really make friends at clubs because I want to transfer soon and have to stay focused. I also get extremely lonely and just allow a guy ...

I have feelings for him that go deeper then friendship..should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing an amazing guy for a couple months now but it’s become more of a friend with benefits relationship then anything else. We are both totally comfortable with each other and could just sit and talk for hours but at the same time ...

Carrying around this wounded heart...how do I work this through and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Hi there...Well I dont really need help!...I know what to do,I have been thru this kind of experience... But I feel like I need to scream,to cry,to explode... So I had this bf for almost 2 years,and we also work together.So one day I spied his cell...

Two cultures...one wedding! How do we do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for six years and five months today. We're actually getting married in exactly seven months but we STILL have not compromised on a theme to the wedding. He's Mexican-American and I'm Irish-American and we want to ...

She lied to me and cheated! Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I’m a 34 year old blk male I’ve been with my girlfriend for about nine years I ask her to marry me about five years ago she said yes but she started cheating on me. for about a year and a half till I found out she said she would stop but she kept ...

Thanks to Agony Uncle RCN! You helped me immensely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - My last post didn't show up because I guess it wasn't "question" related. But it is an update from what I posted on the first of August. rcn was a major help and I would like to thank him for everything he told me. I did exactly what he said and it ...

First date questions! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy recently. Although it was a very vague meeting. We were at the same party. He introduced himself, and we didn't really talk the rest of the night all though he did sit next to me at one point before getting kicked out of that spot. I had ...

She won't remove this guy off her MySpace!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - Hey... my girlfriend had a guy message her that she said she talked to like "that" before we met. but once we met she stopped talking to him. he wrote her on myspace when she was at my house and said "hey whats good, i miss yu girl i want to see ...

My cop boyfriend is obsessed with me! How do I get out of this relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Complicated... I am in a relationship with a veteran police officer. This relationship sucks. We started off while he was married, (yes it was wrong) and he left her to be w/me. Problem is ..to me..he's obssessed. I am not sexually interest...

Committing to someone scares me! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I'm going to try to say this as best as i can, so bare with me. Okay, I'm currently single and i dislike it like mad, i really would just love to find a girl, some-one to hold ect ect ect. For awhile I didnt get why i couldnt, I'm not ugly, gir...

He has a gf but I love him! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid i have loved this boy for ages now. but he has a girlfriend. the girlfriend is totally in love with him but she doesnt treat him good. me and him always flirt with each other and i like it because i know what ever happens it wont get out ...

Help! My boyfriend thinks I am a flirt and as a result, keeps breaking it off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I could really use some help, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really love him, more than anything. We only ever have one problem. He thinks that I am a flirt, but I'm not and I would never do anything to mess this up, he ...

How do I win back the trust of my former mistress? Will she take me back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

9 August 2009 (M) - I'm 40 years old and will be married for 12 years this month. Last year, I had an affair with my Exec Assistant, who is 8 years older than me and a truly sophisticated lady. It started as friendship, but then I lied to her and told her my marriage ...