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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He's really sweet but I'm not sure I fancy him as a boyfriend....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, I met a really sweet and handsome guy last Sunday and we spent three days in a row together! Thing is I really like his personality and he's incredibly into me but I'm not sure I fancy him enough to get more deeply involved. I mean he ...

He likes me more than I like him....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Is it necessarily a bad thing if my boyfriend is a lot more into me than I am him? He liked me for longer than I liked him before we got together and we've been dating for about a month and a half. He seems a lot more confident in our relationship ...

Did something to make him mad but I really like him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - i need help to win back or get this guy i like all together. ok i worked with this guy and started to like him cuz he was giving some extra attention dumb stuff like throw things down my shirt and stuff plus hes bomb. at first i thought he liked me ...

Found emails he sent to another woman. Did he cheat or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - i found out that my husband had some kind of relationship with another woman (don't know how far it went). He assures me that nothing happened, but the emails that he sent her, the words he told her sounded like he was either in love or had a huge ...

He threw me out because I don't agree with him all the time

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend kicked me out of our home on sunday, leaving me heart broken and homeless. his reasons were basically to cut a long story short that i react differently to him in situations and this frustrates him, im a very emotional person. I have ...

Once a cheat always a cheat? Can you be faithful to "the one"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I have cheated in the past but then I thought I had met the "one" and I could never do it to them. People say once a cheat always a cheat I don't believe this. Does anyone think that once you have messed someone around its simply because they are...

Was she just doing her job, or did she like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - okay there's this girl that works in a drive up esspresso and when I drive up to buy coffee she's very nice and I never gave her a tip just to see if she's only nice because she wants a tip, anyways she was the first to say how is your day and then ...

I'm shy and in love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - hey, i have known this guy for like 5 years and he spoke to me loads at first (i was really shy) but he wasnt single so i thought nothin of it. he split up with his girlfriend but never said why and from then on he spoke to me even more and we had a...

Are good gut feelings always right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5360 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I am just wondering, has anyone around here had proven that their gut feeling is right? Can we trust our gut feeling whether it be negative or positive? Why do I always read stories here that negative gut feelings are right like for example chea...

I'm really afraid of everyone finding out about me and him, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - It's a long story. I was in love with a guy who was 19, but i was too young at 14 and I knew it. my friend who was a bit older went out with him for a bit, but she didnt like it and they split up. He said he loved me. i loved him so we went out but ...

My ex won't leave me alone, how can I get rid of him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - i have an ex that just wont leave me alone. he's 20 and i'm 17. he tried to control me when we were together and i got fed up after 2 months and ended it. i've recently started to get back to talking with my close friends and i've also started ...

I love her but she just wants us to remain friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I ran into dis girl some months ago after a very longtym so we became buddies.meanwhile i had a strong feeling for then i decided to let her know.she replied by say'n she lyks me and would only want us to remain friends i tried to convince her but ...

I think my boyfriend is planning to kiss me next to he sees me, but I'm not sure how to! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5318 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hey, So im 13 and i have just met this boy who I really like. We are seeing each other for the moment... but I will only see him like every month. He lives 15 minutes away but I only see him when at a holiday home every month. He is the nicest pe...

It feels like her love for me is fading...what can I do? Can I fix things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - Ok this is probably going to be a long story. So Like a year ago I was going out with this girl she's in the 10th grade now and I'm in the 9th, We broke up some time ago. Well about 6 months ago I started seeing her sister and we are still together...

Girlfriend slept with flat mate..now what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I live in a flat with four people. the other guy is "mike" and I am dating "Nicole" Now I was drunk one night and as a joke suggested that "nicole" and I team up with "mike" and his girlfriend "stacey"... "Nicole" quickly repli...

I'm in love with an old friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I'm in love wit an old classmate of mine so i decided to tell her.she said she doesn't feel like having a relationship wit anyone.i asked why but she wouldn't say why.i tried to convince her that i really love her but she said she would only prefer ...

My daughter is dating a much older man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5335 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I need advice from people I don't know. My daughter is 19, and will be 20 in March. She dated a guy more her age, but he didn't treat her like a man should. She met another guy that is 31, will be 32 in September. This guy has teated her so good. ...

I hate him for making me like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - This guy I know has been treating me differently. I hate him for making me like him. He probably doesn't like me anymore but he does things to make me think otherwise. I hate how he talks to other girls who are his friends and not me. I liked him ...

I broke up with my boyfriend just to spend 9 days with him, but now he doesn't want to see me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - this year i took part in a show and one of the boys doing the show i got on with really well. at that time i had a boyfriend but as i started seeing more of this other boy, i started to develop feelings for him and i didnt know what to do. when he ...

I feel so lonely and have no idea how to find a real relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - helloo I posted a few months ago on here about a bad experience i had and what i learnt from it. To cut a long story short, I have a lonely life no close friends and never been in a relationship. I was also very into porn and visited a brothel ...

I'm unbelievably shy and cannot bring myself to ask this woman out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - ok this may take a while but the way im feeling, i really need to express myself. The first thing you should know about me is that im unbelievably shy. I've liked this woman for about 6 months now and i have no idea how to take it further. ...

I fell in love in Thailand and desperately want to keep in touch with him, but he hasn't replied to my text!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5332 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - This is a long story but I'll try to be as succinct as possible. I hope you can bear with me. I recently went on a 2 month trip to Thailand, my main purpose being to teach English to the local schoolchildren there. I was staying at a resort for ...

My ex never showed any interest in my children, and I think this new guy might be the same too! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I was in a terrible relationship that ended a little over a year ago. The guy never wanted to have anything to do with my kids--I waited thinking things would eventually click between them, but it never did. Now I am dating a really great guy (for ...

My girlfriend has arranged for me to have sex with her friends! Should I run a mile?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I know how this is going to sound but it's the truth, I swear to God. I've been with my girlfriend for three years now. She's the woman of my dreams to say the least and our sex life has always been fantastic. However, I've discovered a sid...

Am I in denial about being stood up? Or could something have happened to him? I'm really worried!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I am so confused! there is this guy that I have liked for ages and ages. we work together and are always flirting and the tention was just building and building. the night before last, i had a few of my friends round from work, including him. well ...

Should I throw away our relationship for someone that I might not have a chance with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I started to get close to this guy, I would only see him every couple of weeks but eventually he told me he was falling for me. I was very happy, because I was at last getting somewhere with him. Then I started hanging out with a friend of a friend...

Frustrated with my ex, does he want me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Im super frustrated.my ex and i have been in contact *been broken up over a mo*.We've slept together 2x, he's supposedly dating/hanging w/ someone we know, rubbed it in my face as much as possible *to get me jealous it seems*.Seems hes into ...

We live apart, are friends, he has a girlfriend, but I think he's interested, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I recently went to visit a friend of mine who I haven't seen in a couple of years, and after spending the weekend together I realized that I have some pretty strong feelings for him. We have known each other for about 5 years or so, l...

Do I take the chance or give up before anyone gets hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Before the story my question is do I take the chance or give up before anyone gets hurt? The background is we met at work, he pursued me but I rejected him at first because I just don't want to be hurt again. Ended up giving him my number lik...

I'm always the one to call or text him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so I need your advice on two things: WHY is this boy being so weird and HOW do I get over him. I've known this guy for over a year now, but recently we were involved in something together so I got to see him a few times a week. He didn't ...

I think I'm just his date for the moment

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for a month. I feel worried that I am just someone he is dating for the moment (and I am getting very deep feelings for him). He never tells me how he feels about me--like if he loves me, or even if he just cares about me. ...

Had sex with her, but she lied about her age - shes underage but now wants it every time we meet. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I'm 18 and she's 15 ... i really like her but she's fairly sexually aggressive and it's illegal ... what should i do? i mean she's not only in it for sex but she loves it ... she had told me she was 16 at the beginning and i apparently did something ...

First date; should I go for another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I just went on a coffee date after meeting on an on-line singles site. All seemed to go fairly well, as we departed company I asked if she would be interested in another date, which she replied "yes, but I'm busy for the next 3 weekends". Should I ...

Sometimes I yearn for the single life and the thrill of a first kiss

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I am in a committed relationship, but at times I still want to see other girls, I still want to be in single life, and have that thrill of the first kiss. Sometimes I feel like my current girlfriend doesn't even appreciate me. What do I do?...