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Dating: Help and advice

I love him and I don't want it to end...what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for a year, and in January we broke up b/c I found out some things about him that he had been hiding from me. Our relationship had a lot of ups and downs, mainly b/c he had issues with commitment. However, for the most part I ...

One guy is cruel..the other guy is so kind! Why am I so torn as to which one to choose?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I've been stuck in a serious dilemma between 2 guys. One is the sweetest, kindest and most unselfish man who would do anything for me and would make an unbelievable husband/father. The other is selfish, unmotivated and somewhat cruel at times. ...

He's giving me the eye but he has a boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - Hi, basically I'm a gay guy and have had a very attractive (to me) guy giving me the eye for a few weeks as a customer in the shop I work in, and I plucked up courage to ask him for a date, to be told very sweetly that he had a boyfriend - I said ...

My gorgeous gf gets hit on by other guys and she hates it. How can we deal with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - Hi Aunts, My Problem isn't really a big one but its driving me mad!My Girlfriend is super attractive Shes 5 11' skinny long brown hair she could pass as a model.Thats not the problem though the problem is every where we go shes constant...

Dating 7 months and he won't tell his Mother about us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months. There is a 10 year age gap. We are very happy. He says he loves me, but he hasn't told his mom about me. He is 30 I am 39 an i have 2 kids from a previous relationship. Am i wasting my time?...

I need to know some good "make-out' do's and don'ts..any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - what are some good make out do's and dont's for me? (a guy)....trying to please my gf. and if we have only made out once in 3 months- is that moving too slow? and if my gf doesn't express her feelings for me as much as i do to her....is there ...

Long distance relationship and now, he doesn't text me back! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I met a guy and we dated for about 3 weeks. We both felt a great connection and really liked each other. We do not live near each other, so we talked over text message when I had to return home. At first the texts were very nice and sweet and said ...

His 30 year old daughter has big problems, she dislikes me and now we are forced to sneak around to meet up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Should i stay or should i go? Ive been with my bloke for about 10 yrs. We are really good together when we're together (and alone) problem for me is his daughter (around 30) still lives at home and uses him for entertainment and sustenna...

Is he not sexually attracted to me? What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - i have a man who tells me he's not into sexual things for instance, like trying new things with food, me dancing for him, or doing all the freaky things I would love, to please him. Is it because he's not sexually attracted to me? help, what am i ...

It ended with me looking like the bad guy! I feel so down..help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for one year and then we broke up and we were dating for 2 years, but we were not in a relationship. for the past two years he stopped calling me less, he said he did not feel 100 percent sure about our relationship but we ...

He's a great guy but...I've lost respect for him! Help, I'm disillusioned here!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Simple to explain my situation, but don't know what to do about it. I have a partner who is a good guy I've know for 15 years and we've been together 10 years. I think he genuinely loves me, although it's never been exactly passionate and I have inc...

He comes, he goes...how do I deal with this odd relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and 3 months and we have got a 5 month old baby but we keep arguing really bad and he moved out but then i begged him to come home but now hes back i want him to leave but if he leaves i know i will ...

A guy has asked me to his senior prom, but I don't want my boyfriend to get mad. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - not a major question but i was just looking for some advice. well theres this guy who asked me to go to his senior prom with him next year, and i didn't know how to answer him. because i have a boyfriend who i've been with for 10 months and i kno...

Is this normal ... or am I going crazy?

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7 August 2009 (F) - I just finished chatting with a very wonderful guy I met online. Aside from that, I am answering emails from guys who said to me they are interested to get to know me. As a matter of fact, I am confused now who said this or that and I always reread ...

Things are in the way of our relationship, should I call it quits?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - ok so im still going out with my boyfriend and we've finnaly went out on a date so, a week later my mom put me on punishment so i cant call him or see him, so now that its almost the end of summer and i might not get to see anymore becaus eof my ...

What should I say in my text message?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Well, i met a boy this week. He's so nice. Well, he's like.. perfect for me. And, i have his phone number since this afternoon but i don't know what to send to him and he hasn't got my number. But i asked him his number. I mean, it's not a friend w...

I'm at the end of my tether with our relationship! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and 4 months now and i really am not happy anymore. I love him to pieces but he is always making me feel small. I have to go home whenever he wants to see one of his friends. I cant be there ...

In a LDR, do you think this is worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Its been 8 months now since I first met my boyfriend, we started going out as friends and only having a good time, things happened and now Im inlove but im in new jersey and his in key west.I fly to see him at least once a month for 3 days he has a...

I want to lose my virginity but I'm afraid of being 'bad' in bed. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Im dating this guy who is a little older than me. he is the nicest person in the world, and i do belive i love him. i trust him. etc. and i think im ready to lose my virginity to him. but as hes a bit older hes had experince with girls and i dont ...

Why is the girl I had a crush on so interested in hooking me up with someone? Is there more to it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - Ok had a crush on my female friend but she never gave us a chance even when i told her everything from my heart ,and then when she hooks up with a guy she tells me not to talk to her aagain. so she gets back in contact with me after the break ...

The girl I like is seeing someone else, would it be weird to contact her occasionaly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - Recently- A girl found out that I was interested in her, but she was already seeing someone else. Will it weird her out if I still occasionally send a text/ leave a post on facebook? Should I talk to her less or not at all? Help me out please! ...

She has slept with numerous men whilst we were dating and now she has disappeared!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - I started a courtship with a girl in 2003, at the end of 2004 we stopped the courtship because she was pregnant and she had never slept with me. A year later we started dating again and developed an interesting and serious relationship. She is now ...

Was I just some joke to him or does he actually like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I met this lad yesturday and we had an amazing time in town, he had his arm round me and was tickleing me and making me laugh. I felt really happy being with him. When we was waiting for the bus he even kissed me and when we was sat on the bus he ...

I found out she had got another boyfriend whilst I was ill in hospital, but now she claims to be missing me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - I had been in relationship with a girl for the last 1 and half year. One day, I was sick and hospitalized for about 2 months. the 1 week of sickness time my girlfriend is normal. After that she hardly contact me and when I did she has lot of ...

My friends accuse me of being with my b/f for his money, not true! How to deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend runs a web hosting company. It's not just online though - he does meet with clients offline (i.e. face-to-face, these are business clients, not members of the public). When I told friends what he does they accused him of being as ...

How can I tell her the truth about how many people I slept with, without losing her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - I have told my girlfriend that I only slept with 5 people as she has only slept with 4. I did this at the start of the relationship. Last night she asked me again for the names of the people but I could not remember who I had told her as my f...

Did I scare him away by telling him I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Did I ruin things by saying I love you? We've been seeing each other for four months. He has told me many times how he loves being with me, wants me to open up to him, and that he was falling in love with me. He told me "love ya" tonight, and I ...

Give him the boot or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Hi and thank-you very much for reading my question =) .. I have been going out with this guy for 9 months now. I've been falling in and out of love with him because he's changed a lot throughout the past months. He also started to randomly talk to ...

Do you think I should just scrap the idea of going to visit him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Hi Cupids, I have just started sort of seeing a guy. We became friends very quickly and ended up in bed very quickly too. I thought it might just be a one off thing, but we both felt this incredible connection and like we'd been together forever....

Why do people in relationships play these games?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Games! Why do people in relationships play these games?! My bf has weird phrases that he uses and I don't know if he means them or not. Like when we argue, he'll say something like "I honestly don't think this is going to work out anymore.." and ...

Just realized I have feelings for my boss! Should I say something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so I just turned 18, and my boss is 23. I just realized my feelings for him about 2 weeks ago. We flirt back and forth, playful jokes and gestures... But how do I know he's not just goofy like that with everyone? should i say something? Im ...

Do I give up? Back off? Keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - There is this guy I met almost a month ago. I've had some trouble with guys in the past, so I was skepticle about letting this guy into my life. I'm 15 and he's 17. I really like him, and I thought he liked me. We're friends for now, but he knows I ...

I hate apologizing, but I think I'm in love with him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I like this guy so much.I feel like i messed up my chances with him. He flirts a lot with other girls, and he seems to know that he's just so sexy. I get jealous very easily, and i have been having so much mood swings with him lately. I can give him ...

Doesn't express his feelings, should I say something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so I've known this guy for about 10 months. I started dating him about a month after we met... things were good for about 3 months and then he broke up with me saying that i wasnt "his type" and he just wanted to be single, which was fine with ...

Should I make my move? I am very shy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - I started working two weeks ago at a research lab in a university. There I work with a variety of people (post docs, graduate students, undergrads, etc). There is a grad student that I like a lot. We both stare at each other everytime we have a ...

Does this guy have a thing for me or is it just my imagination?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (F) - OK, I am really confused. About more than a month ago, I started this new waitress job at a new restaurant. I worked with this guy who got hired, along with his brother. I will call this guy Neon. I will call his brother Sam. Anyway, I wa...

Should I take the risk or just bottle up my feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - My roomate recently told me that she is getting a new job. This really scared me because I realized that she may eventually move closer to this new job. I have tried not to feel anything for her because I am not only her roomate but her landlord but ...

How do I 'make out' with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - i am 14, and never like 'made out' with a girl and its really embarrassing, and i really want to, and my friends at school laugh at me and call me names over it, and when ive came so close to doing it i get reall nervous nd feel sick, i think its ...

How can I be less possessive and learn to trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

7 August 2009 (M) - hi i m from india and i got engaged with a girl couple months ago , i love her she is very sweet straight and clear to the point ,but i m so possesive about her , as an indian traditional guy i always wanted a clean girl with high character, but ...