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Dating: Help and advice

He's making excuses and I'm sick of it! How can I tell him this without ruining anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - okay so this guy and i like eachother, we aren't dating because he doesn't want to rush...we have had these feelings for about a month! we have already had sex twice...i feel like this is going nowhere and that i am wasting my time...i don't want ...

She can't love me..but how can I make her love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - How can you make a woman you do love, love you?? Even though she already told you that she cannot love you?...

He dumped me because apparently, I didn't communicate enough! Is this a good enough reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm not quiet sure of what my question is but was hoping some people can shed some light on this scenario so i can understand things better to move on. recently a boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke it off with me, out of the blue. it has been the best...

Break up after 7 years...will I ever get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ive just finished with the love of my life of 7 years, my question is how do i get over this? will i ever stop thinking about him? should i stop all contact as we still talk online ...

Is there a way to cope with continuous rejection by guys?

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10 August 2009 (F) - is there any answer to continuous rejection.guys don't like me no matter what i do .i need help please. can some one anwers my question its really up setting me i never had first boyfriend and let first kiss.guys just continuous hurt me and i...

I'm jealous! He spent more on his ex than me! How do I shake these feelings off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend went into debt buying things for his ex. But he doesn't spend very much money on me- he did learn and grow wiser from having made so many mistakes from that relationship but I am still mildly jealous that she got him to spend...

We broke up and I'm lost without him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - i just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and i truely thought we had something special. he told me we'd be together forever and he even knew when he was gonna propse. im lost without him, i know it sounds stupid but i just really need someone to ...

He's dumped me twice before and now again! How do I get things back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 years has just broke up with me due to alot of problems. He's now saying he doesn't have enough feelings to be in the relationship with me. He's done this twice before so how do i get things back on track?...

I have been left heartbroken and I can't funtion! What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hey. My boyfriend has recently broke my heart. I started a new job about 6 months ago and there was this guy that worked there that I got on really well with. As the months went by we started gettin really close. Two months after I sta...

Please tell me...does he like me???

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10 August 2009 (F) - hey everyone, ok so there's this guy that i really like and i'm not sure if he likes me back. last week me, him and a group of friends went to sixflags and me and him would get on most of the rides together. here are some signs that make me think...

My boyfriend's ex is having his baby and I feel jealous

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start... When I first got together with my guy, I knew his ex was having his baby, and I seemed alright with it. I was warned, when I first met her, that she wasn't actually a nice person, in fact, she was manipulative and...

27 never in relationship, I don't seem to attract the right guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - hi, i am a 27 year old girl whose never been in a relationship. i am not that beautiful, but i think i look nice. but as the years pass by, i don't think any guy is attracted to me, and i'm starting to have the feeling that i'm lonely, especial...

What's this guy up to? It's like he wants me to NOT like him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - me and sam were together for six months but then he started to argue with me for me to not to like him no more. i told him how he was carrying on but said he dont know why this happens to him so he decides that he dont want to hurt me. so we become ...

Is this the start of any affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I am confused about whether I am in a frienship or the beggining of a relationship as I have lost confidence and self- esteem . I am divorced with three children after my husband walked out on us. I have known a this guy as a friend for three years ...

Do men like sexy eyes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Do you men like sexy eyes? what so special about a woman eyes? men always look into my eyes and tell me how pretty they are but that is the regular response for a woman like me who like nice comments, I was at a resturant ordering something to eat ...

I like Ricky..but Trey asked me out! what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - So there is the guy, we shall call him Ricky, I am hanging out with. As Ricky explains it and it did start off that way, but now its changed. We are still hanging out, but when we do...we don't act like just friends. We stand there and he will hold ...

Why did he leave his cellphone with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ok so if yu guys seen my other question then yull know who im talking about. if not then hes just my lover. ok so the guy that i live with was going to go to work today but he said here take my cellphone, and i was like why?he said idk fer saf...

Loving someone that loves someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hi I am a twenty years old girl, im dating this 27 years old guy. I like dating older guys because they are mature and also i want to settle down and have a serious relationship. He told me about his ex, they were dating for 9 years so I asked ...

Am I miss out on things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hey all. Im 17, and so is my boyfriend. We have been together two years. Dont get me wrong, our relationship is fine; we have ups and downs but who doesnt. I love him, and imagine one day starting a life with him and all sorts. The only thing is...

Are there risks in marrying a man whose never even kissed anyone else?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hello I was just wondering if there is any risk in marrying a man who hasn't even kissed or been with another woman sexually? Is there more likelihood for cheating and/or divorce? Thank you =)...

I have no idea what goes on in my head. Any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - What is wrong with me???? I don't understand it. Ever since me and my ex broke up, which was 3 years ago, I have been wanting someone I can have something special with. To have true and real love and someone who will love me who I can love back....

My boyfriend and best friend have been fooling around whilst I was on holiday, how do I talk to them about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a little over 7 months now he's 15 im 14 and sexually active. im worrying as recently i went to Turkey on holiday and when i came back i found out my boyfriend and supposed best friend have been playing a questi...

I cant seem to move on from the last relationship - should I give this new girl more time or break it off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I am recently out of a long term relationship. I started to see this girl for about three months now. I thought I was ready for a relationship when I met her but I feel like a black hole. I have given it three months and she is a great girl but I ...

This girl is making me feel like I'm going crazy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Am i going crazy? am i really like this or does she just turn things around? this past weekend the girl ive been talking to sure made me feel like it... She had been really upset about her ex the last week for whatever reason and kind of ignored me ...

How can I convince my mum and dad to allow me to spend time with my boyfriend alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My mum and dad wont leave me and my boyfriend alone. Hes 17 and im 15. We do love each other. But were not aloud to be on our own in a house together and were not aloud upstairs. I want my mum and dad to stop worrying so much about it. I just want ...

He hasn't seen his "girlfriend" since May last year, but he still wont break up with her!

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10 August 2009 (F) - I have this major problem with a guy at my work. I have never met someone who is so easy to talk to and we have really in depth conversations, he's like my best friend. Of course, naturally I developed a crush on him, although now I would describe ...

Someone told a guy at work that I fancy him and now he treats me like dirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I fancy this guy i work with i fell for him the minute i met him but someone told him i fancied him and we dont really speak anymore he use to smile at me a lot now he does nothing i dont know what ive done i dont think he fancies me at all i wish i ...

He seems to be testing me to see if I like him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - hi, im badly needing some advice as what to do without going mad! i met a guy on holiday we got on really well. he wanted to keep the relationship going when i returned home and keep travelling to his country and him come to mine sometimes. i told ...

Back in the world of dating again, and finding it very confusing!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Ok so I joined an online dating website and the main reasons for this are because I dont have the time to be going out and meeting people due to my job, and I've just moved to a new city where I dont know many people hence I thought using online ...

How can I meet single women who's marriage material, without them being put off by my lack of experience?

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10 August 2009 (M) - I am 25, nearly 26 years old and still a virgin. I have also never had a girlfriend. When i was younger, i was extremely shy of women and of people generally but i have always managed to hide my shyness by coming across as aloof or arrogant. At 19, ...

We went too far and now she doesn't want to do anything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend has recently lost an interest or 'need' I guess you could say in intimacy. When asked about it, and I spoke with her about it, she said it was because the last time we fooled around we went too far. (Keep in mind we are both still ...

Where can I meet girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5204 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I'm a 17 Year Old boy..who Looks very Handsome..and I haven't had a GF in 6 1/2 Years..I Usually come off as Too cocky and girls get offended..well My question Is where can I Meet Girls My age Besides the obvious Malls..movies..And Party's...and ...

Whats a good gift for a lady whom you are intimate with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - I have sex with a woman I really like and wanted to get in bed. I would like to give her a gift to let her know that I still think of her. Any advice for giving a gift to a woman you have had sex with? Does lingerie make a good gift for a woman yo...

How do we handle the situation at the B&B we'll be staying at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man The other night my young man took me out to a nice dinner and he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away It is believed there is nothing more wonderful than feeling sexy, and beautiful, and b...

I'm afraid everyone I date will leave me just like my dad did

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I love this guy, no doubt about it. And he loves me back. He wants to date me but I just can't. I have had so many problems with anytype of relationship since my dad walked out of my life a year and a half ago I tried everything to get him to stay, ...

One of my boyfriend's friends loves him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - A few days ago I found out that one of my boyfriend's friends are, apparently, 'in love' with him. And that he may like her back. I love him so much, and that thought is making me go crazy. I can't stand the thought of him being with someone else. ...

Should I get involved in a FWB relationship with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my child's father. The best thing in our relationship was sex. It was awesome. There was never a time when it wasn't good. We've been broken up for a month and have had sex twice. It would have been more than that, but a few ...

Just out of a bad relationship and this other guy wants to date me. How do I tell him...I'm not ready!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just got out of a tumultuous relationship with my child's father. I don't want to be in another relationship right away. I just want to hang out, mostly by myself, go back to school, take care of my girls and just get a grip on life. But my ...

He says he can't orgasm during sex as he masturbates too much! It isn't me is it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My bf says he has never been able to ever cum when having sex with any girl that he has had sex with. He can however when he masturbates himself. He says he cant come during sex because he has masturbated so much. For him to cum he needs it to be ...

Not sure if I should date her, as she has a baby! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - she's really fit and i would like to date her, i know she likes me too, the problem is she has a baby and im not sure if im ready for that commit ment what should i do *-)...

Met another guy..how do I tell my current bf I want a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I met J online 7 years ago and we became friends. After two years of emails, letters and phone calls, he confessed his feelings for me. I did have feeling for J too at that time. We've been together for 5 years now and have met each ot...

I don't have feelings for my bf but I have kissed this other guy! What do I do now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years.We've always had a very strong friendship but we no longer seem like a couple and haven't slept together in 5 months. A few months ago while on a work night out his friend(who is also a friend of mine ...

After dating, this younger fellow,he tells me he wants to be with a woman closer to his age! Advise appreciated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - 3 months ago I met a lovely man and we had an almost instant connection. We shared the same intellectual level, and revelled in each others company. Our friendship deepened and we became intimate. The big problem was that he is 50 and I am a young ...

We're great friends..but how do I tell her I have fallen in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - i hae been seeing this woman for about 2 years and i do not know how to tell her that i have fallen in love with her.all this time we have been great friends we share the good and bad times together. we have had small dates like going to the movi...

Why is my ex bf making contact after five months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - So I dated this guy I was totally crazy about for three or four months. We broke up because he "wouldn't commit" because he claimed he was too busy and felt like he shouldn't get involved in something serious because he will need to move to complete ...

His ex gf is trying to break us up and I'm upset! Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year. His best friend is a girl. They dated before, but it didn't work out. She is still in love with him, and she even admits to it. She is always trying to start things and break us up. She is always ...

She's a friend I like a lot..but she doesn't have much spare time to date...what the best way to approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - hello I am writing as I need advice on my current situation, i deeply care for a friend and would like to hook up with her as more then just good friends, my problem is that she is a carer for her disabled mother who suffers from pain iss...

I want to spend more time with my boyfriend. How do I get him to come over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ok so me and my boyfriend has been dating for 6 mouths and he never wants to come over he says he loves me and i say it back and i want him to pay a little more attention to meh how do i do this ...

Why does a guy who thinks you're great keep backing off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Why does a guy who thinks you're great keep backing off? I've been seeing this guy for 3 or 4 months now and we really don't know each other that well still. We can go for over a week without speaking (I don't like to contact him twice in a row ...

Please help.. she tried to make me jealous I think, and it worked!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - i am a 24 yrs old male. i had a sex with my coworker who already has 3 kids and is 29 yrs old. she is divoreced and loves sex. we had it for 3 times now.it was my 1st time in life that i had sex with her. but now, i think i am really serious with...

We get in fights all the time and don't have anything in common. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Well.....everytime me n my ex BF Jon break up and we r friends in the beginning of the friendship but then later we'll get in fights a bout somthing stupid and idk why we always get in fights with each other after we break up.....it seems like the ...

How can I put our relationship back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hi i split up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. we met up for the first time tonight and discussed our relationship. he told me that he deffinatley wants to see me again and that he wants to take it slow. i said to him that i feel like part of ...

Does my ex really love his new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5270 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Ok, well I'm new here. 6 months ago my heart was broken by a man I loved with all my heart. We had been arguing a bit more than usual, but we always got through it and he was as loving as ever, so it was a real surprise when he left me saying he ...

My boyfriend has started acting completely differently with me..

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10 August 2009 (F) - hiya, The guy im seeing doesnt do anything nice for me anymore, he talks to me like im stupid and makes me feel like shit. Most times we make plans he chnages them and everything seems to be ok only if it suits him. He wants sex but hardly...