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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is the first kiss really that special?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Is a first kiss really all that special, are any after that all that special? i mean its just a kiss...your lips only touch for about a few secs and then its over. Caus everyone talks bout your first kiss being amazing and special and magical, but ...

Should I go ahead and see what happens with this relationship, or forget it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5384 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hello, i wonder if u can help me!! i have been speeking to this Turkish man for about 1 year now, we have got really close , talked everyday spooken on phone, msn, etc!. hes a really nice man with a wonderful personality, and also he lives no wher...

How to let your girl know your interested , without making her fall in love with you within the first month!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5386 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hello then boys! iv got a burning question for you.......... Ever been in one of those awful scenarios, when you meet a girl and really like her, but then, after a few dates and rendez vu's, she turns possessive, demanding, and all-so-loved up ...

Seperated and awaiting divorce but I'm not sure about dating whilst going through this process. What are your views?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I separated from my husband not even a month ago and we are getting a divorce shortly when we can afford it. Well I met a guy that went through a divorce himself and has been single for awhile. He's not a huge step up from my ex husband but better ...

How do I give a good kiss?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - hi. me and my girlfriend hav been together for 2 months now. we see each other most days and well, obviously, we kiss. however i dont think i please her when i do kiss her. is there any advice someone could give on how to give a good kiss?...

Why do I overthink everything when I'm in a close relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Why do I overthink everything when I'm in a close relationship? When I meet a woman I don't really think of anything other than the moment. I'm relaxed, I can be myself, there's really no problems. So why is it as soon as we get close, or ra...

My girlfriend's a virgin and we're ready to have sex, how can I make sure I don't hurt her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Ive been going out with this girl for 4 months now and we have got really close. shes still a virgin but that doesnt bother me as I love her so much. She is saying that she is ready to have sex and so am I but she is worried about the pain, im ...

I like the feeling of being with someone but I don't like the man himself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I'm worrying that this new guy I've been dating for 2 months is taking advantage of me or somehow expecting me to behave like I'm chasing Him which is SO NOT happening, ...for example, I got sooo lost trying to visit him where he lives (4 hours ...

Should I date my best friend's ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - The boy i fancy, harvey, fancies me the only problem is he went out with my best mate a couple of months ago and broke her heart i dont wanna fall out but i really like him!! what should i do ????...

Is she unsure of her feelings for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Recently, this girl ive liked for half a year, we got really close. And she has also admitted that she likes me too. Thats where the problem starts, she just stop msging all of a sudden, asking that she give me an explanation the next day. i asked ...

How should I go about asking her out? And what are some good date ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Just after a bit of advice, as I wouldn't say i've had a whole heap of experience with dating. I met this girl a few months ago at my running club, we ran a few times together, and then she got sick, then went home for the holidays...

When we're alone, she's one way, but otherwise, she's different. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Hey, I am really very confused at the moment. The girl who I really like was in a relationship, however when in that relationship she would make out with me, and always be saying how great it would be if she was with me, and if she were to become ...

Shes twice my age! Does this matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Shes twice my age! is this an issue? ive recently started seeing an older women shes 40 im 20 i never even really considered actualy dating someone older was all a fantasy but its become real. we been meeting and chatting for a few months and we ...

We do 'stuff' and I get an erection. How do I prevent it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, so ive been dating this girl for a little while now and have decided to not have sex or anything until we're both 16 in october. Anyway, the question is about other stuff....basically we make out, cuddle and stuff and most of the time...

He's leaving to go back to the USA but I want him to stay here with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - How would i describe the something in my mind. It just happened last week. I met a guy from USA and i am Asian girl i think i love him. At all first met every thing so easy and happy. Miss, love and always talk on phone when we away from each o...

It daunts me that I may be in competition with a woman I know nothing about!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Hi I've been seeing a guy for almost 5 months now. When we met he said he wanted to take things slow and that was fine, i'm at uni and pretty busy most of the time so it was something I was willing to try. Everything had been going great betw...

I feel inferior compared to my girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 3 months and they've been wonderful, but I can't help but feel a little bit inferior. She is an amazing gymnast. She competes in meets all over America and I know she's gonna go on to be big. I just dont' see what ...

I love the girl that has been with every guy at school!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - ok so the thing is im 15 and i have a big problem and that is that im in love with a girl that has gone thru every guy in school and in February 14 2009 i gave her an ipod touch as a gift and that morning before i gave her the gift all of my friends ...

I'm worried that if I tell her I love her she may reject me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5387 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - My relationship has finally backed me into a corner...I realized that I'm falling in love with my girlfriend. I've tried so hard not, because I doubted she could ever feel the same way about me, but I can't fight it anymore...she's the greatest girl ...

It's only been 4 weeks and he's already distancing himself! Should I leave him or stay and hope we'll get closer?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5383 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - So a about 3 weeks ago I meet a guy through another friend , It went great for a couple of days then he tells me he is bisexual I accept it at the time , then that night we start to talk and he uses this line I like you I just don't want to hurt you ...

Should I try getting to know the guy I like from highschool, when we start college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5388 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - Ok, I've liked this guy forever. I've liked him all through high school and we've barely spoken. I've tried getting over him, I really have. I tried to get him out of my mind all through high school because I was in band, and tried to get my mind ...

She feels strongly about me but loves her boyfriend.. it's tearing me apart!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5388 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - i am in love with a woman that has a boyfriend of over a year now, we have been seeing each other for several months now and been intimate. she says she loves her boyfriend but he doesn't love her. she insists on remaining with him. she says she ...

How can I help her to relax?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - ive tried having sex with my girlfriend twice now and it wont go in. she says she is too tense and that she needs to relax more. how can i help her relax more?...

Should I let her past relationship with her cousin affect ours?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - hi, i been in a relationship for six months with a girl who i really care about, infact Im even thinking of marriage. Shes 38 years old and Im 37. The only thing that bugs me is her past relatinships she had about 7 bad relationships but most of all ...

She likes older dudes, I like her. Should I stay out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

3 August 2009 (M) - whats up people. i need help with something. i like this girl but she likes older dudes. like around 17-20. we're both 13. a part of me wants to stay out of it but another part says "NO!!! You cant let her go!" i really dont wanna let her go but i ...

How do I prove I love him more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - hey i just have a quick question. my boyfriend and i have been together for about 10 months. and sometimes when were together i tell him i love him, and he says he loves me more. the thing is i dont see how thats possible so i argue and say no you d...

How can I make this LDR work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5383 days ago

3 August 2009 (F) - I fall in love quick. But you kno what different about this time? When I'm not with Brandon my my heart hurts. I met him a few days ago when I was on a camping trip with a friend. And he lives 3 hours away from me.I have his number but he hasn't ...