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Archived questions from: 19 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

His ex can't seem to move on, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

19 August 2009 (?) - Dear Aunts, Ive Been With my boyfriend for 3 or 4 months now he was my best friend before we started dating.We are madly in love.Both of our last relationships ended because our exes didn't like the fact we were so close. My Ex Has Mo...

I'm bothered by what she did with another guy before we were together

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - how can i get over the fact that my girlfriend kissed another guy and let him touch her all over before we started dating ....

He'll be 18 and I"m scared he'll want sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5239 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Me and this boy have been talking about dating and all that stuff, the fathest we've gone is makeout. i really like him, but i'm 15 and he's 17. thats not bad, but he'll be 18 in March and i'll still be 15 until junee. i'm a sophmorevand he's a ...

Is she still in mourning, or is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - My girl has been acting differently for the past two weeks or so. She's 30, I'm 28. We met in church years ago, she was dating a guy I went to high school with back then (he's actually getting married in three weeks). We've been dating for 10 months ...

How can we strike a compromise on our religious beliefs?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now, and recently, a discussion came about regarding marriage and children. First let me say, he is Catholic, I am Episcopalian. He's not extremely religious at all, but when the aforemen...

I'm scared that I'm depressed again. What can I do to get myself back to normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5346 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - How do I know if I've fallen out of love? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years (next week). In the beginning, obviously, everything was perfect. Then after a few months, I got depressed (for about 2 months), and I felt like nothing (not ...

How can I withhold sex until I know the guy better?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5370 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - hi, can anyone help?... I want to be in a relationship but whenever i try to wait for sex it doesnt work... I havent had that many but I dont know how to withold sex till I know the guy... what do I do?...

How can I convince her to forgive me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - hi all, got an issue , if you could drop in a suggestion. I have broken the trust of a close one a close friend.for namesake its friendship , but i love her and its not the other way round. she was into a relationship but had broken up and ...

How do I cope with this break from my boyfriend? Does this mean we're over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Ok my boyfriend just asked for a break! it sucks!! It came up all of a sudden for me. We arent seeing other people which im really really happy about but this hurts!! He wants No communication between us. he decided to have this break and when it ...

I'm not sure where I stand, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Recently I've gotten to know a boy really well. We did stuff that felt intimate to me whilst he still had a girlfriend. However, he recently split up with her and when i asked him if it meant anything he said "not particularly". Despite this, we...

How can I get her to be my GF

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - how could i impress a girl to b my girlfriend/?...

Should I have gone in for the kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5364 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Hi i need some advice. A couple of months ago a met up with an old firend on facebook she 51 i 47 now both single both have early teen kids.We have met up four times now getting on really well been for meals ive been to her place a few times now and ...

Me and my boyfriend were caught in the house together so my dad hit both of us!! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - im 15. my parents caught me meeting my boyfriend twice at my house when my parents werent home. hes 19. the second time we got caught my dad beat him and slapped me twice and tied out heads together with a belt and almost threw us out together but ...

I'm confused...my father's choice of a suitable guy for marriage or mine?

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19 August 2009 (F) - Help my agony aunts! i have a boyfriend whom we promised marriage together. he is the best person i have ever known. he could spend his last penny on me though he isnt so rich, he is comfortable and i know he loves me so much but his paents dont rea...

My girlfriend doesn't want people to know that we're together... is this because she's shy or what?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4822 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I got together with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We get along pretty well, but she doesn't seem to want to let other people know that we're together. Well, she has no problems with her close friends knowing, she feels somewhat uneasy ...

Family vs girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - This is kind of complicated, but I'll try to simplify as best as possible. I recently stared with a secret relationship with girl who is older than me and she and I are actuallly starting to fall in love with each other. There's plenty of re...

Falling in love so easily?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - why do i fall in love so easily every girl i see i'm thinking she's hot blah blah and if the girl starts checking me out im like falling in love and then i leave and start all over again why?...

Does this guy really like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - i met last week a really cute guy,but i'm not sure if he really likes me or is just playing me.here are some important things that happened since we met:he always stares at me for a really long time;he starts up conversations with me on very random ...

The girl I like has a boyfriend but I think she likes me, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5353 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - hi im almost 15 and i really like this girl she is in my grade but i think she has a bf but i dont think they are very close i think she might like me we text back and forth a lot but i dont dare ask her. what do i do ...

Is it normal for a 22 year old man to only want a friendship with a 40 year old woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 40 and have been divorced with 2 children for 6 years. I have always been on my own, have a good circle of friends, but not dated in that time. I'm friends with a guy at work whose only 22 (and single) he comes out with me and the children...

Should I break my friendship or break my lover's heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - My best friends brother has fallen in love with me and he told my best friend and she is pissed and never wants to talk to me again....what am i supposed to do; break my friendship or break my lovers heart....i'm so confused.......

Holiday romance and the boy back at home.....what do I do now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - im 13 and have just got back from holiday .. on holiday i met this guy ..he didnt really seem my type at first but then we got talking and i realised he was so nice we spent i spent the whole holiday with him from 12 in the afternoon till 1...

Seeing each other too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - I see my girlfriend almost everyday or every other day as she only lives a few roads away. We love seeing each other but im a little worried were seeing each other too much and that we're getting a bit bored. Is it possible that we're seeing eac...

What does it mean when a guy tells you that you have a "fat cat"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - What exactly does it mean whan a guy tells a girl that they have a fat cat. I was told this after having sex and still can't seem to fully understand what it means!!! I think I know but want to make sure it means what I think it does!!! Thank you ...

My new partner is traumatised from a past relationship and still allows her ex to control her, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - I am dating a girl who about six months ago come out of a very physically/mentally abusive relationship. They had been married for ten years and the abuse was consistant throughout. They had actually been legally divorced 4 years ago, but reconsiled ...

Is my fetish keeping me from intimacy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Alright I have a foot fetish and I would like to know if that's something women can appreciate I mean when I was in high school it seemed like I was some kind of freak and now I feel like like that's why I get turned down it seems like its a giant ...

How long should I wait, or am I just wasting my time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - 16 years ago I met the man of my dreams. But we have never been any more than friends. I never did tell him how I felt about him. He eventually got married and his wife cheated and got pregnant by someone else. They divorced. Before this happened ...

We haven't had any private moments lately

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I haven't made out in awhile, mostly because pda can get you in decent trouble at school and we havent really had any private moments lately. I thought I'd try something new next time. Any ideas on new or better ways to make out? ...

Where's the line between too flirty and what is not flirty enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I've just met a great guy and we've been on one date so far. He left town for work reasons the next day and has been gone for about two weeks. In that time we've sent texts each day and he's called me a few times, and we've been on the phone for ...

We met three weeks ago, would he tell me if he was feeling love for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5372 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I met this guy three weeks ago and I have really fallen for him. I know three weeks isn't a long time, but I feel like I'm definitely falling in love with him. This is what worries me--I don't know if he feels the same. He does call or text me ...

Confused about what to do with my shy guy....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating a little under two months ago, during our break, and when we'd go out with our friends or just by ourselves things would be great. I'm his first girlfriend and he's obscenely shy in the first place, so it took a lot ...

In love with my friend for 10 years, but he's attached and I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I am in love, and I don't know what to do about it. Now, this might seem like a bit of a lovey dovey statement, and I am sure, you think I've got some silly crush - I'm 26 years old, I know what they are and this certainly isn't it. I have known...

Still in love with her. Should I just say it and find out what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me this day 2 weeks ago(5th). We were going out for nearly 21 months and she broke with me saying she wanted to be single. I was fine with it at 1st but the last few days I've done nothing but think about her and cry. I'm ...

I don't know what to do. I love him, I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I'm so confused. After 4 years of staying true to one person it seems pointless. I have been in love with one person for the past four years and I just recently told him. He said I kinda like you and I have thought about you a lot. I do feel ...