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Dating: Help and advice

G/f always saying she feels trapped

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17 August 2009 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year now. we love each other. and we our falling in love. but she always talks about feeling trapped and wanting to go with someone else. she is so confusing. we can be together. and then nex...

Boyfriend? Or his best friend?

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17 August 2009 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 2 years. We are high school sweet hearts, we went to college together for the first year and decided to stay at home the second year, to save money. At one point of our relationship, I thought this guy was the one for ...

Is a strong sense of love enough for a relationship?

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17 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is without a doubt the nicest man I have ever been with, and I think he is the only one that truly loves and cares for me. He has often said that he feels differently about me than anyone else he h...

What can I do to not lose her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - my girlfriend broke up with me last nite. she said that she needed some time to herself, we have been together for a year and a half and never argue. she has been under alot of pressure with exams for her job aswell as family life. i love her so ...

He's asked me to marry him but I just can't see it happening

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17 August 2009 (F) - i'm a 44 yr old woman, in a relationship with my friend first since 88 and just two years ago we started dating. we were good as friends but i think that being together or married i can't see it. he ask me to marry him all the time he seems to think ...

"I'll give you a call this week" is he blowing me off?

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17 August 2009 (F) - I've been dating a guy for almost a month. We've known each other for several years through mutual friends. In the past three weeks we've gone out four or five times. We've had fun each time and I think he's into me. The thing is that I went on ...

He's 7 years older, is it worth pursuing?

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17 August 2009 (F) - Let's just get straight to the point here. I'm 15, like to think i'm considerably much more mature than the usual for my age, and I'm in like with a 22 year old. See. I notice this huge age gap here, and I do realize it's stupid to hope/wish/thi...

If I'm on here asking, does that mean I don't like her enough to ask her out?

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17 August 2009 (M) - Ok. I think I like a girl, but am not sure if I should ask her out! I have two schools of thought and not sure which to go with: 1) If I'm on here asking questions like this I can't like her enough and therefore as I already have doubts an...

What is it about commitment that scares me, and how can I get past it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Right then, I have a major problem (well, it's major in my eyes...) Anyway, I'm seventeen and I have MAJOR commitment problems! A load of people find this surprising since I'm a girl, but I just hate being tied down! I've had four boyfriends since...

Is his hot female friend more than just a friend??

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17 August 2009 (F) - I've been dating this one guy (who I really fancy) for half a year now. Officially we're not a couple as we both were very busy and I am originally from France so I go back home a lot. All this wouldn't bother me that much if there wasn't thi...

I don't know who to pick...what do you think?

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17 August 2009 (F) - sorry for all the writing but this is important for me to get your opinion.so please take time to read this.and tell me who is best for me? thanks. ok im stuck.i dont know witch boy i want or need. ok so theres eric who is my current boyfrien...

Was I wrong to ask her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - I've dropped a bollock! I was friends with a girl and I've asked her if we could ever be more than that. She said no but she also said that "maybe we shouldn't hang out as much" which basically means "get lost! I don't want to be your friend any ...

She's not into me anymore, why?

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17 August 2009 (M) - Correct me if I'm wrong but is it not ok to want more out of a relationship if your giving your all and your choice in partner isn't. Like am I wrong for desiring another woman if my current isn't being real with me regarding her sexual interest in ...

How does it make you feel when Valentine's Day comes around and you're still without that special someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - This question is for the single women of the dearcupid community, any age also k. K, so ladies, let me ask this to you, being single is hard sumtimes I know, but what goes on in your mind when your wishing you had someone to hold you in the early ...

What's up with the sudden "booty calls" ??!!

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17 August 2009 (F) - Hey there. I'm so confused as to what has happened in the past six months. I'm very inexperienced with guys (yes, even at my age!) but have had three occassions lately where I've received "booty" calls from diffent guys! What the heck!? I know...

How do I ask this boy from school out?

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17 August 2009 (F) - There is a guy I like at my school... I haven't seen him much through the summer holidays and probably won't because he is on holiday. I want to ask him out when we get back to school, but don't no how. I have never had a proper bf before... I dont ...

Do you think he meant he didn't want a relationship, or just not a relationship with ME?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5373 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - i really like this boy, we met on the internet and chatted for six weeks and then he came home ( hes in the army) for a few weeks and told me he doesnt want a relationship, he says his ex hurt him really bad and that he wants to be on his own. but ...

Would there be a problem with a 19 year old going out with a 15 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Well, I met this girl at a party I recently went to. We had a good laugh and joke plus a nice talk together, cuddle and kiss. Last night I took her to the cinema to watch a film she wanted to see, paid for her and everything including picking her up ...

What's the difference between love for a friend, and the love for a partner?

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17 August 2009 (F) - hi there can someone tells me how could you know if you are in true love or you just love as friend how can I know I'm not loving someone as friend or as a lover??...

Has all my talking put him off?

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17 August 2009 (F) - Hello Can i can some peoples opinions please! ok I'll try keep it as short as poss, just wandered HONEST if i have completely ruined all hope!!! I don't know what it is with people i like but i either can't say 2 words to them or i just babble o...

How do I avoid appearing to 'try it on'?

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17 August 2009 (M) - Hi, I've just been to a wedding. Over the course of the weekend, I got speaking to a girl, and think I like her. The problem is, at said wedding, in the evening, another guest got rather drunk and caused a rather big scene, after which I ...

Do you think she has feelings for me despite being in a relationship with another guy?

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17 August 2009 (M) - hi there, i am a 23 years old virgin never have a gf in my life, i love women but for the reason which i don't they know, and sadly, they have never entered in to my life. i have been with this girl for more than a year, we have been very close, we ...

Ex can't be with me because he's taking care of a baby that isn't his

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17 August 2009 (F) - hello, i would really apreciate if you guys will help me out with this.. my ex-borfriend was in the army, nd during the time he was there he told me he loved me for the first time. i believed him, and said it back bt i meant it.. now that he ca...

He's going away for 6 weeks and I can't survive without him!

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17 August 2009 (F) - My bf is going away for a long time- 6 weeks overseas. I wont get to talk to him much, because hes not taking a phone due to how expensive it would be. He said he will try to find a internet cafe when he can, but hes not sure how often he will be ...

He still doesn't call me his girlfriend. Won't even refer to us as a couple!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Theres this guy that I met in January.We initially met online in December,and then met and had dinner together a month later.Anyways,we have been going out since that time.Usually on weekends because of our work schedule,and also because of ...

He seems to be losing interest in me. Does he even like me anymore?

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17 August 2009 (F) - wow my boyfriend... he was really great he was my first kiss but now it seems like he doesn't care about us first he never calls me and i have to call him and when i do he justs sits there and tells me how much he doesn't like talking on the phone ...

I'm getting fed up with the "gossip" in her. Otherwise, she's a wonderful person!

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17 August 2009 (F) - My girlfriend loves to talk about other people. It can be something small to big. I'm the opposite. We are really close and I love her to death. Beside this problem, she has a huge heart. What can I do and say to make her stop. I'm also a chr...

Dominant and submissive...I'm afraid that I'm not going to be able to give him what he needs!

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17 August 2009 (F) - I really need advice. Stat. I am a 33 year old straight woman. I just found out today that my new boyfriend is pretty submissive. I'm submissive too (as in I like a man to be in charge), so that creates issues right there that neither of us ar...

If he hugs you when he normally wouldn't, does he like you?

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17 August 2009 (F) - How likely is it that a guy likes you if he gives you a hug goodbye at the end of a night out and he doesn't normally hug people? I've only met him 3 or 4 times as part of a small group, though we've had some one on one conversations....

Am I crazy to be waiting for him to be ready still or might I have a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5362 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - In every relationship I've had (and there have been a lot, from 3 weeks to 3 years) I've always instinctively known that we wouldn't last. Until the guy I'm sort of with now. I just know we will always come back to each other. We've been close for a ...

I want her back, but she has trust issues, is there any hope?

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17 August 2009 (M) - Hi I need some advice. Me and my now ex girlfriend broke up 4 months ago. It was a really nasty breakup with me admitting to not being exclusive until we had the talk...her manipulating me into letting her go through an old email account, ...

I'm not the kind of girl to admit I like him, but I want to know if he likes me!

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17 August 2009 (F) - sorry for the huge wall of text!!! i would write more but i don't want to write a damn book =\ if you manage to read the whole thing you must be bored but i would really really appreciate this! Okay, my friend and me talk alot, he moved to a...

I can't seem to communicate with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5361 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Ok, So I had dated this guy for about 8 months maybe longer. We broke up and didn't contact each other for about 5 months. We were in love, it's just something happened with family issues and I didn't blame him at all for breaking it off with me. ...

Should I lost my virginity? Should I just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - So I started liking this guy months ago. At first he didn't know if he liked me back or not but then he started liking me and we've had a thing for 9 months on and off now. When we do have a thing, it's always me and some other girls. Well just ...

I really want to have a romantic relationship but I'm terrified!

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17 August 2009 (F) - Hey everyone- I'm new here! (sorry about the length in advance) I guess I found this forum after having a rough couple of days. I think I needed some reassurance, or some advice! A bit about me. I'm 20 and nearly 21 years old. I'm nearly f...

I just want them to notice me.

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17 August 2009 (F) - i guess im kinda cute.but being a ginger really hurts my confindence really bad.i want attention from boys really bad.i guess its because im tired of them alwaays chassin after my bff and being her "third wheel" all the time.i want boyys to like me ...

Can you say things drunk and mean them? If so why hasn't he left his gf yet?

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17 August 2009 (F) - I’ve liked this guy for ages but he has a gf so I backed off. We have late night conversations and are fairly close. He gets jealous when I am with other boys. I went on holiday for two weeks didn't see this lad except the odd text which he woul...