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Archived questions from: 24 August, 2009 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Late thirties and single. Am I going to be on my own forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (?) - How practical and realistic is it for a single woman between the age of 35 to 40 to find a single guy, really??...

I can't trust him... I really need help to control this obsessive behaviour!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Please Help! Hi, I am having major problems trusting my boyfriend after he cheated and lied for the first year. We got together very soon after he broke up from a long term relationship...I think I should have been his rebound but we fell in love,...

How can I bring him back into my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5299 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Small problem here. Apparently, there was this boy who fancied me around this April but wouldn't do anything to make it official as he was probably scared as i had a thing going on with another boy and he didn't want to ruin it. I have no idea how...

Should I cut my family out of my life for the man I love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I have been having a terrible time with my family and friends harrasing me about the man I have been dating for the last year. He is kind, respectful, and treats me better than any man I have ever been with and I am hoping we could ge...

Am I being pushy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - This guy likes me and I like him, we talk a lot on aim but every time I ask when can we hang out he seems to not know or doesn't answer me. I don't understand. Also ever since then he seems to flirt less and less. I think I just made him ...

Where should we meet up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - Any advice on meeting a girl I found online? We first exchanged emails a few months back (it was a dating site, she gave me her email address because she had blocked her account temporarily), but it has been irregular. She says she isn't always...

Did I do the right thing by leaving? And should I leave him alone now and see what happens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hi, about three months ago i met a guy in work. He said he came into my shop just to see me coz he thought i was beautiful. I'd been through depression and anxiety after a break up and wasnt sure at first. He worked in the shop and we got closer and ...

Is there anything I can do to stop sweating so much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Okay - I enjoy sport and I play alot of it. Unfortuantely I also tend to sweat quite a bit so I end up with some pretty unattractive sweat marks and this is a little embarrassing! Would this be a real turn off to guys? Or if they are the sporting...

How can I get out of this depressive state?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I am a young lady who has had hardships all my life and they seem never to stop.. from the loss of my mum to my boyfriend for seven years to lack of a job for a year..... though some times problems seem to overwhelm me...i never give up... 1st:...

I've had a crush on her since seventh grade but now she has a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - So, in the the seventh or eight grade there was this girl who I always thought was really pretty and I kinda liked. I was always nice to her and besides her girl friends almost everyone in our class made fun of her. I never really knew why because ...

Is it worthwhile staying with him or should I break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I have been dating this guy for about 9 months. We have broken up once but quickly got back together. When we first started dating, he seemed like he had his life somewhat together. He had a good paying job, an apartment, and he was able to take ...

I talked about him behind his back and now he wont talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - i never liked this guy, however he would write to me and stuff saying that he loved me. i was quite young then and ignored it because i was really confused. during the time where i ignored him, i talked about him behind his back a few times. i...

Best friend has dumped me for boyfriend and I feel lonely

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - In the space of a month i have lost 2 out of 4 of my best friends. One betrayed me, the other went out with my other best friends boyfriend and is in love with him so has no time for anyone else. I feel like my world has literally been turned u...

Broken up as he didnt love me, but he still wants to have sex with me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - Hi I am gay my boyfriend has just broken up with me 3 weeks ago. He says he wasnt in love with me as he lost the spark for me but said he still found me amazing in bed so the sex has not stopped. We continue to have sex when we meet. I am trying ...

Had a holiday romance, the guy doesn't seem interested now we're back home, and I can't get over it! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5341 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hello all. I am still upset, and grieving after a one week holiday romance that happened 6 weeks ago now. I don;t know what 's the matter with me, but I run it over and over in my head, and miss him so badly, night and day. I tried contacti...

How can I make the next time we have sex less painful? And how far inside is the hymen?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I'm 18, and have been with my boyfriend 2 months. I'm a virgin, and until him I hadn't done anything sexually. We tried having sex last week but he only got in a couple of inches before I could take the pain no more. How can I lessen the pain? We ...

Dating & deadlines

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - i met this guy 2 years ago, when we worked on the same audit firm. I worked there for 4 months only, and i guessed he was attracted on me but after i resigned from that firm, i could say nothing happen. We just went to movie once, lunch once, some ...

I'm in love with two men...and I need to choose. Has anything else been through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5331 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I am a 25 year old female that has been seeing a guy that is in prison for about 14 month's now.I love him so much and what to be with him in ever way I know this men for about 10 year's and when I was 18 we had been seeing one other for 3 year's ...

When I tell guys I'm dating that sex is important to me, they laugh! Is what I'm saying weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hello So, i have been single for around six or seven months and it does not bother me (right now), i get alot of attention from guys and go on many dates, the problem is if im not sleeping with the guy on the third/fourth date or time i see t...

How can we get more intimate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - Me and my girl are considering getting intimate. How can we get more intimate? Ladies, do you have any ideas for this? Any ideas for getting intimate? ...

How will a younger man react to seeing an older woman naked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man and we are considering getting intimate. He wants to. How will I know that he as a younger man will enjoy seeing me as an older woman naked? Ladies, do you have any experience with this? Any ideas for finding out if ...

WHY is this boy being so weird and HOW do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Okay, so I need your advice on two things: WHY is this boy being so weird and HOW do I get over him. I've known this guy for over a year now, but recently we were involved in something together so I got to see him a few times a week. He didn't ...

I know what I want, but what does he want?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5366 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I'm really liking this guy and all. I met him off of a dating site. He lives like a hour and a bit away from me, but it's easy transit. We have gone out on dates and stuff like that a number of times now and been talking for a month and some what. I ...

Is my appearance holding me back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I wanted to ask guys what attracts you to a woman? I am not a typical girl i am 6 foot tall, alternative looking, pierced and tattooed but i wear small jewellery in them. I have 3 in my lip and 2 in my nose. I have auburn hair its shoulder length ...

Dated many guys and its always the same thing

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Hey I have separated from my husband over an year and I have been dated many guys and the more guys I met moreI realise I will end up alone, so I need your help to know ig the problem is with me or it is just the way things are. I am lost. I...

Don't want it to end, but scared I am no longer 'in' love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years now. I was madly in love with him and I still do love him but I am scared I am no longer 'in' love with him. I have to make a decision about what to do. We have always had hard things to deal with. He...

I want to be with her, but I'm only going to pull her down. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5367 days ago

24 August 2009 (M) - I met my best friend in April. We completely skipped that awkward phase at the start and soon were being more open, honest and trusting with each other than anyone else I know. She recently told me that she really likes me, I had to say no, but then ...

Want to date, but his best friend is complicating things. Should we not just sit down and talk to his friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5367 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - Recently a friend of mine told me he liked me, and I feel the same way, we both want to take it further. However, his best friend has liked me for quite awhile but I have no feelings for him. The bad thing is, the first boy doesn't want to upset his ...