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anonymous
writes:hello, ok well i really like this lad at my school. its a long story but cut short, i used to fancy him and asked him out but he said no because he wasnt ready so i left it and decided just to be friends and now we have come back from our easter break and he seems really keen? i dont know if that is the right word but anyway i will give you some examples to what he does. erm right so we were sat on the bus too school and he accidently stood on my foot turned and smiled and i smiled back. whereas normally the rest of the lads would just have ignored it or something. erm then on the way home we were having a laugh with friends and we were on about a tv program and he went oh i saw an episode a few weeks back and unconditional love did you? and he looked straight into my eyes when he said it and i was like ermmm no i didnt catch that episode. me and my best friend thought that was a little odd. but anyways i could just be jumping to conclusions but i really need some opinions because i dont know how to act, im 15 and ive never had a bf or even been kissed. hmmm but he seems interested and yes i do like him although he is one year younger than me - is that bad? i dont want people to think i cant get anyone my own age type of thing? oh yes and another thing he did the second day back after the easter break he was asking after me saying to my friends that he hadnt seen me all day and was wondering were i was. and the rest of the group (lads) that we hang around with dont ask about me or make much effort to talk to me. i would love some suggestions or advice, thanks to whoever answers :) x
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reader, Class Joker +, writes (24 April 2009):
In all honesty, to me, he sounds like a typical Jack the Lad. He knows you like him so he's flirting with you to see whether your attentions are still on him. I'd say this is definitely true if you paid him little attention after asking him out.
I'd say, if you enjoy the little flirting sessions you have with him, then that's harmless, but don't get too carried away with him. I think he's seeing it as just flirting if he has already said no to going out with you.
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