A
male
age
36-40,
*uter1
writes:Lots of my ex girlfriends and even women older then me that i dated, told me after 2-3 months of relationship that i'm not realy confident in me. And now i have this complexe every time.I think that they are wrong and i can prouve it, but every time i date another girl i think what did my ex told me.....even if we dated for 1 year or more. How can i win over it? in life i know what i want, i have a job, a nice career, i was proffesional in a sport...and you can't gain all this without noing what you want in your life, so why in relationship?!)thank you))
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (3 October 2008):
 I strongly suspect that you simply haven't found "the one" yet. Everyone has their foibles. The person who truly loves you looks past these things and sees only the best in you. I'm sure that your paths will eventually cross, and I think that you are giving this "ex" far too much power by remembering her slight and allowing it to undermine your confidence. Let it go.
She is still out there waiting for you!
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