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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Recently i got dumped by my boyfriend from whom i was in love, and even though i haven't seen him in a month neither talk to him i still miss him. I had lunch this thursday with another guy, he's really nice, a gentelman, he's what people would say a good catch. But i couldn't felt atracted to the guy, even though he's so nice and all. Don't know what to do, keep on dating him? even if i think i'm still in love with my ex? maeby in time i'll ended up liking the guy...
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 Its way too soon to think of getting with someone else, thats why you cant get to like this new guy. Why did you go out with someone new if you still have feelings for your ex? Its not very fair on the new guy.
If people rush into something new when they haven't got over the last one, its very selfish and destined to not work. Its a no brainer really.
Its doubtful that someone new will get you over the ex. Its not that simple.
Being single for a while wont be the end of the world. And when you CAN be single, and are happy being independant, thats when you have the best chance of starting something with someone new when you meet them naturally and not because you cant deal with being solo for a few months.
C xxxxx
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reader, David#7  +, writes (26 September 2008):
Hey.
If you still have feelings for you ex then you should write down everything you like about him and why you loved him and miss him and pour your heart out onto that bit of paper knowing that this was the last time you was ever going to think about him. Then rip it up and burn it or do something where your not going to see what you have written or some where that you will not look at where you may see the paper. As for this gentleman you should tell him that you would love to give him a chance and see what this friendship with him takes you.
I really wish the best for you to get over this hard and difficuilt time.
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