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My boyfriend never sees the best in me, but expects me to see the best in him! Why is this?

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Question - (23 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

why does my boyfriend never see the best in me,yet im always expected to see the best in him, why do boys behave in this pathetic way?

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A male reader, Passthrough United States +, writes (24 September 2008):

Passthrough agony auntDont just say boys behave this way- I recently broke up with my girlfriend, and wanted to be friends... Short lived. She wrote me, saying to the effect, "Take me as I am. I'm not changing for you... You can be very annoying, you need to stop. There are alot of little things you do that piss me off. They cant continue."

But to be of more helpful, some people are "glass is half full" and some people are "glass is half enpty". You just have to realize, people have different outlooks, and if you think them wrong, that's 100% all you, and the only thing you can do is disagree.

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (24 September 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntBecause we allow it. People only treat us how we allow them to. If he is treating you badly, be busy and unavailable. Don't put up with it. He'll learn that he can't treat you that way if you don't stick around for it. Good Luck.

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