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female
age
30-35,
*keez
writes:Hello everyone. I have a situation and would really appreciate some advice.Ok well me and my bf broke up 5 months ago. 2 or 3 weeks ago we got back together. But in the time we were broken up, he had sex with another girl. I was totally upset when I found out becuase he was still flirting with me at that time and I was getting my hopes up that we would get back together (which we obviosly did anyways eventually)Well Ive just started college and unfortunatly the girl he had sex with is in my class. So im constantly with her 9 hours a day, and its really effecting our second chance at this. The main problem is that we are planning to start havings sex again ad i came off the pill when we broke up, now im starting it again. But...I cant stop thinking of those two together, that Ive become reluctant to have sex with him. The idea of it doesnt feel right. And I know if we did it, ill just have that horrible image in my hed constantly.Please help me. I need advice on what to do or what to say to him.Thanks
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reader, truthfulteacher +, writes (16 September 2008):
Its only natural that you would find it difficult to be intimate with him again as you feel he has betrayed your trust. Its never easy knowing someone you care about has been with someone else especially someone you know!
Give yourself time to build up your trust in him again, the more time you spend together the more you will realise how special what you have together is and having sex will be just about the two of you again.
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