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writes:Ok. i have been with my bf for 3 yrs and we have a one yr old daughter together. at the beginning things were great but the last yr and half hasnt been good. we argue, we have little scraps and we just dont seem to be how we were. the romance has died and gone almost all together. but i dont end it because of the hope we will get back to how we once were. i live in northampton with my partner and our baby, but all my family are back up north. ...... so is my ex. my ex and i split up just before i got with andy, my partner and daughters dad, we only split up because i was young and foolish and let childish roumers spoil things. recently when visiting parents i've been seeing him again, just spending some time together and enjoying each others company. when im with him i forget everything, all the agro at home, and im happy - hes gentle and caring. weve talked about where we went wrong and both have discussed what it would be like to be back together. true be told i never got over him. when im with andy (my now b/f and daughter's dad) im always thinking about dave my ex and wanting to be with him. Dave's said he wants to be with me again, just not yet, as he isnt ready for any relationship. Now heres where im stuck, do i leave andy and my life down here, go back up north where all my family is, get my own place and see if me and dave can make a go of it? Or do i hold on to what i have and hope that we get back to how we used to be. i used to get excited and butterflys at the thought or seeing him. he used to make my heart beat fast with every touch. now when hes home all we have is arguments which cant be good for my little one. im stuck. im in love with two guys and i dont no what to do. do i stay or do i go????
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (17 September 2008):
 If you want to make this relationship work, get counseling. If counseling doesn't work, go.
I kind of know how you feel. There is that one person that you always seem to love.
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