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writes:My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago. The main reason was that I didn't trust him and then he moved to another city so that was even worse. He wouldn't text me or call for ages and didn't ask me to go see him or suggest he wanted to come see me. The reason I didn't trust him is because he flirts with everything that moves becasuse he needs to feel he's got the women attention and to me that was really disrespectful, although he never cheated on me.He got together with his new girlfriend almost immediately after we broke up, which really hurt me (and for a long time he wouldn't admit to me that he was with someone)For a while we didn't really speak but now I had to move to a city near him because of work and we've started being friends again. He's been texting me a lot, telling me that he thinks we will be together again because we still love each other and there's a lot of sexual tension between us, and that this time we've been apart has made him realise what he had, but he is still with his girlfriend... He knows I won't do anything with him while he is in a relationship and he told me that if things keep on being the way they are between us, he would be single soon...I really don't know what to do... if he left his girlfriend I think I would consider getting back because he's an amazing person and I really think he is the ONE and I love him to bits... but don't know if I could trust him this time... or get past the fact he has been with someone else the time we have been apart (I haven't been with anyone...)I need help please!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou're probably right... actually I've just found out that these past 2 weeks that we've been talking and stuff it has been because she was on holiday... and now I think she's back because he's ignoring me... it's just that it is sooo hard to get over him and plus I don't know anyone in this new city so I'm really alone... will let you know what happened. Thanks!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou're probably right... actually I've just found out that these past 2 weeks that we've been talking and stuff it has been because she was on holiday... and now I think she's back because he's ignoring me... it's just that it is sooo hard to get over him and plus I don't know anyone in this new city so I'm really alone... will let you know what happened. Thanks!!
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