A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:This is just about my boyfriend. He flirts and slaps other girls bum's, and hugs them and expects me to be fine with it, but then when it comes to me always hugging other people he gets really jealous and comes up and pulls me away and starts hugging me etc..., like today he was hugging this other lass and slapped her bum, then this lad I knew came up to me and put his arm around me and we were hugging like 5 minutes then my boyfriend comes up and pulled me away and started hugging me and stuff. But when he's stood hugging other girls I don't go up and pull him away but when I hug people he always comes in between and pulls me away from them. Now I can't hug another lad longer than 2 minutes before he comes and takes me away to hug and etc with him. I mean don't get me wrong I love hugging him, it's nice and makes me feel good, but it's the fact that he spends ages hugging and slapping other girls bums and I don't do anything about it and he always does it, but then when I hug one lad he gets jealous and pulls me away to hug and stuff with him.Does anybody have any idea why he's like this, it's like he always hugging other girls and slapping their bums and it's fine but as soon as it's the other way round and I'm hugging another lad he gets in the way and takes me for himself, yet he can spend ages hugging other girls and that. He probly feels jealous but so do I sometimes when he just stands there hugging them and I'm like on my own freezing and then when I do find a lad to cuddle he comes and butts in like I'm not allowed to hug anyone else but he is.?????
View related questions:
flirt, jealous Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (22 October 2008):
 Childish shit. I think that he's trying to make you jealous so you'll do the same.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2008):
Yeah, I was going to say that he's probably judging you by his standards, and that he probably isn't trustworthy.
Sometimes when people get jealous, it's because they know they are untrustworthy and assume their partner is too.
However, when I read that you were hugging some other guy for 5 whole minutes, I changed my mind!
I'm not the jealous type, but if I had a girlfriend who hugged other guys for such a long duration, she'd find herself single rather quickly....
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2008): Hi
This isn't right. It's not fair that he gets to do whatever he wants with girls and your boundries are slim. You need to talk to your boyfriend about it and see what he says. If you talk to him he might stop right away.
Good Luck xx
...............................
|
