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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi ... I was wondering: is 15 (girl) and 24 (male) an innapropriate age gap in a relationship??? xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): in general yes, you should ask yourself what appeals to him about a 15 year old girlfriend, unless you're real amazingly mature and do you trust each other with your embarrasing secrets and are you sure he cares about you because at 15 having an actual relationship with a guy this age tends to end up a bad choice with bad results so i think it's gotta be something really special, also remember if he respects you he wont ask for sex or have any expectations of you YOURE UNDERAGE i would say stayu in contact with him but i advise wait a year or more before you get into anything with this guy it's hard to know whether he has good or bad intentions cos you havent given much detail but im just saying you don't want to end up losing your virginity or anything with a paedofile i think you know so just exercise some self restraint at this stage you may end up respecting yourself a whole lot, good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): Um yes! your still at school! You can't go out drinking with him, and your on diffrent levels in lifes. To be honest once you hit 18/20, age diffrence dosen't really matter. To me, dating someone below 16 is just wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): Well when I was 15 I went out with my 24 year old youth club leader. I really fancied him as he had a great car, was mature and funny. It only lasted 2 dates and I was broken hearted. It transpired he only went for young girls and I was one in a long list of many. A few years later he was fired for inappropriate behaviour. I truthfully don't think it is too much of an age gap if you have things in common such as hobbies, like doing the same thing etc but I do think people will think the age gap when referring to him is a bit odd and he will take a lot of stick for that. It works the other way with the girl as people are impressed that she can get an 'older' man. Just have a bit of fun and don't get too involved as you are very impressionable at that age. I am 45 now and still can remember him in great depth so you can see what I mean!
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