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anonymous
writes:Me and this guy met a couple months ago at my friend's house and we hooked up. We met that one time and then recently, about a month ago we met again at that same friend's house. Well what do you know, we hooked up (as in, had oral sex) again. We ended up cuddling up afterwards and falling asleep together. He took down my number the next morning...about a week later he texted me to let me know that he wasn't looking for anything more than a good time, and I told him that I wasn't really looking for more than that either.Since then he's been texting me asking about my life and stuff and then he'll tell me whats going on in his. At first I thought that he was beating around the bush in trying to hook up again...this week he has been out of town on business and he texted me one night telling me that he couldnt go to sleep, and then he randomly asked me if I liked sushi. I answered him that it was ok, not my favorite, and he didnt text me until the next night. When he did, he said something to the extent of "as a guy that would like to entertain you, what do you like?" and he went on to invite me over to his place next week so that he could cook for me. My question now is, is he just trying to charm his way into my pants? Does he want something more? Does he just want to casually date? I'm just confused because he originally said that he wasn't looking for more than a hookup...
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reader, eddie  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 You've already put your genitals in each others mouths.....if he got that "just because", I can only imagine what a little charm might accomplish. Aren't you putting the cart after the horse. Who knows what he wants but it's safe to say he seems interested on some level. Why the confusion? Just talk to him.
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reader, babomi  +, writes (11 October 2008):
 he s trying to charm his way into your bed, that s for sure
at which level, well, does it really matter now?
- he just wants to casually hook up? enjoy the meal and have a good night
- he wants more? u still have the right to say yes or no
i d say, go, if you re enough attracted to the guy to have a good night, whatever he wants after
just don t freak out and ask him for explanations beforehand,
after all, it will only be your first date
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2008): It sounds like he's already charmed his way into your pants, with his tongue if not his penis!
The best way to find out what he wants is to ask him. No-one here can give you a totally accurate answer, because the answer is in his head, not ours!
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