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36-40,
*iya_rulez
writes:I'm in a long distance relationship since four years ago. my boyfriend is really nice and sweet but the problem is he doesn't share anything with me.. while on the other hand,i give him all the tiniest of detail.. i don't know why but his friends dont interact with me.. i ask him to try different things that could revive our love but he doesn't show any interest. such things make me feel as if he's very boring and uninteresting which really bother me a lot and frustates me because of which we fight every second day !! plzzzzzzzz help !!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): Oh yea - been there done that...broke up! Uggh men...well it seems he is not that into you and is emotionally unavailable. Made even worse for the fact you are in a LDR. He probably likes having the attention but wants minimal effort with maximum results...not going to happen! Hold yourself back for a while and don't give too much away. I found it very draining and in the end got fed up with it, we broke up anyway and it was for the best. It's horrible being with someone who doesn't take an interest in you, but if he doesn't take an interest in you, he can't be interested in you - if you know what I mean. Yea probably best to invest with someone who wants to share stuff with you and to communicate, don't settle for second best - it will only turn into resentment.
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