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What actions do I avoid so I don't get put in the friend zone?

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Question - (13 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *aturalsoles writes:

I'm going to be hanging out for the 2nd time with this girl that I've met. This is will be the 2nd date in my entire life so far, and I'm not sure how to flirt with women. I just talk to them while being nice. I don't want her to put me in the friend zone, so I was wondering what actions to avoid?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (13 February 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntWomen often place you in the friend zone because they're not attracted to you but still think you're a nice guy. Most of the time you can't avoid being placed in it.

Just don't try to be overly friendly over where you're trying to become her friend. Try to be her boyfriend. But it all boils down to her level of interest and attraction to you.

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A male reader, kblade Australia +, writes (13 February 2011):

i was in the same boat as u.. when i met girls i was alawys had the 'just friends' label.. and i was geting sick of it and wasnt geting anything out of it except just being a nice friend to be around.

My advice to flirting is to tease and joke around a bit, create a environment where you guys can laugh and enjoy a god company.. but sarcastic jokes are to be watch out for.. because that could be offensive to girls.

Also make good impressions where girls can remember. :)

'Nice guys comes second'.

good luck

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