A
male
age
36-40,
*ipha
writes:Hi friends, I'm a black guy within the age group of 24, I'm for the first time in my life seeking for relationship. I'm about to graduate from the Univ, and I have never been in a relationship. I see a lot of beautiful girls that meet my match, but I'm afraid that they might belong to some other guys and advancing to them might be dangerous. Though I'm shy, handsome, peaceful and gentle, I just know that I'm the ladies' right guy, but I'm not that "cash money guy", and this I see as what may make a lady not think of me twice..I have tried dating sites and it didn't just work. I desire to make a relationship online. I can't even tell when ladies are interested in me not to talk of when they respond to my own interest in them. I'm a poor lad in this, soon I'll be in the work force, how pathetic it will be during that time. I wish to have a genuine woman whom I'll cherish for the rest of my life, but I don't know how to solve the big puzzle. Help me out, pls.!
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reader, Zipha +, writes (16 February 2011):
Zipha is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks my anonymous friend,I appreciate that idea,but I might have a problem,that problem is that in this part of the world where I'm from,ladies don't always think of making the first move because of norms,unless she had to give a trial and only few try it.Thanks for hearing me out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): If the girl's respectable she'll tell you if she's single or not. And 24's a prime time to meet someone lovely. Just do something you enjoy doing and the girls will probably go to you. At least that's how it works for me, I don't like a guy who chases me but I looove a guy who's passionate, self-sufficient and involved in his life, not just my own.
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