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writes:Hello I am 25 and I have had two long term relationships lasting three years each. Neither of the men wanted to have sex with me. I recently started seeing a new man and he isn't putting the moves on my but like the last two is talking about marriage... I REALLY want to have sex. I'm really frustrated and want to experience sex. I'm thinking of going with a male prostitute and have started to save up. However, I am not entrely sure about this. Can people sort of guide me of the pros and cons. I don't want to wait any longer. ( I am 25, slim, long dark hair, lovely smile and a phd, when I look in hte mirror I see a knockout, just cant get laid)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011): Hmm I sure can't figure out why a man in the right mind won't just pounce on a woman with all the right things? I say leave your current guy and try dating another man... I didn't sleep with my bfs until my third one~ and always let them make the first move because the less you seem to want it, the more they want you. Men are like that :p
Btw, you're not planning to lose your virginity to this male pros are u??? If you are, I will advise you "no"! The first time may not be the best but it will stick in our mind the most (well, 2nd place after the best sexual experience you'll ever have~)
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2011): Suprising! How can men avoid a female. I feel men always try to find girl like you.
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reader, askmeanything2  +, writes (20 February 2011):
 why take the risk of catching something when you could get a vibrator and use it as often as you want.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (20 February 2011):
 What the hell is wrong with going to a male prostitute???
They are impossible to find in the UK, they do not advertise and the prices and conditions they demand (hotel rooms, perks etc) make them very, very expensive.
The suggestion to go away on holiday to have sex, is very common and the usual way that British women can have anonymous sex, or find a man who has sex for money if they want one. (statistics will back me up, if you need evidence, just ask)
Where can you find these British heterosexual male prostitutes you talk about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): I cannot believe what you people are writing here! Cheating? Wear a sexy short dress and tons of make up to the nearest bar? Go to Ibiza, Zante or Benidorm on a sex cruisade and carry condoms, watch out for rapists, strange taxis and stay with your friends???? What sort of dodgy and dangerous advice is all that?It's occured to me that there is some sort of wild taboo surrounding prostitutes in the English speaking world. What the hell is wrong with going to a male prostitute??? He would be kind, caring, give you all the attention you could possibly want, no strings attached, with upmost discretion and hygiene and it would be miles safer than picking up some horny drunk moron at a bar or touring through Ibiza as a cheap slut!!OP if you want just sex and nothing else, don't mess about, go to the professionals. It's safe, no strings attached and the job will be done properly.
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (14 February 2011):
 The wait is a painful journey for a lot of people. And there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. You have to be honest with yourself. When you look in the mirror, what do you really see? Inner beauty? Outer beauty? Both? Or neither?When I look in the mirror, I see inner beauty but no outer beauty.Most people only care about looks. That's why I have never had a girlfriend. The truth hurts.But what should you do? I think you should wait another 6 months before you take the drastic step to see a male prostitute. Keep in mind that if you regret this decision, if you go through with it, you will regret it forever.If you don't regret it, then good.But no-one can predict the future. You have to do what you think is right at the time. Then what you're willing to live with.I hope it works out, whatever you decide to do. I am not trying to influence you one way or the other. I just want you to be aware of possible consequences.Life can be very cruel. Some decisions we make can't be reversed. If you lose your virginity to a male prostitute, you will remember it forever.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (14 February 2011):
Ah British indian, yes the explains things... men think they have to marry you and are frightened they will be killed if they just screw you....
Have you told your guy plain and simple.. "hey Mr, I don't want to be a wife, I want to get screwed". UK white guys do understand that same more modern Indian girls have sex outside marriage, but they are frightened to offend and make a mistake.
Do you have a mixed group of friends, containing white or black girls. If you hang around with mixed girlfriends at nightclubs then guys will know your not traditional.
Male prostitutes are too difficult. They don't advertise very much, they are usually reserved for very, very rich women and you contact them through friends.
If you really just want sex, then arrange a European holiday to somewhere like Ibiza, Zante, Benidom (spain/greece/canary islands) ..... any 18-21 holiday will do. In places like these, there is lots of sex, your far away from home so there's no one to tell you off. Make sure you carry condoms, and drink sensibly. You must go with a group of girls as there have been rapes in such places. Also only use legal taxis and make sure you and your girlfriends stay together at all times. That's where many women/young girls can find mindless sex with little guilt and few restrictions.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (14 February 2011):
No point in paying for sex if your under 50 years old. Go to the nearest bar or nightclub in a sexy short dress, wear tons of make up, carry some condoms, and the men will screw you for free.. no payment needed.
You sure your British????? Thought most British girls know how to get laid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): I am the OP-
I am Indian, born and bred in the UK and I date white men. All three men are white.
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (14 February 2011):
 Sounds like ur not british.Because if ur dating men of an eastern cultural background they will probably consider u such a catch and ask ur hand in marriage straight away :)
any western man would want to have sex with you after a month or so. There's something ur not telling us.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011): Look, thats cheating. If you want to have sex, do it with your current partner or break up.
It's as simple as that. And why go with a man-whore? Just meet some guy at a bar. It's cheaper.
Flynn 24
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): Hey sorry but I find your post hard to take seriously because you claim to have a phd yet you are only 25?
If your post is serious and completely truthful then you are not with the right men! Where do you find your boyfriends?
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