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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone. I'm really confused on what to do with my boyfriend. We've been dating for about 7 months. We were casually seeing each other at first, but then he asked my to be his girlfriend and I agreed. When we're alone he's amazing. He tells me how much he cares about me and stuff and we just seem like a real couple. When we're in public, he's really standoffish - which I'm fine with because I'm not a fan of PDA, anyway. The problem started two nights ago at my birthday dinner where he was meeting my best friends for the first time (we all go to different schools). While we were at the restaurant, he asked if I could pay for his meal, which thought was completely odd, but I agreed to anyway. He paid more attention to the other people than he did to me. When we finally did talk, he was being really short with me and basically being a jerk. When he was actually being nice, I told him I loved him (which he already knows) and he just nodded and said okay. However, what really got me upset was when my friend's boyfriend asked if we were dating and he, very quickly, answered no. Which made me look like an idiot. Then he asked the waitress for a to go box, took his food and was the first one to leave. He had me walk him to his car. When we were in the parking garage that's when he wanted to act like my boyfriend. He was holding me and kissing me and of course told me he loved me and asked if I'd leave with him. I didn't go because someone had to go back and pay for his meal. Since then he's been a blend of the guy he was at the dinner and the guy he was in the parking garage. Now I'm really torn on how he feel about me and on what kind of guy he is. I don't know what to do. Any thoughts or advice?
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reader, Guitarist  +, writes (15 February 2011):
 Honest opinion? Sounds like he's using you while trying to keep his options open. If I were you I'd dump him in front of his mates, make him feel like an idiot, cause he's not worth it believe me, you will just be hurt by him eventually. There are plenty of better men out there, don't waste your time on someone who obviously isn't bothered about being with you.
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