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Can I be in love with two men at the same time?

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Question - (31 July 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

is it possible to love two people at once or is there a diference between loving someone and being in love?i'm in love with two men. i just don't know which one is my "true love".

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2010):

it's normal.. my wife felt the same.. now she is married to me.

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A female reader, jenjen.270 United States +, writes (31 July 2010):

jenjen.270 agony auntI think it is possible to have love for more than one man, but I dont believe it is possible to be in love with more than one person. Being in love to me is all you think about is him, coming home to him, seeing him, hearing his voice and making love to him. Just the thought of even being with another man would make me feel guilty. The one you want to spend the rest of your life with, have babies with and grow old with. He is also the one who treats you with respect and shows you love. You will know when you have fallen in love, I really cant explain it, you will just know. Until then, relax, take one day at a time, and whatever is suppose to happen, will.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010):

Apparently so. Hasn't happened to me personally, but from what I've heard. There is a difference between loving somebody and being in love. Being 'in love' is where you just simply can't live without the other person/you'd die for them, etc.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (31 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntI think love is limitless there may be degrees of love but one can love many people

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A female reader, Dr.Ski United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

It is completely normal too like two people, but im afraid, this is never easy! In your head, thought's must be racing through like; 'im a player' and so on... But it is not you, it is your mind.. and how it thinks, you have no say! i guess your just the body that has too follow the orders, so use your mind now, who is more ideal for you? who do you feel safer with? who have you known longer? who do you feel most comfortable around? Ask yourself a few, then judge who is the right one for you.

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