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Dumped because I got too close to another guy! How do I get my bf back?

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Question - (31 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ok well basically my boyfriend broke up with me 6 days ago and im actually devastated. The reason he broke up with me is because he saw me being a bit 'too close' with another guy who is my friend and broke up with me right there and then. I know I hurt him and I made a mistake but i would never hurt him like that again, I love him too much. I tried talking to him but he told me that he can't trust me and that there is no going back. We've been together almost a year and it is the first time I ever made a mistake. Please help me, I can't bare the thought of losing him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010):

Thanks guys for the advice, i tried talkin to him 2 days after it happened but he was still awful upset and angry so im going to leave it a few days just to give him some time. Ill contact him then and see how he is and stuff.. Please say there's still some hope!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2010):

Ive had friends who have been in this situation,

think it from your ex boyfriends view, he wont want to see another guy get in there!

yesyesyes guys like some competition at first when they try and get you, but once youve been together the length of time you guys have, thats just out of order,

you need to think about who you want to be with, seriosuly, if this guy you were getting too close with is your friend he should understand to keep it just friendly in order for you to get your boyfriend back,

meet up with him, hear how he feels and dont make any excuses, tell him what you will do in order to make it up to him, cause i hate to break it to ya lovely, but its your job to do the making up in this situation,

lots of luck, and i hope you guys work it out!

m u c h l o v e XXX

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A female reader, Dr.Ski United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

Well for starters, an apoligy is never enough! you need to show your true emotion's too him. Call him, and ask too meet him somewhere, and discuss the whole thing there. And just agree with what he sais, if he sais you were wrong to do it, ADMIT IT, its the only way forward!

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