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We talked, he made promises, then stopped calling, now he's back, what do I do??

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Question - (31 July 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *ourtney.alexis writes:

okay well i'm not really sure what to do. theres this boy and he and me meet through another guy friend of mine. hes 17 almost 18 im 15. we had a really big thing but i would always have to sneak him in because I live with and abusive/strict father. or I would see him at my friend mariahs house, i met his parents but he didn't want to tell them he had interest in me because I was so young. We called each other babe and hun and he reminded me every day how amazingly beautiful i was. I told him everything about me and I have a very troubled past so that was hard. I trust no one. and i do mean no one. he promised to never leave or hurt me. then one day out of the blue he stops talking to me, won't answer texts or calls. So last night the friend i met him through was hitting on me and i was taking up on his offer. but then my girlfriend i was hanging out with gets a text from the boy who stopped talking to me and he was calling me a whore. Then he decides he doesn't want me talking to our mutual friend. and he tells me he wants a relationship with me so bad but he just can't. I don't know what to do. Do i try and fix things? or should i let him go? and my best friend is no help because she has a mager crush on him, so i don't think her advice helps. please i'm so lost.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (31 July 2010):

Yes let this other guy go. He called you a whore and broke all those promises he made to you. He's not worth your time at all. He'll just hurt you a lot.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2010):

Please let this go and if your so called BF was talking to him behind your back she not a good friend. If the guy that you talked calls you out of your name DO NOT talk to him. Leave him alone. Also, leave his friend alone. Don't settle for less than the best.

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