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Archived questions from: 4 July, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I am shy, would like some advice on dating and being spontaneous??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - ok, so i have never dated a girl before and I`m just scared that I might not be spontanius (sorry for spelling), romantic, or brave enough in a relationship with a girl. I`m the kind of guy that doesn`t have a problem playing games and surfing the ...

She doesn't want to be serious, is there more to this, maybe her ex boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - Ok, so this is a long story not sure where to start. I'm in a relationship with this girl I met back in High School. I was in the service for a couple of years until they had told me I was no longer fit for my job. When she and I discussed how we ...

His want for sex is exhausting me!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I just moved in with my boyfriend several weeks ago. I had been holding off having sex for a long time and we finally started having it a little while before I moved in. Now that we're living together, he wants to have sex all of the time. It's ...

Her fooling around... Do I have the right to be angry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - I just found out that my girl fooled around with this guy from work. We had known each other at the time but it was before we started dating. It just repulses me to know about it. He is a truly disgusting guy. She got checked for STDs because of him ...

My boyfriend has low self esteem.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months now. In the beginning of our relationship he was very sweet, loving, and very dependable. For the past few months he's been having self-esteem problems. They gradually get worse and worse and on ...

Partner getting divorced and I'm not sure how to help him through it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Approximately 10 weeks ago I starting seeing someone, he asked me out - we clicked immediately and both felt we had something special. Everything was pretty great up until 3 weeks ago. His wife had left him early this year and he had only been ap...

Its illegal for me to be in love with my boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Dear cupid, me and my boyfriend just got together on the 19th of june.his way older than me we are 4-5 years apart . It is illegal is my state .because i am under age but he promised me we wouldnt do anything until i finish ...

How do I find a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - How to find a girlfriend? I'm living with my parents right now. I graduated back in 2008. I never have had luck with girls. One girl went on a pity date with me to prom, and she pretty much ruined my night.....saying that things will be ...

Can we still be friends after we've broken up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - So, me and my boyfriend of a year and 3 months broke up today. Well, I told him we should just be friends which I want to do, I just don't want to be in a relationship right now because I feel too young for that, I'm only 16. Anyways, he got mad ...

Am I being unreasonable, or should I re-think this relationship?

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4 July 2010 (F) - Am I being ridiculous or do I really have a reason to re-think my relationship with my boyfriend? He is only 2 years older than me. But I have begun to find him a bit of a bore. I know it sounds terrible, but he is always asking where I am, what...

Could her friends be wrong? Am I right for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - I recently dated a woman who is also dating another man. Mutual friends of her and the other man set them up. I asked her to explain her current situation because i was unsure why after 3 months she would be dating someone in addition to him. She ...

I got pregnant and he doesn't love me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I've dated a 29 year old guy for 4 years. He has two children. Girl 11 and boy 6. Married for ten years. Said he got married because she was pregnant. Both cheated on each other. She is now remarried. He has children 50% of the time. I'm 30. We had...

How can I tell my dad and brother about my online relationship? Theyre so overprotective!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy online im 15 and he's 17..we met in a chat room and he is simply amazing..very respectful, cares about me, romantic, loving, funny, attractive, and is always putting me first..he told me he loves me and multiple times @ first I told ...

Should I hang in there or walk away before I get hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I got together with my guy about two months ago after a very long friendship. At the beginning all seemed really great - he confessed that he had had feelings for me for sometime and he seemed really keen to progress the relationship. He lives over ...

I'm shy so how should I respond to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Hi, this is really embarrassing but i really like this guy. And we are great mates, but everytime he trys to hug me, i get shy and step away. And yesterday he told me he likes me and i told i liked him to. So then he try to kiss me but i never ...

Help! I don't want to be a pscyho gf!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Hello, I have been daatingmy boyfriend how's in the military for almost two years. About a year ago I found some stuff that I thought to be unfaithful. (in my book) 1. He was texting another female friend (that he had already revealed to me th...

How did he let go so easily?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* How did this happen? My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months. We'd known each other and been really in love for almost 2 years. I gave him absolutely all of me. We really were great together and always had fun and ...

Help! Sex with my bf is a chore!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend any more and it's really getting me down. When I'm alone and I think about sex it turns me on, I even have erotic dreams but when I put him in the situations its like all feelings of passion and want fade. ...

How do I prevent arguments before they start?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of a year and four months are going on holiday for a week very soon however as of late small things he does seem to be annoying me more than usual. Also we have very contrasting ideas about what makes a 'good' holiday as we come ...

He disses me in front of my girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - I am a 22 year old guy and I have a problem with one of my guy friends. When he and I hang out, he is is regular self, and we get along fine. But whenever my girlfriend is around, he acts like a show-off and is really rude and mean to me. He a...

Was he really sleeping or not telling me the truth in his text?

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4 July 2010 (F) - Hi everyone Iposted a question a few days ago about i gave the guy i was kinda seeing a love bite and he didnt like it saying were not doing anything sexual again (Thanks for the replys ive had) Anyway since then i made the desion 2 say to sa...

He hasn't apologised this time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - When my boyfriend gets upset or angry over something, he sometimes takes it out on me. This is something he's always been aware of and normally he makes an effort not to do it and apologises if he does. But this time he hasn't. At the very beginni...

My first serious relationship and she's already broken my trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - Hello guys, I'm new on here, first time I've used anything like this. Now to get to the point.. I've been with my girlfriend now for 5 and a half months. It's been going amazing. I've never felt so close to someone before and she tells me ...

I've tried everything but nobody seems to want me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I have been single for 10 months, after the person I was in love with finished it. It has taken me quite a long time to get over them, but along the way I have been doing what I can do find someone new. I'm loosing hope ..... I've tried da...

Should I just wait for his call before I jump to the conclusion that he never wants t see me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Last Tuesday this guy who graduated with me at my school decides that he likes me. So Wednesday we went on a first date and we held hands and talked. He tried to kiss me but didn’t. Leaned in to kiss but was unsure. It was nice and I could tell he ...

Why would he want a special friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I have met this guy and I really liked him (because there's no reason not to like him) but from the very start, he made it clear that he doesn't want a relationship right now and that he is being friends with me and nothing more. But most of the ...

Afraid of commitment, of just trying to let me down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5055 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for three months since I met him in one of my classes at college. He showed interest in me from day 1 and asked me if I can talk to him on the phone so he could get to know me better. There is a 10 year age difference ...

Am I right to be angry about my boyfriend "liking" another girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Long story short, my boyfriend's friends hate me. They were one big happy group before I came along. They hate me mostly because I'm not like THEIR girlfriends (I'm not a cheerleader, I'm a freshman, and I'm not white or asian), so they think he can ...

Which guy to chose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - So right now my problem is what guy to choose heres the situation ive been with my current boyfriend for almost 4years we have had problems from day one.I still love him and we really have came along way and made it though alot but i just dont feel ...

I'm 16 and can't get a boyfriend! WHY???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - My question is basically why can't i get a boyfriend!!! I am completely normal looking, 5'8, i row and do track, have good grades, and am an outgoing talkative person with have lots of friends. I try to go after a guy and then i decide i don't like ...

How should I tell my parents I'm dating my cousin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - I'm I'm love with my cousin we have been dating for almost 4 years and our family doesn't have any clue . All our friend know we are dating but don't have any idea we are cousins. I am 21 years and hr is about to be 31. This year has been the ...

Do the questions she's been asking mean she wants a relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - Hi all. I've had a female friend in my life for about 2 years. We're both adults, well beyond teenage years. In the last 6 months, we've become much closer with one another and have a very deep, meaningful friendship. She means the world to me, ...

He wants to leave me after the summer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so I've had some ups and downs with my relationship and whatnot. Next week it will be two years being in this relationship. We've been living together for the past year or so and I've been in high school I know really young age to be living with ...

Can a relationship work when two people have nothing in common?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - Mod Note: Original Title by poster hi, I had asked a question before, and this place seems very intresting. My new question is can a relationship work out if you have little in common with someone? becasue I like this girl and we are friends,...

Age and Height Difference - Weird?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note..Titled by Poster Okay, hey there! So, I've got a quick question. I JUST got in to a relationship (like a day ago) and it's my first one ever. I'm 16 years old. The thing is: he's 19. I mean, I don't really see anything wrong with that. I've...

Is he just going through the motions to keep me close and have a potential sugardaddy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5055 days ago

4 July 2010 (M) - I'm a single, successful single company manager and have been seeing a 23 year old guy for about a year. He's cute, bright, charming and i enjoy our time together a lot. In spite of my initial hesitation because of our age gap (... and don't give me ...

He was my everything, and he's the only Daddy they know.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5057 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - Mod Note: Posters Own Title My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years now. I thought we were perfect together, we didn't fight once for the first 8 months of our relationship, and get this, he adopted BOTH my kids. But lately all we s...

I do not mind him viewing and saving porn;but he saved a picture that cleary isn't pornographic and I don't know what to think..

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

4 July 2010 (F) - My fiance watches a lot of porn and I don't really mind. He has a fetish for nylons. On a nylon fetish site he found and saved a picture of a group of girls approximately 14yrs old posing for a formal. All in dresses and nylons of course. I ...