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Dating: Help and advice

Pregnant and hurting over his selfishness, how can I make him appreciate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I'm 37 weeks pregnant and been with my boyfriend almost 2 years. And my question really is when someone is so selfish how do you make them realise how they should be because I really don't understand and really can't think what I have done to be ...

Does it mean anything when a guy says "We Have A lot In Common"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Does it mean anything when a guy says "We have a lot in common" ??I really like this guy but I don't know if I am reading into this too much but could it mean anything...? ...

30 y.o. and 'relationship-virgin'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, Major dilemma and in need of advice: I’m a regular guy who just turned 30. I’m happy with my life and consider myself to be pretty lucky with the circle of friends and the job I have. I’m gay and always knew I was – unlike some ...

Am I In Love - How can I tell?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I think ive only been in love once before, i have a general knowledge of the feelings that come with it. Recently i have noticed a subtle feeling for one of my good friends. And i cant tell if this is just serious platonic love for that person, or ...

How do you meet people in a gym or a grocery store?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - How do people meet in a gym or a grocery store? I know it sounds odd because there's tonnes of people at those places, but they always seems like places where people are just there to do there own thing (get fit or buy food) and seemed to get anno...

13 and never had a boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

29 July 2010 (?) - I am 13 and have never had a boyfriend! I read most of the questions on here and sometimes I get so upset and sad because I see others people my age talking about their relationship and how they love them and ect. At school pretty much everyone ...

I'd love to be with my ex again, any advice from the ladies?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I've been broken up with my ex for about 6 months. We were in a long distance thing for about a year. I lived in her city for about 7 months. We were amazing together. I guess the distance broke us. During this 6 months apart I've been dating and ...

When I asked my b/f about getting engaged, he says "whats the rush"? What does that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, we both have children from previous relationships, everyday he says he loves me, we have had problems in the past with his ex, she has called me in the past to tell me my boyfriend was cheating ...

Guy I'm dating has a foot fetish, how do I get him to talk about it with me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for a few months now, and we are really compatible sexually. One night, after many a drink, he told me that he has a foot fetish (which I had subliminally picked up on in any case). He got really upset about it - saying ...

Going clubbing! What to wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - This isn't too much of a relationship question than it is just advice. I am turning of age tomorrow and within the next month am going to go clubbing for the first time! My ex just broke up with me a month ago, so I am looking forward to just going ...

My girlfriend says I'm too clingy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4875 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend 9 months and she says i am too clingy... How can i be less clingy? I am 15, we both contact through texting... We both have unlimited texts so we can contact each other whenever we like? i want the sort of hard-t...

Why doesn't this guy text or phone me more often?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Why doesn't this guy text or phone me more often??? We've been dating for 3 months- although haven't got intimate yet. He is always very charming and positive when we meet and as far as I know he's not seeing anyone else. So why does it seem like ...

How can I get our relationship back to normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I am 15 in 2 months time, and my girlfriend is 15 in about 5 months time. We have been together for a few months short of a year, but in the last few months we've been together my girlfriend has begun to be really grumpy and moody with me. I...

Do you think theres any chance I could be with this girl again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Ok 2 years ago i met this girl and kinda went out with her, she was very obsessive with me totally always wanting my attention, She kept asking me a few weeks in if i fancied her, and i didn't say anything,i was scared and didn't ask her out, i ...

My partner keeps lying to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - My partner and I have been together 12 months. I'm still going through a rather messy divorce and have major trust issues thanks to my ex husband. I've made it perfectly clear that all I ask for is the truth. I don't know how to confront my partner ...

Is this relationship worth staying in?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - in a relationship with a sepatated lady for 2 months, she blows hot and cold in the relationship, feel like im on a piece of string , brings her business act home when shes over and then relaxes after a while, married for 19 years before they ...

I'm back with my cheating bf and feel horrible

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for a little over 2 years. Recently, I've found out that he's cheated on me. He says that he's truly sorry and that he wants to be with me because he loves me. I've taken him back but I'm still confused on whether ...

Discreet guy dating a canary

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I started dating a past co-worker of mine this week. I’ve been riding the brakes on any relationship potential for so long because – perhaps unbeknownst to her – she’s a bit of a gossip girl, volunteering the details of other people’s personal ...

I just want to spend more time with her and share more laughs and affection but she's not interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I met a girl through friends and we clicked immediately. Hung out in a group setting a couple of times and then had a date alone together. The date went well, we enjoyed each other's company, we had sex and she spent the night. I will say that ...

Why does my ex feel like he must rub his life in my face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Well me and my ex broke up beginning of the year, he dumped saying that he didnt have feelings for me anymore. I accepted it and just ignored him and went on with my life. Then about 2 or so weeks after that he started trying to get me to talk to ...

I was worried he was using me to get back at another girl so we broke up, but now he wont give us another chance!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i went out with this guy that i really liked and he liked me and swore he hated this other girl. well one of my friends that i really trust or i did trust,cuz i guess i still liked him and i wanted to go after him, told me my bf was using me to get ...

Should I give this guy a chance even though he could be a momma's boy who cant support himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - A guy who lives about an hour away from me is coming to see me this weekend; this will be our first time meeting. That said, I just found out he still lives with his parents, and this worries me a bit. I'm 18 and in college, and he's 19 and a hs...

My boyfriend's mood seems to be dependent on our finances! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I've been living with my boyfriend for over 4 years. We have had our problems in the past, but we've both discussed them and moved past. Some days, he'll tell me he loves me, he wants to have children with me, and he wants to marry me and spend the ...

Why are men always rejecting me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I always tell men am in luv with them and they reject me, why is this?...

I want more than that but not sure show to play it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I met this guy on a dating site about 3 months ago. We have met about 8 times and get on really well. After the first date he said that although he fancied me he would prefer to become good friends and see what happened. I was fine with that but we ...

Should I Continue to talk to him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I'm talking to an army guy who has post tramatic stress should I continue to talk to him?...

Its been 18 years since I had sex and I don't know how to move this to the next step...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I am 47 and divorced. I have not had sex in 18 years and I'm thinking too hard. I'm dating but I can't figure out how to move us from a kiss in the living room to sex in the bedroom. (Sex in the living room would be even worse.) Is it as simple ...

Does this mean he really wants to see me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I really like this guy and he has expressed an interest in me too. But, we stopped talking about 3 months ago because situations were too difficult. He travels a lot for his job so he's rarely in town and I had some things going on too. Anyway, ...

How do I open up to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - Hi, iv been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now. For the first 2 months it was great, we were both happy and got along really well. But as time went on, it seems that the relationship has just dwindled... its really frustrating for both me ...

Question for men: why is he acting like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - ok so i would like some advice , from men please. i have a few questions if you could kindly elaborate. what does a man really mean when he says these things:: After a string of dates with someone, the following occures, he is clearly interes...

How do I know that he means it when he says "I love you"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so i'm freshly sixteen and my sixteen, almost seventeen, boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over three months(:- about a month ago, now, he told me he loves me...i'm not complaining, i don't think it's too early, because i mean if ...

Why hasn't he called? Am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I'm super anxious. My bf hasnt called me in 3 days (he normally calls daily)Sometimes he forgets to call back after we've talked already -which is fine (rarely).. and he doesnt really need to call everyday but the last time we talked (Sunday)...

I don't know much about serious relationships, can anyone give me some advice on what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - im not use to all this, but ima do my best. I've been wit this chick, she the most amazing girl i ever met, but i dont really know much about having a serious relationship,, like i been talking to her everyday on the phone, and im running out of ...

He likes my best friend but then why would he ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - There a guy ( I will call him mike ) he seems to like my friend (Jane). I think were friends we talk a lot he talk to me about movies like he go to cinema and he like that movie or about some books he read is just a normal conversation be...

Why is it so difficult for me to break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 years now. We get along very well for the most part. I've never experienced anything close to this before and it's confusing me really bad. I've been in 8 relationships over the past 20 years and ...

She's 13, I'm 16 and we like each other but her mom wont let us see each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help...

What does she really want to talk about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - ok ive been talking to this girl for about to weeks and i really really like her and i made sure to get to know her and find out her likes and dislikes and i made sure to remember little things and make sure she knows i remember.we have gone out a ...

Why do the nice, smart girls always have to wait years before someone finally takes an interest in them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - my best friend is the nicest girl you will ever meet! shes cute and sweet and everyone she meets likes her. lately shes been upset because shes never been asked out. my question is why do dumb b****y girls always have a bf but nice smart girls have ...

I'm jealous of my best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5001 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - What do you do if you're jealous of your best friend. I know I'm not ugly..or horrible looking but I've always had low self esteem, no matter how much make-up, extensions..whatever I put on. She has a perfect relationship, nice body and gets ...

Why does he want to take a break?

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29 July 2010 (F) - Why does my bf want to take a break? We've been dating for almost a year and I have to admit that things aren't that great between us right now. And I think it's mostly on his side, he doesn't seem as receptive and into the relationship right now. ...

Will we ever get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I have been "seeing" this guy i met online for a while, things were going good until he lost his job and moved in with his parents he became really depressed and i was there for him through the whole thing, well a couple days before my birthday he ...

What do I do with my flirtatious boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - OP's own title: My boyfriend is a flirt. I'm okay with that cause I can be too, but he's started flirting alot with this one girl in particular. I don't know if they text each other. He has mentioned her to me a few times. The other day I met up with...

How can I make my 'stand up' bf, end his long distance relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I recently began dating a friend of a friend. We met about a month ago, and in the last few weeks have gone out about 6 or 7 times. I know he is in a long distance relationship, though he has only alluded to it, ambivalently, once (the night we met- ...

Show him I'm not playing him? (hes not replying)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: hey,so i like this guy and he said he liked me to. we went on a date,but in the end up invited a few others round to to his to have a drink/play the wii etc. after we watched a dvd the guy i liked asked me if i wanted t...

7 year relationship.. make it or break it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - MODS NOTE: OP's own title. To start off with, my boyrfriend and I have dated for 7 years. it was great up until last summer. In the summer we dont see eachother much due to us working everyday, we are both 21. whe broke up with me last summer and ...

Do I have the right to ask what he's up to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi, I have been with my bf three months now, he was my ex, four years ago we had a relationship, it was a very powerful relationship in the positive and the negarive side, we broke up and we kept loving each other in a secret way, now we are back, ...

How should I greet him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - I just met someone, and we both really like eachother. I just moved countries. I'm going to see him around Christmas time. What should I do when I see him? Hug him, kiss him, wave to him? We both really love hugs, but I'm not sure if it will be the ...

Why won't she let me support her through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and myself have been together for 6 months now and we are very happy together. Now Monday we were on a date and she got a call that her mom was arrested, and things between us haven't been the same... normally we text through out the ...

Boyfriend wont move out with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - hi aunts and uncles, I have a problem, something thats caused lots of arguments and some ill feelings about the topic, he thinks im being unreasonable, so iv come here to get a second opinion. My bf will not move out with me, i want to move...

I'm scared to find out the outcome if I tell him I cheated...what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

29 July 2010 (F) - i've been dating this guy for a little more than 4 months now, but yet i had a boyfriend (long distance) for more than a year at the same time. I told the long distance one that i was seeing another guy and this was the second time i cheated on him. ...