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Dating: Help and advice

Why all the weird stuff?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I've been with my this guy for two weeks so very new relationship. In the two weeks we've slept together every day and I've gone down on him but he hasn't done the same for me. In fact tonight I was going down on him even though I didn't really feel ...

I feel our sex life is going down the tubes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for a little over a year now with my boyfriend and I am questioning whether or not i want to continue this relationship because there hasn't been any sexual intimacy for 4 months and that is a big deal for me personally. ...

Should I be trying to work though and fight for this relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - So here is the situation any answer is helpful I'm just lost in the world. The same day I lost my job for next year, He broke up with me, he didn’t know it prior to driving an hour and a half for a talk. This talk was not really a talk more than ...

Bleeding sex!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - My bf and i had sex for the first time today. it was not how i expected it to be at all. halfway through he says your bleeding. first of all is it normal and how long does it last?...

I don't know if I trust him any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 9 months now and its been the best 9 months of my life to be honest. But recently, i've felt like im losing trust in him, he's been going out a lot more and when i ask who he's been with he just says 'mates'. He's s...

Should I be ready for the big let down?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - Ok so to those of you who saw my first question, she wasn't cheating, but she did want time off. For those of you who didn't see it, I have been with this girl for 3 years. She left for the summer to work, and I probably became a little overbearing. ...

How can I stop his sister manipulating him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I am in a relationship with a man that lives with his sister and brother in law, i feel like she is causing problems in our relationship, she has control of his money and everything else, it is like she is ok with us dating but dont want the ...

How do I let her down gently without hurting her too much?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - So first off i am only 20 years old, and very mature for my age, and i have been with my girlfriend, who is turning 21 this year, for almost a year, at first i was sketchy about even dating her because she was so different in personality than i ...

How can I prove to her that all I want is her love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - Ok, I'm 15 years old and dating the girl of my dreams. We've been together about 5 months, but we both agree that it seems like we've known each other forever (in a good way). Unfortunately I haven't seen her in a month and we started fighting. It ...

Do women actually cum too???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Just to let you know i am 16 but for some reason it hasnt changed my age on here:/ Do women actually cum? I know this sounds strange but my boyfreind asks me during sex if im about to cum but i dont know. if so what happens?? or do i just not re...

Embarrassing problem...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 9 months now and me and my boyfriend have come to the stage where we want to start doing things, i was fine with the idea, as i was ready for it too, but i have a problem with my vagina area, i only noticed it ...

I just need him to show me that I mean something to him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I'm 16 and recently wrote about my boyfriend. I just want to write and get advice about how I feel cause I dont really have anyone to talk to and it's driving me crazy. I feel empty all the time or really upset and I don't know why. I feel like my ...

How can I cope when my libido is much higher than his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - He is 35 and I'm 23! Sex when we do it is so mind blowing, problem is I am more sexual than he is, it's like I want it all the time, with him we can go a week but I can't do it that way, I'm now sexually frustrated... honestly if I start kissing or ...

I don't want to lose my friends over this guy... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - My friends and family don't like my boyfriend, they think hes a thief and we did catch him once with a cell phone but he did have a good excuse for how he had it. he had a phone that looked just like the one that was stolen/lost and they both ended ...

Is it selfish of me to keep waiting...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am currently in a LDR (long distance relationship) after dating my boyfriend for 9 months. He came to Asia, where I currently reside, to study on a one year exchange and we happened to fall in love. We had plans to move to London together...

How can I make her my girlfriend without coming off needy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - I started talking to this girl 3 months ago. We talk almost everyday for hours through text and calling. Gone out on a few dates and have slept together. I'd like to see her more often as we only now see each other only once a week to once every 2 ...

How do you stop loving someone and get over them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Ok, this is going to sound like all the other silly questions about getting over guys, but I am struggling. Everyone tells you to get over someone, but HOW do you do it? I have been in love with a guy for a long time. He makes me smile, and knows...

Does she like him or is she just messing with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - [MOD NOTE: Names Edited] Ok so I have this guy friend whos my best guy friend and he needs help with this girl he likes. So I told him I'd help him out:) Ok so this girl is named *D but she is really confusing him. She tells him she likes him and ...

He doesn't have the trappings of a guy in 2010....so?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - My kids think there's something wrong with him but I think he's wonderful. He doesn't have a cell phone, TV, internet or friends. Heck even my parents have all that and they're nearly 80. His relationship with his parents is via phone although ...

Why is he making bad decisions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I really really like this old friend of mine. i reccently broke up with my boyfriend so i would be able to go out with my friend. but last night he started talking to me about how he just dumped his girlfriend for another girl, not me. and he is ...

I feel like the romance in our relationship is fading. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six years, we are 20, we live together, we study, we get along really great, we always laugh and have a great time together, we're best friends. For the last few years he doesn't put effort in to make me feel spe...

What should I do? I've lost the spark for my partner, and developed feelings for another man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - i have been with my partner for almost 3 years now and were engaged but recently i started losing the spark for him , and ive also stared talking to this other guy i have devoloped feelings for but i dont want to hurt my other half but this other ...

My boyfriend ignores me, should I just break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend neglects me. He ignores me on facebook and doesnt reply to my texts ALOT. He always gives stupid excuses which I find hard to believe. I still love him and I'm willing to give him a second chance. Thing is, he hasn't asked for it. ...

My 18 year old son is dating someone my age!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - My 18 year old son has started dating a 35 year old woman, which is my age, I am having alot of different feeings, from near break down to breaking her in half. I don't want to do the wrong thing and push him closer to her. I can't imagine dating ...

Should I run and not look back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - [Mod Note: OP's original title] I've met a lovely man and we're in love. We'got to know each other slowly since the February and have been exclusive for 2 months BUT I have some issues that are concerning me. He was in a relationship for 5 yrs b...

Is this a red flag? How should I proceed?

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7 July 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for the past 4 weeks. We both agreed not to date other people since we've become intimate. First two weeks, he was amazing, attentive and takes me to nice places. Lately, he's still making an effort to meet up (even though ...

How to Keep a Relationship Healthy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - To girls out there dating, give love but keep your heart in your own hands. Know that everything in this world has an end, and if the relation you are is of the sort you need to have your life at the end of it. Do not forget your old friends, ...

We broke up, and now he's badmouthing me to all of my friends, but denying it when I confront him. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Okay so, about a month ago, I broke up with my boyfriend of six months. The relationship just wasn't working for me and in the end I figured out I didn't actually like him as more than a friend. It wasn't really a bitter break-up, and we said that...

I can't stand the thought of kissing him or being intimate with him, but I don't want to end it. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I love very much. I'm physically attracted to him, but there are things that I just do not like to do with him any more. I like cuddling and hugging and small bits of affection, but I am completely turned off by the idea of ...

I like one of my friends! How can I tell if he likes me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Ok so here's the deal I'm 19 and never been on a date or had a boy friend. I'm kinda a keep to myself kinda person and really shy. Well I have this friend and him and I have been best friends for like the past 13 or 14 years and for the past 3 ...

I think I like another girl more than my girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (M) - Hi i need help. about 3 months ago i started to like this girl my age(15) and we got to know each other more and more then she said that she kinda liked me too. a few days later talked again and i found out she had a boyfriend i felt as if i was ...

Is it a stupid idea to let him know I cared?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Hello, when I was living in China I dated a boy living there for a short time (in January 2010). Before we even got together I made sure he knew I was leaving to go home because my little brother was very ill. I was supposed to go back in March ...

How do I keep the distance from tearing us apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I was hoping you could help me; I recently began to like this boy that I met a few months ago. He's absolutely gorgeous (to me); he's tall with long brown hair and green eyes. We really love each other, but I feel like we're struggling to ...