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Archived questions from: 12 July, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I tell my girl how much this frustrates me? which it does... immensely without sounding like an ass?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hey, I have been in this relationship with my girl for several months now (long distance) it isn't often that we get to see each other (month or 2 ) I took a week of leave off of where I am to go see her, so we can see each other, have fun...et...

I don't know if it's worth working this out...he slept with my "best friend" and she is pregnant with "his" child....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Okay. So i've been with my boyfriend for 11 months now, and have recently found out he was sleeping with my ex best friend for a good six months of our relationship, on and off. The whole reason me and the girl fell out was because she was sleeping ...

How can I sort this out? Or rather can I sort this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hey... hope it's okay to post this here. I am in a horrible situation with the guy I am dating and I just wanted to hear what you guys thought of it. It's making me so sad and I just want to sort it out, but I don't know how. I met J about a mo...

I don't want to carry on like this so do I tell him how I feel or just ignore any contact that he makes in future.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy 5 months ago in a bar we got on really well and i ended up taking him back to my place and having sex with him. We then saw each other again 2 days later and had a great time together. But when he went back home he sent me a text saying ...

I'm back to living at home and I'm worried my mum and me will drive eachother insane! How do I deal with this transition?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I've just finished university and I'm now living at home again. But I'm a little worried about living under my parents roof after living the care-free life of a student. My dad works away during the week, my sister is starting university in Se...

Opinions appreciated. Am I still a virgin... or not?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hi so, im not sure if i lost my virginity, like his penis was in me but he was pretty thick and i was pretty tight and it was my first time so it was really sore, he pulled out though when i said i couldn't take it so does it mean im not a virgin? ...

How can I let this go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing one another for 10 (ten) months now. I love him to bits, and everyone and anyone can see how head over heels I am for him. The only problem is I feel very insecure, because of something that happened in the ...

In a relationship but I don't feel we see each other enough...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hey every1! me and my bf have been going out for more than 3 years and we're both 20(im a month older. He works at least 4 days a week so we only ever end up seeing each other once a week and we text for like 2 hours a day. I feel like this isnt g...

I found a picture of a girl in her underwear on his phone...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have recently found in my bf's phone that he has a pic of a girl in her underwear and she is one of his contacts. seeing this really hurt me and i can't seem to get it out of my head. i checked the details and it was received a month ago and by ...

Our relationship is on the line... how can we get close again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hi all :) Over the past 2 weeks me and my boyfriend have been arguing quite a lot. I've been putting it down to not seeing him as often as i want to, but he doesnt agree. We've been arguing over so many things, he thinks i dont love him, he thinks i...

Boyfriend issues...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hi, I'm 15, and my boyfriend is 17. we started dating on christmas and the first 2 months we had no fights, everything was perfect even though we barely hungout since i had basketball every day and he had to work right when i got out of practice. ...

Why this coldness all of a sudden? Is she going off me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - Okay so recently my girlfriend has stopped saying I love you and hardly saying any cute.. like not making an effort you know? I mean I just check some text from 5 days ago and it's filled with: I love you's, forever, can't wait, wanna c u again. ...

Is it just his teenage hormones and should I tell my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - hi all i have a bit of a bizarre problem, i just need some opinions on this. im 25 weeks pregnant and happily living with my partner. since i became pregnant, my partners 16 year old brother has been acting strange towards me. at first i...

My boyfriend's ex still texts him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's ex girlfriend texts him and calls him. It made me rather uncomfortable. They dated for 6 months before he broke up with her, and then started dating me about a month afterwards. It made me feel uncomfortable, and I made it very clear ...

We seem to be on different pages...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4863 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a great guy for about two months now. After we were intimate for the first time, I asked him what did he want between us. He let me know that he didn't want something exclusive at the moment. He said some other things, but I just ...

Are there any decent guys out there who just want a normal girl, someone who is just normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have lost of faith in men, I feel so stupid, I have just found out that this guy who I have just starting seeing has multiple "girlfriends", I had no idea and I poured my heart out to him about my past and why I was so shy and scared to commit and ...

My boyfriend masturbates next to me in bed and wakes me up, and gets defensive when I ask him to stop...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have been with my current boyfriend for a little over one year. We are very much in love, and have a great sex life, but once in a while have a good argument about eachother's peeves. One that I am CONSTANTLY arguing with him about is the fact ...

I found messages to other women yet he says he loves ME!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend always tells me how much he loves me and we will be together forever but I found some messages he has sent to other girls when he's drunk saying they're hot or look good or just asking to chat. I did trust him but now I'm having doubts, ...

Our trust and love is all down the drain... Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - For 2 years, my boyfriend and i has been through a lot. From cheating, to numinous of lies and dishonest but some how we manage to overcome those things and still love each other. A few weeks before our 2 year anniversary, he broke up with me. At ...

I'm worried he'll disappear, based on my past relationships! How do I reassure myself everything's fine?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for almost a month.We have a great time together but I keep worrying that he's gonna lose interest/disappear. Last guy I dated ending up disappearing once he got a car. I thought he liked me alot but apparently not. So now ...

I think I led him on and now don't know what to do

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3894 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I am 17 and just had my first kiss with a guy. I went to prom with him, had a good time, but then haven't really talked to him since last night. I never really liked him even though he's the perfect guy and now I'm afraid I've led him on with ...

Should I ask her these questions I have about the future or is it too soon?

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12 July 2010 (M) - Hi All, I am 30 years old, its been 8 months that i got out of a unhappy marriage, about 5 months ago i met this girl that i now totaly adore and love, initially when we started getting serious she did tell me that she at one point was lesbia...

Am I correct in thinking - "this is flirting"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hi Readers. I’m looking for other peoples views on flirting... I’m in a situation at the minute where I’m falling for a friend of mine (yea I know – difficult situation!) Thing is I think the feeling may be mutual... So I’ll give you so...

Do I wait for her to choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - I've been in a on and off relationship for close to 10 years which started in College. Most of the offs were my fault. The last time we got back together 2 years ago I thought things had been really going well. I proposed about a year ago and ...

Is he trying to stay away from me or is there a chance he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - i talked to this guy for a while now he always texts me everyday and we talk i thought maybe he likes me because of all the signals and i thought that he might..his cousin even told my own sister asking if we were together because he keeps talking ...

Why did he flirt with me then all of a sudden leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - i'm really confused and my heart has been really broken please help.my sister told me about a guy that was into me and that wanted to get to know me i saw him at a club once i thought he knew who i was thinking my sister showed him pictures of me i ...

I snooped through his phone, how can I get his trust back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, Today I looked through my boyfriend's phone. I know it was wrong but I was just curious. Now hes terribly mad at me and won't speak to me. We live together and he is the love of my life. He put a lock on his phone and told me not ...

Women only: Do you like the "wife beater" t-shirts on guys?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Dear Aunts, My boyfriend and I have made a bet. He says girls think guys look sexy when they wear those "wife beater" t-shirts. I say they look very tacky; especially worn without a shirt over them, and most girls think as I do. So this is w...

Don't know how to say no to my ex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have been in a reltaionship for about 10 months, I cheated on my boyfriend once during the first month. it basically killed me. i felt aweful and told him we fought but decided that we could get through it. I told my self i would never do it again ...

For all of those people that have obvious flaws, how did you find your mate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I am 22 and I've never had a boyfriend. I have wonderful personality, I'm intelligent, educated, I love new things, having fun, and I am decent in terms of looks; I have a nice body, cute face...the blatant flaw is, unfortunately my...

Men, would this turn you on?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Here's a question for the male readers. You're at a bar by yourself one night, listening to a band and a woman comes up to you who is not really that great looking; short hair, big hips, kind of flat chested, has alot of tattoos and she walks up to ...

We've been friends -- is he interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I've been Friends with this guy since the middle of the school year. We weren't good friends or anything. Partners actually. But we text every now and then. I hung out with him all Weekend And I REALLY like him. And it seems like he may be int...

I fell for him but wonder if he still likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - ive fallen for someone and i dunno if i regret it or not we went out few days ago for the first time, and got on well, we kissed and that at the end of our date but i dunno if he wants a relationship, hes sucha nice guy thou, like amazing i had a...

Do you think she's interested in being more than friends with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (?) - My boyfriend has a college major that requires him to work in groups for projects very frequently. Someone often in his group is his best female friend. I don't care that they work together in groups, but it always seems like she's trying to take ...

What do you think this song means and why would you ever post that as your status?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - Song is called "Stereo love" by Edward Maya and Vika. If your a guy, what do you think this song means and why would you ever post that as your status. Yes, I'm over-analyzing but this guy is NOT emotional. Is it when you meet a new love...o...

What scents drive him wild?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

12 July 2010 (?) - Are there really scents/ perfumes that snag a man's attention more than others?? this is something a friend and I are dying to know! I once heard in college that vanilla scents were proven to send blood straight to the privates...um is that true ...

Her shyness is holding her back from oral

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

12 July 2010 (M) - hmm... were to start, well ive been with my girlfriend for 15 months now,we have had sex but never oral, all of a sudden she comes out with she wants to give me a blowjob but she is scared, i can read her like a book and what she means is she wants ...

REAL Love!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I have written this blog a few times but I thought I'd write it in an "article", that way people can always view it. To love a person, first and foremost you must KNOW them personally. Lots of teenagers say they "love" a celebrity or are "in love"...

Worried about sex with my new b/f

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - I've dated this guy for almost 3 years, we had sex a lot. I'm 16, but I'll be 17 in November. Well me and my boyfriend of 3 years broke up a while back and I've moved on to someone else and we have been dating for a couple months, we've been good ...