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Dating: Help and advice

Lovers or just friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy at work. The pair of us work at a daycare camp for kids. He and I had a conversation that really changed my mind about me. I'm unsure if he likes me or is just being friendly. He's a country boy and said I'm a pretty lady. Also at the ...

I have an attraction with the other woman...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I recently met a woman who I started dating. I was rather unimpressed with her so over weight and that she was not really a good looking person. We have no plans to extend this into a relationship as we agreed that we were just dating. I do like her ...

I'm wondering if she's going off me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I'm really confused. I've been kind of together with this girl for a while now but we're not a proper couple. We've both liked eachother for a long time and everything seems to be going well. We meet up a lot and stuff. The past few days have been a ...

How should I approach this man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - there is this man that works in a shop i go in. whenever i go in he says hello and smiles at me and comes over to me. my friend says it is obvious he likes me. i dont really know him and we havent talked much. but one time we did, he talked a lot ...

She became distance and wouldn't even hug me everytime we tried to rebuild our relationship. I still want a future with her

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5003 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I need help. I dated my girlfriend for a year and a half, and it didn't take me that long to realize she was the one. On top of that, she would always talk about "when we got married" and how I was "too good to be true." Needless to say, she was ...

How to meet and date when I'm overweight and underconfident?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I am looking for advice please, about meeting and dating girls. I am very overweight, and sometimes can be very underconfident. I know it is possible that my weight won't put someone off, as I have been in a relationship, but now I am uncertain a...

What does a women look for in a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - What is one of the first things or characteristics a women sees when looking at a man for the first time(potential boyfriend)?...

Can a player change? how do you know if he has?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - there is this guy that i really like that i would pretty much do anything for. he has been a player for along as i have known him and has always told me the truth. he says he has changed so i guess my question is how do you know when a player is not ...

Does penis size determine if a woman will stay in the relationship?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?...

Would I be living in a sexless marriage if I was to marry this girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - My problem is very specific. I love my girlfriend and we are together for almost 4 years now. I have plans to marry her and to start a family with her in about two years and she agrees. We have been living together for 2 years, so we know each other ...

Is it possible not to like sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Is it possible not to like sex? I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a few months ago and we've done it somewhere between 10-20 times but I still don't like it. Sometimes it hurts a little but at other times it's just uncomfortable or I can't feel ...

Relationship failing because of my step-son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for four years now. We have a chld together and one on the way. We both had son's before we got together. I have tried to get along with his son, but have found it impossible. His son is a lot older than mine and he is ...

My boyfriend's dad died a while ago... how can I get him to talk?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's father committed suicide two years ago. I know the story of how and why.. but I want to know more about him. Like what he was like when he was around and their relationship. But I don't know how to get him to open up and talk about ...

After a year of dating, is it appropriate for me to ask him to pay for part of the babysitting fees?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so I have been dating this guy for over a year now. I was widowed about 2 years ago and had 3 children with my husband. Financially, it has been very hard and my new BF knows that. Every time we go out on dates, I have to ask my family to help ...

Retrograde jealousy

This question has 102 answers - newest was posted 3854 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - DearCupid sees many stories about men and women who find out after they are married that their partners have more sexual experience or partners than was initially understood. It is a very real problem for the one who is devastated to discover the ...

Should I not be interested in a man who is trying to break up with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hi I'm very confused and hope some of you can help by offering an outside perspective. I've been seeing a man for a year now. He's absolutely great - lovely, kind, sweet, intelligent, caring, sexy handsome, great job, generous. He's not perfect ...

I do not love that she calls me every single day and tells me she misses me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I have been dating a girl named Harmonie for 2 weeks and i really love her but what i do not love about her is she calls me every day and tells me she misses me every flippin day that we aren't together and it is starting to piss me off because i ...

Did I mess up here???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - hi last night i was in town and i was very drunk, i recently moved back into my mums, and ive been seeing a girl i really like, i went town with her and like i say i was very drunk and invited her back to mine, we ended up having sex but to my horro...

16th birthday prezzie needed for my boyfriend! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I need a 16th birthday present for my boyfriend. By then we will be dating for 8 months. I want to get him something kindda special that he can keep, and stuff. I was thinking of a Picture of the two of us and put it in a nice frame. But idk, if he ...

Totally disappointed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Totally disappointed... Almost a year ago I met a wonderful guy. It was all very romantic at the beginning. However with few problems even then...He just broke up an 8 year long relationship. And he lives in another country. Not so far, but still......

AM I going to fast here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - I've been going out with this girl since last Sunday and I think i'm in love but don't want to tell her yet however I'm not sure she feels the same with me. On sunday after I asked her out we both went swimming and it ended up me holding her and it ...

Is he just taking me for a mug???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone i need help my partner and i been together for 3 years, hes stolen money of me 3 times and I caught him using my credit card. i got angry with him when he did ths before and he promised he wouldnt do it. He then stole money from my ...

I don't think I love or am attracted to my girlfriend in the way that I should be...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5002 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, can you try to help me out here. It's a long story but i need to know whether i'm being selfish, uncaring and greedy or whether i've got a serious problem in my relationship. i met my current girlfriend 2 years ago, though have only...

Is 18 really too young in your opinion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so it's my 18th very soon and my boyfriend who I have been with since I was 14 has mentioned getting me an egagment ring more than once. I have thought about it seriously and I want to say yes but I cant help thinking perhaps we are too youn...

I am not sexually satisfied. Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - My GF and I have been living together for 2 and a half years. We get along fine, but the sex is not often enough (once or twice a week), and it is not good enough to make up for the days of no sex. I used to get alot of BJs, but those have stopped. ...

Is it because she's younger than me she has such a high libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - ok I started dating a much younger girl 6 months ago, the sex is unbelieveable. Its wild, fun, kinky and man its daily. Is it her age (she is 22 I am 40), my age, just because our relationship or is the chemistry just that good between us. I cant ...

LIVE porn???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I finally got used to the idea of my boyfriend of two years regularly looking at porn without me. However, I have seen in his internet history that he now looks at porn-live, where he can chat with and have live 'porn' with the girls of his cho...

Am I using Max to combat my own lonliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4944 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - About 1 and half months ago my relationship of only 6 months ended with my bf. he was a great guy, he used to love me a lot. So much that after i broke up with him he was devastated, then later he started hating me a lot because he thinks im a ...

Its complicated but we're still mad about each other..what should we do?

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25 July 2010 (F) - Almost a year ago I got romantically involved with a very close friend. At the time we shared a house and worked together. His feelings for me resulted in his ending a long term relationship. His ex also worked in the same building so it was very ...

Why has she treated me like this and how can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I am a twenty four year old lesbian that has recently fallen head over heels in love with someone that is, to be frank, not interested! Obviously, this is not the first time I have fallen victim to unrequited love, this time, however, it is slightly ...

My boyfriend's parents think I'm too old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy back in march and hit it off instantly. A few months after I found out that he is only 18 and I'm 23. At the time I was upset but fell in love with him and realized that age is just a number.....right!?! U has a bit of a hard time with ...

I don't want to lose her but I'm not sure how to keep her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - CAN ANYONE TELL ME WHAT TO DO PLEASE.About four months ago,I met the most wounderfull girl ever,and after not beening in a relationship for four years it was realy great to finialy find happness after so long.I am 46 and she is 38 everything was ...

Do I go for the old ex-girlfriend or the girl from the strip club?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hi thanks for the answers. this is a followup to this question..http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-friend-doesnt-want-me-to-go-to. Alot has happened since. for the record i dont go to strip clubs looking for love i dont even believe in love....

It turns out I was in love with her... should I make a move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hey y'all. Sorry I haven't been giving advice too much lately, I just haven't been online too much this summer. Anyways, I'm having a little emotional dilemma. My best friend is a woman. Our relationship is closer than any relationship I'v...

Do I date my ex again? Or just stay friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, A few months ago I was dating a woman who decided to break it off with me. Her reason was that she was in a special stage of her life. I was heart broken over it because I had grown to really like her. The advice of the closest...

I finally get to ask her out... and she says no!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Hey I'm 13-14 years old and there is this really cute girl in my class and she has broken up with her boyfriend a month or two back and I've already asked her to go out but she said no and she just wants to be friends I've liked her since mid ye...

I want to find a man for my mom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Im about to be a senior in highschool. My mother who is 42 just ended her 20 year marriage with my dad. Im worried for her. My dream was to always go to college in newyork and study abroad i have eerything figured out. i have the grades that ive ...

I'm big but can't get anything!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - Im a 20 year old guy, who has just never been lucky in the dating department. I dont know why, Im not overly attractive but Im not ugly either. And its not like Im not gifted down stairs either. Most girls would love an 8 inch long penis thats 6 ...

My bfs family don't like me and I don't understand why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - hi (: i have been with my boyfriend for 17 months, and we love eachother so much. hes my first love nd im so happy with him.. just one thing: i dont think his family like me very much, i dont know what i have done to upset them? i know me and my b...

I have problems with sustaining normal relationships...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - Ok well... For the past few years ive been dating differnt men and i always seem to fall for the ones who are no good for me. When i say this i mean players, cheaters etc etc your typical "bad boys". From doing a lot of soul searching within...

Why did he assume I would hurt him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - hi all, in need of a little advice. a month ago i met a really nice , decent guy, through online dating. we had 5 amazing dates over the course of 4 weeks and connected and got on so well. sex wasnt in the equasion , we just enjoyed eacho...