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Dating: Help and advice

Should I wait this year out to be with him even though he may break my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok sooo. Last year I dated this guy who I was totally in love with but he basically broke up with me a week after we had sex. I felt totally used and hurt. Though he promised me it wasnt something he liked doing but he couldnt do long distance he ...

He wants me to choose between him and his brother...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend and we have been going out for a long time i love him a lot and his older brother is my best friend. His brother was acting a little wierd around me and then he told me that he loved me and that i have to chose between him and his ...

My boyfriend hits me I need help and advice please!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old, Basically i have been with my bf for a year and 4 months into the relationship he started getting violent. it began by him punching things around his like a wall or the car dashboard, then when he got more angry he started to ...

SICK of oral...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I really enjoy oral sex, both giving and receiving it. The only person I've ever done this with is my current boyfriend. Not too long ago, we were joking around about oral sex (I'm not going to go into needless details) but I joked that I would come ...

Do guys like toys too???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Do guys EVER like vibrators on there cocks? if so where on the balls? i want to try it on my BF but he's never tried it so any advice would be great!!...

No matter what I do to make myself look better it backfires... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Okay, I guess I don't where to start here. I guess I can start by saying that I'm in a relationship with a man who I love. This is also the first "serious" relationship I've had(that is where I feel like the love is requited and the man treats me ...

Do I tell him... or keep my loyalty with the club?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - We have a social club that hires a gentleman to entertain weekly. I am currently involved romantically with him. Unfortunately, I just found out that the club is going to discontinue him next year. Do I tell him or keep my loyalty to the club. I ...

He said he needs sex to feel commitment!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I asked a question awhile ago and the answers I got were not the ones I was looking for, so I am going to add more detail and ask the question a little different. I have known my boyfriend for 2 years, We have been dating now for 7 months. His o...

How long am I meant to last during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - Hai, I am 24M. I had sex when i was 21 and it did not lasted for more than 10mins and my gf broke up with me as she wanted to go long. since then i gave up untill a week bak i met this woman who was 35 and we met and very soon got so comfotable that ...

In dire need of advice!! Is he too weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Been dating a man 10 yrs older than me (never married, no kids, engaged a few times) for 3 months now. I thought I was in love with him after a month or so, but now when I say it...I just don't feel it. I think it's because he's a bit odd. He's in ...

Will 18 year old boyfriend be in trouble if my parents approve of us dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Hey there. soo im kindof confused.ive been looking for the answer everywhere. But im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 my parent approve of us dating im almost 16 and we wanna have a kid as crazy as it sounds but will he get charged by the stated with anyt...

Ex boyfriend doesn't want to date me but keeps asking if I am dating.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5027 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i broke up about four months ago and i was really upset he was my first boyfriend and not to mention my first love. He said he was moving away and ended up not moving which was the reason for the break up and he also didn't know ...

Do I play it off like I know nothing about her "secret date"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4944 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Lol i forgot to mention that I am not a female age 20-22 I am a male 36yr old. This is my sisters page. Ok here goes. This girl that i like and myself recently (about 9 days)got into a verbal spat and to kinda let it die i havent contact her sin...

Will my boyfriend's feelings towards me change if he knew I liked lesbian porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I am a female in my early twenties and I like to watch lesbian porn sometimes. I'd say I watch it about 50/50 compared to hetero porn. I'm worried that my (serious)boyfriend will think of me differently if I tell him I do. He likes girl on gi...

The Psycho In-Laws

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Okay. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and his parents still hate me. :( I'm 15 and so is he.. and we are both virgins. We want to have sex, but there isnt a time and place for it. We never get to spend time together outside of ...

Unique gift ideas :)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - OK here are some unique gift ideas you can use to spice up you and your partners life. Last year my bf turned 27 and I wanted to make the day special for him and to keep him busy with excitement: 1) Since he turned 27 I took a marker and drew ...

Are soulmates always destined to be together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, and about 4 months ago I've met a guy one year younger than I am. Initially it started as friendship, but soon enough we developed a very strong bond, and we started hanging out more and more unt...

I like him but he never wants to go out!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a problem. My boyfriend never wants to go out with me. He says it's becasue he doesnt have much money, which he doesnt, as he doesnt have a job, is on Income Support, which are benefits that he gets from the government here in the U.K, and he ...

He says he can't love before sex!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has this thing, where he feels like he can not love me until we have had sex. He says, that it's not like he doesn't want to he just can't, and he thinks it's the only thing holding him back. I want to know if any one else feels this ...

I am sooooo trying to give her her space but I'm also a bit confused here...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - Hi Firstly I would like to apologise for the length of my post, I wanted to give you as much information as possible so you could make an informed decision I was dating someone for 4 months and it was going along very well without any hiccups...

One of my breasts is much larger than the other.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have a lot of problems and don't know where to begin but I guess I'll just start. I have one breast that is much larger than the other one. In school kids called me quasimodo. I have to be specially fitted for bras. I have never had sex. I am ...

Boyfriend heading off to college, how do I keep up a long distance relationship without being paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend is a year older and heading off to college in a 2 weeks. While he's not a hardcore party junky, I'm sure he'll attend a few over the next year, and make new friends, some of which will inevitably be girls. My question is...

How do I deal with my boyfriend going into the military?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I'm currently in a relationship with my 23year old 2nd cousin and he is going into the military and I don't know how to react to that. we have had sex many times and that makes it even worse because I won't get to see him yet I want him more and ...

Do I tell him that I love him? Or do I hide it seen as he has a girlfriend and is going to a different college?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I recently connected with a guy. We talk everyday and all night. I knew he had a girl friend and i respected that. I even kept my distance. The other day he insisted that we meet up before we both leave for college so i did. It was amazing. We went ...

Who should I be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I have been going out with this guy and we dont really get to see each other as much. We have never been intimate with eachother. I thought when we first start talking that I was so lucky to be having a chance to go out with him. But now that ...

When are you supposed to know if the relationship is just physical or there is potential for more?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - so I started casually dating this turkish guy 9 months ago after initially meeting in a nightclub. the first 2-3 months were great, we would speak daily and see each other either every week or every 2 weeks. and i must admit i was extremely happy ...

How can I show my boyfriend that my male friends are ONLY friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - How can I convince my boyfriend that my boy friends are just that, my boy FRIENDS? I offer to have him hang out with me when i'm with them but he always bails and I can't get them all to meet... ...

Should I give up on love? Everytime I like someone it seems they don't like me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Ok so I have a brother and he is on a team for baseball. My brother is also on a travel team. There is a guy that is on his normal team and travel team. Ever since about four months ago I have liked him. He is a year younger than me. Before I liked ...

What things can I do to make this awkward moment more relaxing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - i just met this super cute guy and his dad would like me to come over to his house. what do i say to him? what do i do when we're alone together? ...

Why do I always get stung by those I'm nice to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - ok so i'm a really nice person, probly the nicest person in my whole skool, i'd do anything and everything in my power for the people i care about and i'm pretty much friends with everyone worth talking to. My problem is is that i get so close to ...

I am falling in love with my cousin, what should I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

30 July 2010 (?) - ok im 18 and i am falling in love with my cousin i want to be with her and dont know what to do.... she and i are close we tell each other stuff we wouldnt tell anyone else what do i do i want to be with her so could someone help me...

Will his past affect our future, and is he worth sticking with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - What do you do with a guy who seems to have a past? I mean it doesn't barther me as much as it use to, but I'm curious. But I don't want to ask and hear something I wouldn't want to hear. He's had A LOT of sex. He doesn't even know the number. ...

Why do I date outside of my race?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Help, I can't understand why I've never dated a guy my own race or age. It's so weird...the other day, a man asked me if he was the first white man I've gone on a date with. I said no and this led to me admitting I always dated outside my race. He ...

My bestfriend likes my boyfriend , what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - what do you do if you so called bestfriend likes your boyfriend ...

How should I ask him to my prom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I just want to be prepared for when this event happens, and I know it will pretty soon. Soo now I'm a senior, and we all know that's a great accomplishment and all. So anyways I was thinking of going to my prom with someone outside of my school. I'm ...

Guy keeps trying to contact my girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - MOD NOTE: OP's own title: Hey people, So me and my gf been back together for almost 2 months after a breakup and things are so far going okay. But the guy she was talking to during the breakup still from time to time tries to call and text her. An...

Dont want to be his fwb, I want all or nothing, but how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - I don't get him at all! I've been talking to this guys for over a year now. Sometimes we'd be on and off because I wanted to get rid of him but it looks that won't happen anytime soon. So I text'd him last night actually, just to see what was up. ...

Can someone explain this cheater to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Why would a guy cheat before getting engaged, not tell their partner they cheated on them, proceed to get married....and then say that if HE were to find out that his fiance cheated on him before marriage, that he would definitely leave her, and not ...