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How can I unleash her libido?

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Question - (31 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2010)
A male Nigeria age 26-29, *e LuV DOCTOR writes:

Hi,i m sad and need your help.I just found a new girl friend who turns out to be a sex guru..She does lots of sexy things to me during a blow job wish gives me satisfaction.She hates using protections and i love her for that,i intend f****** the h*** out of her to night but i m worried,because i can't make her orgasm during a blow job and during an oral i don't know where,whan and how to touch her in order to unleash her libido.I can't ask her this,cause i want to astonish her and we both hate holding conversations while having sex.So i need you to explain to me the things that increases the sex derive of a woman..I mean the things that makes a wowan to orgasm or ejaculate...Thank you...

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A male reader, rivi United States +, writes (1 August 2010):

I would be VERY worried about a woman who objects to condoms.

Effectively you are risking disease from every man she has ever been with - that could be a lot of men.

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A male reader, De LuV DOCTOR Nigeria +, writes (1 August 2010):

De LuV DOCTOR is verified as being by the original poster of the question

De LuV DOCTOR agony auntThanks a lot i really appreciate your insight...

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A female reader, VenaCava Indonesia +, writes (31 July 2010):

VenaCava agony auntThis is kinda tricky, because different woman prefers to be touched/pleasured in different ways.

You are one lucky man to meet this sex guru, and it is very sweet of you, for wanting to return her the favour.

From what I’ve ever read on some “sex-ed” books, females need constant stimulation to reach her peak. So don’t ever stop once you started (except if she tells you to stop, then stop right away, because you are doing something wrong).

Take care of your pace, does she like it more when you’re gentle or rough? Does she have particular interest to kinky stuff, for example like Role playing? Voyeurism? Light BDSM?

Don’t worry too much if you can’t bring her to orgasm right away. It takes time and practise. You are in the beginning of your relationship with this girl; you have all the time in the world to explore the romance between you and your girlfriend. Since she’s enthusiastic about sex, you will get the exercise you need more often.

Have fun and good luck

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