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Archived questions from: 8 July, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What should I do to grab my crush's attention?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Well i have been at this company for a few years.. i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well.. he is pretty popular in the office as well..does get attention and i am very quiet. i socialize here and there b...

Am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - hi i m 16 n i hve a bf, say his name is John.We hve been dating for 3 mnths.I know that he loves me a lot and even i love him a lot but neither does my nor his parents know that we are dating .I m sure my parents wont allow me to see him anymore if ...

Is it wrong to be this ready or is it just that I'm more mature than most females my age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been talking for about 19 months but we've only officially been dating for 14 of those months. He's 20 and I'll be 19 in September but neither of our families has a problem with us being together. We've had our ups and ...

Confused to tell him how I feel...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I've only started dating recently. He's my childhood best friend since we could walk. We are very humorous with each other. But we also have our moments where they are very sweet and sincere. For the first time ever, today, he told me he loves me ...

Why do some men prefer "a good friendship" over a loving commited relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I understand some of the usual excuses... loss of freedom,been hurt before, loss of space, one lover for the rest of their lives, etc but I just can't wrap my head around the emotional aspect from a man's point of view. I have been told that the ...

Wife to be mentions wants to buy a paid woman to orally service us during an encounter

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - Hi recently my wife to be has said one of the things that turns her on is the idea of her buying me a working girl to Partake once in our love making. Her interaction would be strictly limited to oral sex and breast work and fingers, with no ...

My unsympathetic prat of a boyfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - About a year ago I developed a lump in my left breast about the size of a ping pong ball. Eventually that lump has increased significantly to the size of a baseball. It didn't hurt or anything and I don't know how it happened but it did and it's ...

3 steps forward and 2 steps back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. Stuff lately hasn't been going so well, but it seems like we always have the same problems over and over again. I blame myself for a lot of the stuff ...

Help!!! Sexually frustrated!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I'm sexually frustrated, honestly he is not giving me some. I have tried all you can think of, now I want to tell him I'm sexually frustrated, hope I won't ofend him... help what to do?...

How do I stop looking like a fool and get over this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - hello all, My boyfriend of 4 months has got back with his ex without even telling me. His sister had to tell me, I hadnt heard from him for a week, and now I find out he is gonna try and make it work for the sake of his children. Im gobs...

How do I react to his comments about relationships???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year and a half now. We've been long distance this whole time, but we talk every day. We've had some issues in our relationship. He's cheated on me before, and has told me that he has thought about ...

It concerns me that deep down he wants to be with other people...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Here's the deal.. my boyfriend keeps hinting about how he thinks it's fine for girls and guys to be "friends". I get that, I understand that, I know it's healthy for a relationship. But.. here's my problem ... he only has one male friend and the ...

How can I reinforce in her mind that she's the only woman for me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I met on eHarmony almost a year, and it has been amazing! I feel like we were made for each other. We've called each other soulmates. I proposed to her on April 24th, 8 months after our first date. I found out today that she i...

My girlfriend doesn't show her love anymore! I'm falling apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - I am in a relationship with my girlfriend who I've been with for some months, the thing is that I feel out of love with her. I try so hard to love her and support her as much as I can, even her family enjoys my company and they support our ...

What should I say to my BF to keep us together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] My bf and i have either split, or are splitting, or may split, I'm not entirely sure, he kicked me and said he didn't want to see me again, but that was after england lost and an extremely tough weekend of me nagging and us havi...

Boyfriend says we're over the "lovey-dovey" stage!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year and it was fine at first all the lovey dovey holding hands and kissing. now he says we are over that stage. i don't understand why it stopped. i still want to do all that what should i do?...

Does it bother guys if you havent been kissed yet?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - im just wondering but do guys get repulsed when girls havent been kissed before??...

Not really looking for a relationship but confused if I should follow up with this girl I met on Saturday..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - I met a girl on Saturday and I thought we had a good conversation abit maybe a little drunk. I phoned up after we left the nightclub and spoke for about an hour. I thought I had spoken to her before that night (on a previous night). She seemed very ...

Boyfriend doesn't have a car and I have to drive him everywhere

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4289 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - okay my situation is this I've been dating this guy Rigo for about a month.Well he lives like 15 minutes away from me.I have a car and he doesn't.So yea when we want to see eachother I have to drive to him.We went on dates and I had to pick him up ...

50 year old virgin

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - Hi i just turned 49 this year and was with some friends when i realized that i was the only one without a family. In fact i have never had any real relationship before... the closest i got was in 98' when a work partner(also a good friend) moved ...

Should I even try to make this relationship work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Ok so I met my ex through my best friend because her bf is really good friends with him. We had a connection right away but I put off hanging out with him for awhile because I was unsure about getting into another relationship. But no matter how ...

My mom thinks I'm too young to have a boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My mom is being so protective over me ! I have a boyfriend, we're both fourteen and madly in love with each other. I thought telling her the truth that i have a boyfriend would be so much better but it turned out worse ! Whenever...

In love with someone who seems to feel the same, but the future looks bleak for us...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - to start with m a 22 year old girl....i was in a relationship of 4 long years which unfortunately ended 6 months ago....i was very depressed nd ol at dat time as every girl is...den i met a guy in college...really sweet, caring nd goodlooking too ...

My boyfriend tells me he doesn't believe in marriage!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and we have a wonderful relationship. In the beginning I wasn’t too sure about him but now I'm very sure that I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I know that he feels very stron...

Should I force an issue just to be near him for a week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Hi, I’m a doctor and I need to locum to make extra money at present. Is it too forceful to arrange a locum shift for an entire week at my boyfriend’s hospital (and by default move in for the week) just to be near to him? I could locum anywhere...

Since his desk is right next to two of my supervisors, how should I ask this guy out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - There's a cute, in my "league" work-study student who's been flirting with me since I came back to school this summer and found that he was a new addition to our department. So, I'd like to ask him out to the movies this weekend during work ...

Is it normal to hide your feelings when you have a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - Please tell me if this is normal or not, but I hate it when I start to crush on a girl because I feel weak, mainly because I don`t have the confedence to tell her I like her or anything like that. When I crush on a girl, I just feel like a coward ...

Nervous about seing an old friend that I have feelings for again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5053 days ago

8 July 2010 (M) - Ok.. so I started camp a week ago and made friends with this girl I like. She left the first week, and might be coming back the third week, which is next week, and my gut keeps telling me things will be awkward and I don`t know what to do. Should I ...

Boyfriend is on/off with me and I'm going insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I really do not know what to think. I am British he is American(military) and we met in Korea on internet site. We started going out and we broke up as he was evasive and luying and putting his profile back. He is 40 and I am 41., he was marr...

Is this going anywhere, or did we hit a pothole?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - I have a long distance guy friend, and im in love with him -we've been talking every day and night for a year and half now, but he won't ask me out, and for whatever reason i can't figure it out, but here is the catch, we had sex, just twice, a...

My boyfriend of over 1 year didn't get me a birthday present, how do I tell him this bothers me without sounding materialistic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of over 1 year didn't get me a birthday present. It's not the value of the gift or the actual gift that bothers me, it's the fact that he didn't give me anything at all, not even a card. We went out to a casual dinner and he paid, but ...

Relationship that never goes smooth...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5053 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been off and on for 3 years. The last time we got back together, I called him and begged for him to take me back though ive been immature, selfish and hurtful in the past. We've been back together for 2 months now and it ...

Is there REALLY an age limit on love???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4804 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...

Boyfriend's family reunion?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5052 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to go to his family reunion this Friday... But I don't think I feel comfortable going. It's not that I don't want to meet his family or whatever. It's just every time we're around other people and it's not just us hanging out, ...