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Dating: Help and advice

Constant arguing, need help please

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half we are 20 years old and are planning to get married in the next two years. The only problem is that we fight a lot, they start off small and turn into huge fights. We have broken up so many ...

Do I really love her or am I just used to how things are and don't know any differently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - This is a little longwinded but here I go. Here is the background, I have had a g/f for 3 1/2 years and so far a year and a half of being apart. She studies overseas we spent our first year together and then she went on to school we decided ...

Help! Is there a chance for us to be together again? Does she still have any feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I met this girl online and we went out and we got very close, we would text all day every day, talk for hours every night, and I made her my gf. We did tell each other "I love you." We are no longer together because she started talking to another ...

Why isn't he public about us???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Ciao dear friends, i'm a 25 year old woman having a long distance relationship with a man i met 8 months back, he's really caring and calls every day but the thing is, he never takes me out when i go to visit him. i know he's not married for sure ...

Why is she so unsure about us now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for almost a year and a half. She means the world to me, and she's my first real girlfriend. Things have always been good until lately. She always tells me that she loves me, and she used to be quite ...

I had my twins aborted and years later I still feel a numbness about having done it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - When I was fifteen, I fell pregnant. Me and my boyfriend (who I'm still with) had been together for over a year by then, and I knew what his reaction would be if I just came out with 'I'm pregnant' without me having thought about our decisions ...

A guy who can't stop staring inappropriately at other women

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - I have a problem. I started dating an amazing woman approximately 5 months ago. I'm very much in love.I'm a 38 yr. old male (divorced 9 months ago) I looked at a couple other posts on this subject, but wanted to provide my story and hopefully get ...

How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - My gf and I have been together almost 4 years we broke up and now have been back together for about a month now. But I have this deep gut feeling that she talks to other guys and holds things from me. I hardly know about her friends thats he talks ...

How can I find my Prince Charming?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - do fairy tales come true in real life? will the prince sweep the princess of her feet and will they life happily ever after ?and all the romance movies can it happen in reall life? and if so i want one of these stories 2 come true in my life.. how ...

He told me he likes me! Can things go back to the way they were?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5042 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My best guy friend broke my heart. He admits to me he likes me and ive always had feelings for him and so i was really happy. Then a couple weeks later he asks me out, it was ovr txt and i sed ok but i want you to ask me in person (it's just one of ...

Help! I'm disgusted with myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! Ok so I met this guy at a mall and we got talkin,and that went on for a few days after which we exchanged numbers..so he asked me out on a date he really liked me..and then we went out had dinner it was fun,he dint want to drop me back ...

He dumped me. Does he want to get back together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4998 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Hey all, my boyf of 6 months finished with me as he said he couldn't cope with me being depressed. basically i have been off work for 6 weeks as i hate my job and have been looking for a new one. my doc signed me off for one more week, my boy...

Since my boyfriend's family know of my genital herpes, I'm not allowed at their house, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - So, I'm pretty sure I have genital herpes. I told my boyfriend this when we first started dating (5 mo. ago) and that I don't get breakouts often (2x in 6 years). He was okay with it, but told his brother (without me knowing) because I guess he ...

How do I know if it is worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - *OP's Original Title* Background: i just got out of a 14 yr abusive marraige and ended up re-connecting with an old friend - we hit it off perfectly and became lovers. When we are together it is the most wonderful feeling. I have never felt lov...

Should I go out with my uncle's friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Ok, this is kind of a strange situation. I know this guy who is friends with my uncle, and this guy is married to my uncle's ex. Lately, my uncle has been said that this guy has been asking him to ask me to come along when they go out for a drink. ...

He'd rather text strangers than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - my boyfriend of a month often goes away on business trips but he's not very good at keeping in touch while away (even though he says he will). 3 days ago I sent him a text to see if he's ok...he didn't reply anything. After 2 days of no rep...

Boyfriend is into casual sex and I'm appauled by it.. unsure if I should accept this..?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend has had 6 sexual partners(including myself).now me on the other hand i have only had 2(my first, and him)..Only 1 out of the five he had sex with,was while he was in a relationship.. the rest just casual sex..Now, MY opinion of ...

Does she really like me? She says she wants to break up, but her boyfriend isn't letting her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Ok I'm in love with this girl for quite a long time. She has a bf and being with for almost 5 years now. Recently, she told me she's not in good terms with her bf. She knows about him and have initiated break ups many times but he forced her to be ...

How can he love me when he ignores me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i were talking to each other everyday and he says he loves me. Then hes mad because someone stole his trailor. So the next day he didn't call me and i waited. I called him the second day and he didn't answer. Then four days later he ...

Is she interested in me or not? Should I try calling her again today?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - So I met this girl online a few months ago and we talked for a bit and I got her number. We made plans twice, (once in late may and another in early june) but they failed to go through because she never got back to me like she said she would. So I ...

I just wish I had guys liking me too, how can I feel better about my appearance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

17 July 2010 (?) - Well ive been told that i was ugly, flat chested, and flat butt. It really hurts. I was also told today the same thing. Now im just sad. how do i make myself feel better. My friends have guys liking them and they talk about it all the time. I want ...

Does this mean he's over me? Should I bother?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - A guy liked me for a year and showed it through the typical signs, e.g. staring, trying to talk to me, even offering to help me once. It hadn't been long before I developed feelings for him but the problem was that I responded quite shyly, if at ...

In love with a classmate who already declined me..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Hi i'm 19 and seeing this girl in class, she's 17, hot and i cant stop looking at her and she likes staring at me too.But the problem is that last year i opened up 2 her and told her how much i love her but she told me that she has a boy friend n ...

Is what he did acceptable? Am I just being immature? I feel so sad and annoyed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - on friday night my boyfriend and i hung out and had dinner. he told me on thursday that he might be going out but wasnt sure yet. when he picked me up on friday he was very indecisive the whole night, and kept asking me 'should i go out?' he asked...

Best ways to snog someone...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, If I could have some advice it would be much appreciated. Me and my girlfriend are happily together and we are comfortable about holding hands and kissing in public. I was just wondering, how do you snog someone? We are bo...

Unprovoked insecurity and anxiety in my relationship...any advice on how I can help myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

17 July 2010 (M) - Hello, I’m going to say sorry ahead of time for the super long post. (Err.. essay.) Hopefully it’s bearable for someone. A little background information for you. I'm 22, and I've been dating my 19 year old girlfriend for 9 months ...

Where do you draw the line of being too picky?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - has that ever happened to you where you get asked out or hit on by several men in like one week and your not interested in a single one? What is wrong with me? Am i being too picky? I mean i know what i want and none of these guys fit the criteria, ...

New, good-for-me guy, or old, not-so-good but can't get over him guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I dated almost two years. He was 24, me, 20. I shared a lot of "firsts" with him, and he went behind my back, and cheated on me physically, and emotionally. He says there was nothing wrong with our relationship, and that he ...

Should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy (let's call him Seth) this summer. We met in this out of town class that I went to. It lasted an entire week, so we saw each other a lot. I would frequently catch Seth looking at me instead of paying attention to the lessons. ...

How can I find a guy for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I'm 19 and have never had a boyfriend. I know it's extremely young, but everyone else started dating at 13. I've gone on dates and hung out with guys, but nothing ever seems to work out. Either guys are interested in me and I'm not interested in ...

Should I give him my number?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5044 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - There's this guy I met a couple weeks ago and we hit it off. I spend quite a bit of time with him because we sail together. He hasn't asked me for my phone number or anything or even to hang out but we always have a lot of fun when we are together ...

I'm 13 and have a son with my boyfriend, but I'm attracted to someone else!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I am so confused right now, I have been with my bf for 2 years we have a son together. We love each other very much and our sex life is great. But I am attracted to another man. Am I wrong for this? Its not a sexual attraction. Me and my bf are ...

Is he playing hard to get or is he not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - what's the different signs of a guy playing hard to get and just simply not being interested...

He's distant most of the time, but then reappears out of nowhere!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for about 7 month now. Before we use to see each other more becouse i was in school and i sneak when i had the chance to see him and he will meet me no matter what.. lately becouse school is over i havent had ...

Should I continue to pursue him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5043 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Met guy online, talked for a week, spent 6 hours together over the weekend. Had plans for the following weekend, he bailed - we continued to talk and then he sent an email saying the spark wasn't strong enough. Didn't reply right away but did send ...

My boyfriend is acting strange, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - well i have been with my boyfriend for aprox 2 years now but we are always arguing its usually to do with him being jealous, some people told me hes just being stupid whilst others said it was my fault. about 2 months ago i broke up with him and he ...

Are we a couple or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I've been seein this guy nonstop for a month. He calls daily - sometimes 2x a day. He told me at the beginning that hes not seein anyone else and hopes the same of me. I'm not either - he knows this. Well I was curious by this point as to what we ...

I'm scared to have sex again, it's been so long. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5044 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Well i haven't had sex but once and that was when i lost my virginity...it wasn't what i expected so that's why i refrained from having sex for a year but now im in a relationship with a guy who i truly love and i really would like to get intimate ...

I want to give myself and my virginity as a gift for my boyfriends birthday, good idea?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Ok so im 19, never had a boyfriend before, recently met the most amazing guy, he's 30. its a large age difference but we get along amazingly! we haven't had sex yet, although we have touched each other intimately during kissing sessions. he is ...