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Dating: Help and advice

How do you become just friends with someone you are attracted to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - How do you become just friends with someone you are attracted to? There is a guy I know who I now is strongly attracted to me as I can tell by his body language but I believe he is in a relationship. I do not want to lost contact with him bu...

Should I or shouldn't I go out on a date with an old friend? My boyfriend and I are having big problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years now. We lived together for 2 of these years, and moved out a couple of months ago, because I wanted to further my education and I couldn't afford living on my own and school. Since then, th...

I thought I was his girlfriend? Why did he do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 5 months now. We used to text every day, he used to be really nice and romantic with me. we started having sex, and he is the best i ever had. he started calling me his gf for a while but as a joke. after a ...

Pregnant... and my boyfriend left me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I found out about 3 months ago that I am pregnant, and now he is leaving me... What can I say to make him stay, why is he leaving now and not 3 months ago... Help!! Thanks guys... ...

I don't know her nor anything about her but I DETEST her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Me and this guy broke up in march i'm still not over him - we were together over a year, he was seeing other girls whilst he was with me i found out, i then ended it. I still think about him every day, and i'm starting to think maybe i fell in love. ...

Crazy little thing called love!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - A woman 12 years your husbands junior posts a comment on myspace you find disturbing enough that you ask your husband to take down his page which he does. She wrote "you're alone and so am i.. and no engagement is going to change that.. let's get ...

Shady goings on...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend is my soulmate. When we are on good terms we tell each other that we feel so complete with each other. But we argue all the time, my boyfriend is the type of guy that will bring stuff back up just to keep the arguement ...

How do I learn to relax? My boyfriend says I need to relax.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Recently my bf and i had definite plans to hang out the following day. I asked if we were still on and he said he had to go look at cars etc but would call me when hes done - see how he feels/if i want to hang out (hes in the process of tryin to ...

Did HE put this picture on Facebook???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5015 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - hi, everyone need some help if yall wouldnt mind taking the time, please, and thanks. so yesterday my soon to-be husband comes home from work, we're laying on the bed talking and im checking my facebook on my phone and there was a photo downloaded ...

His love making is getting rougher, it makes me feel like a sex object.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - When me and my boyfriend first got together nearly a year ago it was perfect. he was romantic, attentative and amazing. the sex was well balanced, sometimes we would have healthy rough sex and try lots of things, as well as other times making ...

Was it really all my fault...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hi. My name is Shelby, and I'm in desperate need of help. See, my boyfriend and I were together for 10 months and 18 days, but about 3:30 on the 18th day, right when me and my friends went into the Mall that I've been dying to go to for months, ...

Why is he acting so distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Here's the story: I confessed my love for this guy and he told me he felt the same. He didn't make any first move so I asked him out first. And it went okay. Eventually we went out a second time but it was always me, making the first moves like...

The condom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going on two years together. We've been arguing a lot lately so the past weekend I didnt hear from him nor did I see him. He keeps a condom in his wallet, its been there for months, thats our emergency condom because we have ...

How can I gain closure from a love that could have been?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I need some advice on how I should go about gaining closure. I need to fully get over this guy from my past and the regret along with the "what-ifs" are driving me crazy. The thoughts of him are not a constant thing but it does happen once in a whi...

Is this a sign that he's cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I am living with my baby father recently i saw a condom in his bag which is different from the type we used i was wondering if it is a sign of cheating....

What do I do about low "volume"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I'm 41, healthy, and very sexually active lately. I was in a long term relationship where sex was like once a week and I'd maybe masturbate once or twice in between. I always came a fair amount... at least 8-10ml or more. Now I'm in a relationship ...

I'm in love with an "easy lay!!!"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a woman that I think I love. Recently I spoke with someone that happened to go to college with her, and it came out that she was... not what was known as a chaste girl, let's say. Now I don't have a problem with a w...

How should I cope with first time sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hello My Lovely's!! , I really love my boyfriend and he's the first ever guy i feel completely comfortable around, we are both virgins and have been talking about sex for a while now. I really want him to be my first and we have a very serious r...

I don't want to keep him a secret...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I am 13 nearly 14 and i have had a boyfriend for a few months now... but i havnt told my family not even my mum because i have an older sister and her and her boyfriend take the mick... what do i do... please help x ...

What do you do to maintain a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4940 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - What do you do to maintain a relationship? To make sure the feeling doesn't fade and keep it interesting? What both parties should do? What should I do, on my part? What are the secrets to you relationship? And what if, he's working miles away and ...

Is my boyfriend not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Is my boyfriend not interested? We met three weeks ago for a date and weve been going out for only three weeks. He called me every day that one and a half weeks then he works because hes a roofer. Well now he doesn't call every day which i don't ...

He says he doesn't want to impose himself on me hence why he hardly initiates dates, why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hi all, I have been dating a lovely man for the last couple of months. He has treated me well, and we have a lovely time when we are together., We have been on holiday together 9 at his suggestion) ,been to lovely restaurants and he has done ...

Every girl seems to like the boy I like! How do I express my feelings to him?

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20 July 2010 (F) - Dear Aunt Agony, I really like this boy who is older than me by a year. But I don't know how to express my feeling to him! Every girl likes him! ...

How can I make my mum like him again and see that he's a nice lad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I live in a bad area of our town and recently my boyfriend of 4 months got a threat off a random person and then a month and half later got attacked on the canal. it was nothing serious but now my mum doesnt want me seeing him as she says he is an ...

What does anyone think he wants because I am so confused right now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - i was seeing a man for 2 years, he became a very very good friend to me, we helped each other throu difficult times, he told me he didnt want a relationship just yet, was into his work and enjoying himself. i had no problem with this man, he was ...

He's moving on! How do I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - A guy liked me for a year and showed it, but I was quite shy and never really showed it back. Now since the start of this year, he's ignored me and now he doesn't even look at me (even finds a way around talking to me in practical situations) so I'm ...

Fallen for the exchange student living with us, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - so recently we have gotten an exchange student living with us for a year and yes i realy like her, what should i do? i dont want to make a mistake and have awkwardness for a whole year, but i also like her a lot. its crazy because ive only just met ...

How can I tell if she loves me too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Im in love with a girl sincerely.Im very sweetie. Everyone likes me not because of my beauty but my character, well-Behavior. But I dont know whether she is loving me or not.How can I confirm that she loves me? P.S. She is modesty and religiou...

I'm scared to makeout with him because I don't know how!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - i have beem dating my boyfriend for over a month now, he kissed and everything, im scared to "hookup" or "makeout" with him, because i dont no how to. can you please help me?...

Is it a bad idea to pursue anything with her because we work together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5038 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I recently started a job editing for a film production company and there is this girl who I'm working with that I think might like me. I immediately noticed her and I find her very attractive. The other day we were working together and had lots of ...

Does he really think I'm not his type? Or is he lying? Or throwing me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I'm just really confused right now... Okay my friend told me that there was a boy who was just staring at me at this meeting in school, so I didn't think anything of it. But then he asked my other friend if I had a boyfriend, so I thought, he's ...

My cousin dated the guy I liked once I had moved away, but now we want to give things a try but I am worried about hurting my cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Hello guys I really need some good advice,i am in a very complicated situation! So 4 years ago I was 16 I dated this guy but only for a one month(we were very close friends before anything) he was my first love and I really loved him,but for some...

Why hasn't he asked me out if he's actually interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - There's a guy who works at the local gas station I frequent after my job (2nd shift). He's always really nice and chatty. Once, he told me that I am "soooo pretty". Another time, that I am the "prettiest thing", and another time told a customer ...

Where is this going? Does he care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - We have been together for nearly 2 years we are both in our forties, I am going through a huge financial crisis now, and barely making a living, my boyfriend has knowledge of this and makes great money. I have never been known to ask for money and ...

How do you date in this crazy world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - How do you actually date in this crazy world, when guys act so alloof and indifferent that all they want is a quick sex(my experience). I was in 7 year relationship, that ended. It was mutual, as we became so indifferent to each other that it ma...

Is there anything I can do to make a relationship out of this or should I just get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4932 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - ok so during this school year i met this girl first semestre that i really liked. But i blew a couple oppurtunities to ask her out and now we dont talk. So then, move on and next semestre i meet this really pretty girl who wasn't single first ...

An ex girfriend that I am still in love with, or the new girl who loves ME?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5039 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Okay so I am currently seeing two different girls. One girl happens to be my ex which i dated for 1.5 years and the other girl is a girl that i work with. I have a lot of feelings for both of them, but my ex is the one that I am always having ...

Is this as much trouble as it is worth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4929 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hello I have a little bit of a difficult situation here and would like to have some advice as i'm mega confuzed I recently travelled to visit a friend, however her house mate lets call her (D) met up with us in town and we went for drinks and w...

I have discovered my true feelings for her but now we are apart, should I ask her to wait for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5041 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - I have been in relationship with this girl, i know beyond doubt that she loves me but i did not love her that much, until I traveled out of my country now i started having the feelings i never had for her, i have discovered that i love her, but we ...

What is the most effective way to pursue these girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4931 days ago

20 July 2010 (M) - Hello everybody, So on Saturday my friends and I went out to a bar. I met a girl (29) and we talked for about 40 mins, danced a bit, and I ended up getting her number. She left shortly after that. Later in the night I also met another gir...