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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have just started at college and i have taken a shine to a female tutor. It is distracting me from my work. She is fantastic, with a great smile and personality. I even stay behind to talk to her. She touches my arm alot and rubs it. when she talks to me. It makes me go weak at the knees. I have seen her do it to other students and it makes me jealous. Do you think i should be careful with this situation?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the advice you are probaby right, she is very frhendly and well liked by others. I guess i shouldn't let my feelings get in the way i wouldn't want to get her in trouble if i tried to act on them
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reader, Heartbroken in love  +, writes (6 September 2009):
Well if you see her do it to others than there is nothing particularly special about her doing it to you. If you want you can take a risk and express your feelings but if you think it is too risky than leave it alone. She could be a very caring individual and so therefore she has affection for the students. Since she seems to touch others I would look for other signs that she seems to do with only you and not others.
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reader, MissesConfused +, writes (6 September 2009):
Yes, you should be extremely careful. This tutor is probably just a friendly person, and would rather offer clients comfort (what, with rubbing their arms and smiling) than discomfort (like normal, boring tutors.) I'm sure every person has a crush on at least one teacher/tutor, and sweetie, you're no different. I advise you to forget these feelings before they become too powerful.
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