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writes:Do all guys want their gf's to be 'one of the guys'? By this, I mean do guys want their gfs to behave and act like their male friends? Do they want their gfs to get completely drunk off their face with all their friends? Do they want their gf's to make lame fart jokes with their friends and talk about football non stop, and any other typical 'blokey things'?Has a guy ever broken up with his gf because she wasnt enough like his guy mates?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 September 2009):
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell my bf broke up with me for all those reasons. I know its true because he told me that he wanted me to be more like his guy friends. He would always say "why cant you be like laura?"- thats his best friends gf. She was exactly like that. He was always admirering her and they were quite close. But yeah she was very guy like and did all of those things and thats what my bf said he wantd me to be like. He was always trying to make me be like that but i couldnt. She was so guy like, that she loved watching porn and she could easily sit with a big group of guys and look at it. She would even be able to say really gross/dirty things and basically act like one of the guys and make comments about the girls boobs and stuff.
I myself however, I would get so uncomfortable I would have to leave the room. I coudlnt stand it. And they all made me feel bad for not likeing it. They couldnt accept the fact that it made me feel uncomfortable. I told them they can watch it if they want but dont force me too. they still tried to force me and all made fun of me for not wanting to see it. I just find it so degrading and i feel so violated being forced to watch it.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (6 September 2009):
 Well everyone has different tastes, but in general no, I'd say they don't. They want a girl who can roll with it when they (the guys) act like that, but I don't think they'd want a girl who is exactly like their guy friends. I mean, you love your girlfriends right? But does that mean you want a guy who acts like them? No. If a guy did, you'd want him as your friend, not your boyfriend. Guys want girls that they consider friends to act like one of the guys, but a girlfriend should be a GIRLfriend.
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