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writes:hey whats up guys and girls i need help i dont know what to do. my girlfriend always dresses nice when im not going to be around and she never wears nice things when i am does she have something on the side, is she cheating on me is she going to cheat on me i dont know please help its driving me nuts...also to she treats me like shit i do everything for her and once i dont do something she flips and sulks she asks me to do everything and i just about do but she still treats me like shit she doesnt do shit for me like if i want to go some where early in the morning she never wakes up and we end up not going and im understanding that she neads her sleep so i dont care but when to day i slepped in when she wanted to go someplace she flipped when i woke up and i didnt evan know she wanted to go please help Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2009): Act out of character!
When she comes home from school and takes off her "Nice" clothes, to wear something shitty, act like it doesnt bother you.
Make an effort to let her see you coming back from work/school wearing something nice, and then change it to shitty clothes when going with her.
Do this for at least 1 month every day/week, and maybe you will see a difference. but always remember ACT OUT OF CHARACTER, DO WHAT YOU WOULD NORMALLY NOT DO! it keeps there mind wondering about what the hell could be going in your mind, the shell realize that she spends 3/4 of her day thinking about you!
Good Luck!
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (28 September 2009):
 Well, maybe she doesn't wear that kind of stuff around you because she is not ready to go to the "next level" yet with you and she is afraid that you will try to take it to the next level. Other people, will just admire what she is wearing and are not likely to touch her, depending on the person.
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reader, Helples +, writes (27 September 2009):
 Yes, I definitely understand the reason for you to worry. Have you asked her directly about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey thx for the advise shes treating me a little bit better now that we spoke but she still never dresses to impress when im around like when she went to school she wore my favorite jeans and a top that showed of her breasts after school we got together for a movie and she wore the skinny jeans that i hate and a baggy sweater mean while im dressed to impress i wore the guess jeans she loves on me and her favorite guess top, to day shes wearing TNA pants witch i love another shirt that shows off her breasts and shoulders that you tie up in the back and she knows i love that kinda stuff but she never ever wears stuf like that when im around i mean she wears that stuff to work to school just any time when im not around and im concerned who is there to impress you know
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reader, Helples +, writes (19 September 2009):
I think communication is the key. Have you asked her why does she dress more stylish when you're not around? It also could be that she feels very comfortable with you and knows she doesn't have to dress to impress you. =] But don't assume the worst, it's not healthy for the mind or the heart.
As for the other part, tell her she has to inform you at least the day before if she wants to go out so you won't sleep in. Ask her once in a while, if she could do the same for you. You're definitely going out on a limb for her, hopefully she can do the same. I hope the best for you and your girlfriend. =]
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (19 September 2009):
Sounds like you need to find someone else.
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