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He has done this before where we break up and then get back together...??

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Question - (24 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and I have had a rough month kind of like constantly walking on eggshells. He went out on St pattys day all night and didn't call me which I found disrespectful since we live together. I called him the next day and he gave me the worst attitude. That's when our past problems boiled to the surface its been a week and we've hardly spoken I said if move out but he hasn't given me my share of the apt. And he's been going out every night. He says he can't trust me this isn't working ive packed my stuff now I'm just waiting for the money. Secretly I don't wanna leave him but he says he doesn't care about me anymore. I don't know if I should believe him since he's said this before and we've reconciled. I don't know what to do please help.

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A male reader, guppypig United States +, writes (24 March 2009):

He is bored with you, having sex with other women, feeling guilty and lashing out at you as a result.

So why do you want to be his doormat so badly?

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A female reader, crazykit666 United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2009):

Maybe you should try and move out for a while? Even if you do get back together then at least you have boh had a breather. Plus, he may realise that he misses you when you are gone? If you do move out, don't contact him straight away, give him time.

Let me know how it goes?? Good luck x

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