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I want him to know I'm inviting him over sex. How should I say it?

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Question - (25 August 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

If you ask a man you have started dating over to your house for dinner , will he think that's a euphamism for come on over and we'll have sex?

I'm kind of hoping it will because I've been on two dates with a guy but they were just coffee/ movie and we've just kissed and I want to do more.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009):

Invite him over to watch a movie and "cuddle." He will assume there is a possibility of having sex with you from that alone.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

DoubleM agony auntHmmmm. Well as an older male who has been around a bit, I'll have to partly disagree with previous posters. Sure, invite your prospective lover over, but give him the opportunity to make the move. He should be man enough to realize that your availability and your invite obviously constitutes an opportunity. If not, he may be an idiot.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

Good heavens, aren't you familiar with 'chemistry'?

If your alone and uninterrupted, if it's in the air it will happen. If it doesn't, despite your having brought him home, then it's not meant to be. Don't overthink it.

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A male reader, EllsworthT South Africa +, writes (25 August 2009):

You don't have to play games with most guys. Call him, tell him you're ready for a physical relationship, ask him if he wants to come over. Short and simple. If he isn't there in 10 minutes, he's got issues.

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A male reader, ALLOVERIT United States +, writes (25 August 2009):

ALLOVERIT agony auntHim Being a man Im sure that thought is more then likely sitting very anxiously in the back of his mind. I think you should say nothing and when he gets over, get to work.

Everyone loves a surprise.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2009):

just let him have dinner and then you pounce on him as a wolf pounces on its prey!hold his arms and tell him that they look so sexy and muscular.tell him that you want his sexy arms to rub your clit.then race of with his pin.

have fun.

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