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Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old?

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Question - (20 August 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old? Is it wrong for a 24 year old to masturbate to pictures of a 16 year old?

There this neighbor that I know that is 16 years old and I am 24 years old. I can’t help but being attracted to her in a sexual way and an emotional way.

She is good looking. She is not a supermodel but she has a look about her that I can’t just hope be to be attracted too. She is also one of the nicest girls I know.

I have printed pictures of her from her facebook account (she is fully dress in all of them) that I have masturbated too.

Is this normal behavior?

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A female reader, k_c100 United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2009):

k_c100 agony auntThe age difference is quite large so people would frown upon this. But the weirdest thing is not that you are attracted to a 16 year old, but that you are printing pictures of girls off Facebook and masturbating to them! If I knew any guys were doing that over me (no matter what age I was) I would be horrified!

Having an image in your head is one thing, watching porn is fine but to print out pictures? That is taking it to another level! That is almost like stalker behaviour, if she ever found out she would think you are sick!

By all means have a crush on her, that is totally normal. But stop the weird facebook stalking and masturbating to pictures of people you know, that borders on disturbed!

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2009):

starfairy agony auntUmm...My sister's 16 and if she brought home a guy who's 24, I'd think why the hell can't he get girls his own age?? Age differences might be ok when you're older, and yes girls might mature faster than guys, but seriously, she's barely legal...

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