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Why won't my fiance sleep with me?

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Question - (20 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 August 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi i dont know what to do with my fiancee and our sex life i ask for sex in a nice way and not just oh i want sex and i still get turned away, it getts me realy frustrated and most time so angry because i dont want to argue with her but more so that i dont know what is happening to us. she doesnt talk to me at all. she would rather stay on her phone texting her mates or stay on facebook than talk to me. we dont realy go out much as there isnt realy much to do around here and funds are tight, but im am on my last straw. i dont want to lose her as i love her dearly but she just wont open up to me and tell me why. all i get is i dont enjoy it. i try so hard to get her to enjoy it but i just fight a loseing battle. we have been together for 4 and a half years and not once has she reached orgasim. i feel realy let down as i keep thinking its me but what am i to do... i dont know what i can do no more as i love to make love to her but i just keep geting pushed away. then im the one being distant! how! have u guys got any advise? i cant talk to her as she just gets the strops. im 23 and she is 22. HELP!

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A female reader, starfairy United Kingdom +, writes (20 August 2009):

starfairy agony auntShe doesn't know what she likes. Alot of women have low sex drives, but it's not fair that she's not even giving you the chance. Is she really worth all this? One sided relationship...Sounds like you're working at it and she's not. Sounds like you could do better...

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