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writes:me n this guy liked each other over a year, but he told me he doesn't want a gf right now. Me n him had a relationship w/o da title but ppl knew we were "together" n we never cheated on each other.a) should I just give up completelyb)should I waitc)should i wait but still mingleI just dont understand what held him back, he said if he wanted a gf, I would be. I guess another question is what would make a guy not want to make a girl his gf if he likes her for over a year? I know 1 reason is b/c he's about 2g2 college but wat else? Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (15 August 2009):
 He likes you but not enough to make you his girlfriend. Some guys will happily take sex and companionship from someone that they don't want to officially "date", if it's available. He was honest with you up front at least.
If you're not happy with the situation, let him know that, and tell him that you can't go on like this. Instead, you want a relationship. He may not be on the same page as you, but that's life, and I wouldn't expect him to be if he went out with you for a whole year as friends with benefits.
If you want a real relationship, don't settle for anything less.
Good luck.
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