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Give him a chance or listen to what I've heard?

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Question - (15 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *emmax writes:

Hello.

i have been with my boyfriend for 3days now and people who have known him years and have past's with him say he will just use me for sex and that he will f**k me about and when he is out with his friends or drunk that he cant trust himself so he's likely to cheat on me, i dont know what to do as i havent known him that long and i don't really know if he's the one for me anyway. Do i give him a chance or listen to what ive heard?

Please Help Gem xxx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (15 August 2009):

I would give him a chance but don't have sex with him.

You are underage so if you don't want to and he buggers off them you know that's all he was after.

Go out with him but be very careful with your feelings and don't have sex with him till you are 16.

If he waits and is faithful all that time then you know he's a really nice guy and worth hanging onto.

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009):

If a car salesman tells you his cars are great and everyone else in town tells you he's a con artist, do you buy a car from him?

And what if you confront him about his rep and he says, "okay yeah, all those bad stories about me are true. But I've changed lately. I don't wanna be a crook anymore." Do you trust him now?

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A female reader, gemmax United Kingdom +, writes (15 August 2009):

gemmax is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok, thank you. but its not only girls :( x

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