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writes:me and my boyfriend are both 19 and have been together for 4 years with about 2 months break with in them years. hes slept with a girl in one of the months we split what im getting over now. ive been talking to some other guy whos telling me that im really spechil to him and that he really likes me and that he wants to go out with me, he knows im with my boyfrind but he still thinks we should meet up. Ive been talking to this other guy for about a year and ive noticed that my feelins are growing for him, im so confused as i love my boyfriend and we have a good relationship, but he never tells me that im spechil to him or says any thing like that to me.im not to sure what to do as ive told this other guy that i like him loads n he wants me to dump my boyfriend. I dont want to cheet on my boyfriend or split up with him but i dont want to hurt this other guys feelings by telling him that theres no chance as i do really like him a lot. what shall i do should i tell my boyfriend whats been going on or should i just end it with this other guy before it gets out of hand? please help
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reader, Jay_xxxxx +, writes (15 August 2009):
 I think you should tell your boyfriend what has been going on, if you do decide to dump him then he should have the right to know why, and he may be able to help you. Tell him that your not sure what he is feeling for you as he never tells you and you need to know otherwise your just wasting your time on him. He should understand how you feel as he has had some feelings like these for the other girl. But don't for get to tell him how you feel about him. Hope I helped a little bit Jay x
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reader, purple_butterfly  +, writes (15 August 2009):
I think you should split up with your bf if youre not interested like you seem. cheating is always a bad idea and your bf doesnt deserve it. However , Id advise you to weigh the pros and cons of being with his other guy over your bf. sweet words like " youre special to me" dont mean that the other guy loves you more. Your bf has been with you for 4 yrs and m sure theres a reason behind it. Like people say, grass is always greener on the other side. I have a bf who doesnt talk romantic but deep inside he loves me a lot and I see it on occassions that are very vital to our relationship. A few guys cant express what they feel very well. Its upto you as to what you what to do. But a better idea would be to think properly before.I hope i helpedlove
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