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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for the past two months. In the beginning, knowing he smoked weed, it didn't bother me at all. Just recently, he has began to smoke almost everyday. I have made it clear to him that i don't want to be near it and for him to be honest about it. which he has done. For some reason though, it just seems to bother me knowing that he is unhappy and has to smoke to make his life better. I've talked to him about it quite a few times but he's made no attempt to change. I don't want to leave him because I'm happy being with him. I just don't want him to have to do this to improve his situation. What should I do? Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): If you're happy being around a daily drug user, just wait... his life will revolve around drugs more and more as time goes on. It may seem exciting at first, but it's a downward spiral down... Drugies hang out with drugies... not folks going places - now some drugies graduate from high school and some even go to college. However, what you'll see looking back is that they fail to develop the skills needed for them to be successful. Using drugs at 15 results in folks not learning how to deal with emotions, feelings and pain, and once they stop using drugs to numb themselves, they're lost... some can over come it, most have a VERY DIFFICULT time...So, if you're happy now, odds are good that it's temporary... if you give some of the most important deals of your life you may regret it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2009): From my point of view, i advise to see a counsellor for advice how to get him quit smoking weed . I wish you success . Good luck .
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